{"id":10140,"date":"2016-01-10T21:54:57","date_gmt":"2016-01-10T17:54:57","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/kultur.az\/?p=10140"},"modified":"2016-01-10T21:54:57","modified_gmt":"2016-01-10T17:54:57","slug":"mu%c9%99llimlik-t%c9%99miz-qiz-s%c9%99n%c9%99ti","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/?p=10140","title":{"rendered":"M\u00fc\u0259llimlik &#8211; &#8220;t\u0259miz q\u0131z&#8221; s\u0259n\u0259ti&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong><a href=\"http:\/\/kultur.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/10\/12108797_10207817971677409_4302331997601798134_n.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignleft wp-image-9689 size-medium\" src=\"http:\/\/kultur.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/10\/12108797_10207817971677409_4302331997601798134_n-300x300.jpg\" alt=\"12108797_10207817971677409_4302331997601798134_n\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" \/><\/a>Aysel Abdullazad\u0259 yaz\u0131r:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"color: #000000;\">\u0130ctimai \u015f\u00fcurumuzda formala\u015fm\u0131\u015f q\u0259libl\u0259r var ki, sad\u0259c\u0259 el\u0259 \u015f\u00fcuralt\u0131nda yer edib \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259. He\u00e7 bir reall\u0131\u011f\u0131 yoxdur. \u00dczd\u0259 olan, g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u0259n tablo tam f\u0259rqlidir. He\u00e7 bir ayr\u0131mc\u0131l\u0131q etm\u0259diyimizi deyirik, ham\u0131 h\u0259r yerd\u0259 q\u0131z v\u0259 o\u011flan u\u015faqlar\u0131na f\u0259rq qoymad\u0131\u011f\u0131ndan a\u011f\u0131z dolusu dan\u0131\u015f\u0131r. B\u0259s, m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259 t\u0259hsil\u0259 g\u0259l\u0259nd\u0259, icra olunacaq m\u0259cburiyy\u0259tl\u0259r ortaya \u00e7\u0131xanda niy\u0259 o f\u0259rqi h\u0259m\u0259n ortaya qoyuruq? G\u00f6r\u00fcn\u0259n o ki, \u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fc aldad\u0131r\u0131q&#8230;<\/p>\n<p style=\"color: #000000;\">T\u0259hsild\u0259n dan\u0131\u015faca\u011fam siz\u0259. Aysberqin g\u00f6r\u00fcnm\u0259y\u0259n t\u0259r\u0259fl\u0259ri \u00e7oxdur, bir istiqam\u0259tind\u0259n b\u0259hs ed\u0259k. Bunda hans\u0131sa d\u0259yi\u015fiklikl\u0259r\u0259 nail olsaq, \u00e7ox i\u015f g\u00f6rm\u00fc\u015f say\u0131lar\u0131q.<\/p>\n<p style=\"color: #000000;\">M\u00fc\u0259llim ail\u0259sind\u0259 b\u00f6y\u00fcm\u00fc\u015f\u0259m. Atam repetitor olub, a\u011fl\u0131m k\u0259s\u0259nd\u0259n q\u0259bul imtahan\u0131na haz\u0131rla\u015fan abituriyentl\u0259rl\u0259 t\u0259masda olmu\u015fam, onlar\u0131n haz\u0131rl\u0131qlar\u0131na baxm\u0131\u015fam. \u0130mtahan sonras\u0131 abituriyentl\u0259r g\u0259l\u0259r, atama, ballar\u0131na uy\u011fun ali m\u0259kt\u0259bl\u0259rd\u0259 vakant yerl\u0259ri yazd\u0131rard\u0131lar. M\u00fc\u0259lliml\u0259r bu i\u015fl\u0259 ill\u0259rdir m\u0259\u015f\u011ful oldu\u011fundan toplan\u0131lan bala uy\u011fun yerl\u0259ri yazma\u011f\u0131 yax\u015f\u0131 bilirl\u0259r. U\u015faqlar da bunu g\u00fcv\u0259ndikl\u0259ri m\u00fc\u0259lliml\u0259r\u0259 h\u0259val\u0259 edirdil\u0259r, bir n\u00f6v talel\u0259ri o m\u00fc\u0259llimd\u0259n as\u0131l\u0131 olurdu.<\/p>\n<p style=\"color: #000000;\">Q\u0259bul imtahanlar\u0131 yayda oldu\u011fundan evimiz\u0259 valideynl\u0259r g\u0259lirdi, \u00f6vladlar\u0131n\u0131n imtahan n\u0259tic\u0259l\u0259rini m\u00fczakir\u0259 edirdil\u0259r. Sakitc\u0259 yanlar\u0131nda oturub onlara baxard\u0131m. Diqq\u0259timi h\u0259mi\u015f\u0259 bir \u015fey \u00e7\u0259k\u0259rdi &#8211; q\u0131z olanlar ucdantutma m\u00fc\u0259llimlik ixtisas\u0131n\u0131 yaz\u0131rd\u0131lar. Daha do\u011frusu, onlar\u0131n s\u0259si \u00e7\u0131xmazd\u0131, valideynl\u0259ri el\u0259 ist\u0259y\u0259rdi. N\u0259 olur olsun da, t\u0259l\u0259b\u0259 olum dey\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u0259n abituriyent d\u0259 sakitc\u0259 ba\u015f\u0131n\u0131 a\u015fa\u011f\u0131 sal\u0131b i\u00e7ind\u0259ki sevdiyi ixtisasa yiy\u0259l\u0259nm\u0259k arzusunu bo\u011fard\u0131 o an.<\/p>\n<p style=\"color: #000000;\">Bir d\u0259f\u0259 b\u00fct\u00fcn (m\u00fcmk\u00fcn olan) universitetl\u0259rin biologiya m\u00fc\u0259llimliyini yazd\u0131ran valideyn\u0259 q\u0131z\u0131 etiraz\u0131n\u0131 bildirdi: &#8220;Bu q\u0259d\u0259r bal toplam\u0131\u015fam, m\u0259n h\u0259kim olmaq ist\u0259yir\u0259m&#8221; dedi. Atan\u0131n: &#8220;ay q\u0131z, otur oturdu\u011fun yerd\u0259, h\u0259kim olan \u00e7\u0131x\u0131b bu&#8221; dediyi \u00e7\u0131\u011fl\u0131ql\u0131 s\u0259s h\u0259l\u0259 d\u0259 qula\u011f\u0131mdad\u0131r. Q\u0131z sakitc\u0259 ba\u015f\u0131n\u0131 a\u015fa\u011f\u0131 sald\u0131. V\u0259 biologiya m\u00fc\u0259llimi oldu. O m\u00fc\u0259llim q\u0131z bu g\u00fcn b\u0259lk\u0259 d\u0259 sizin, bizim \u00f6vladlar\u0131m\u0131za d\u0259rs ke\u00e7ir. Hans\u0131 \u015f\u0259rtl\u0259rl\u0259 o ixtisasa yiy\u0259l\u0259ndiyini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u0259nd\u0259 ke\u00e7\u0259c\u0259yi d\u0259rsin keyfiyy\u0259tini t\u0259xmin ed\u0259 bilirsinizmi? \u0130st\u0259m\u0259diyin, sevm\u0259diyin bir i\u015fi nec\u0259 layiqinc\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 bil\u0259rs\u0259n ki?<br \/>\n\u0130\u00e7ind\u0259ki arzusu \u00e7ilik-\u00e7ilik olan bir m\u00fc\u0259llim\u0259dir o. \u015eagirdl\u0259rini nec\u0259 sev\u0259c\u0259k, \u0259li iyn\u0259-ila\u00e7 tutmaq ist\u0259rk\u0259n, nec\u0259 q\u0259l\u0259m tutacaq?<br \/>\nA\u011f xalat geym\u0259k ist\u0259yini nec\u0259 qara \u0259t\u0259k, b\u0259yaz k\u00f6yn\u0259y\u0259 d\u0259yi\u015f\u0259c\u0259k?<\/p>\n<p style=\"color: #000000;\">Bu g\u00fcn c\u0259miyy\u0259td\u0259 minl\u0259rl\u0259 bel\u0259 pe\u015f\u0259 sahibl\u0259ri var. Onlar\u0131 sevdiyi sah\u0259d\u0259n ay\u0131ran, \u0259ll\u0259ri il\u0259 yaxas\u0131ndan tutub uzaqla\u015fd\u0131ran atalar, analar var. N\u0259 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn? Q\u0131z oldu\u011fu \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcnm\u00fc h\u0259kim ola bilm\u0259z, m\u00fch\u0259ndis, m\u00fchasib, jurnalist, inc\u0259s\u0259n\u0259t n\u00fcmay\u0259nd\u0259si, iqtisad\u00e7\u0131 ola bilm\u0259z?<\/p>\n<p style=\"color: #000000;\">Universitetl\u0259r n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r m\u00fc\u0259llim\u0259 ixtisas\u0131ndan q\u0131z, iqtisadiyyat sah\u0259sind\u0259n is\u0259 o\u011flan m\u0259zunlar burax\u0131r.<br \/>\nN\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r m\u00fc\u0259llim\u0259liyi &#8220;t\u0259miz, pak q\u0131z pe\u015f\u0259si&#8221; adland\u0131racaqs\u0131n\u0131z? Kimi aldad\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131z, \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcz\u00fcm\u00fc?<br \/>\nKim dey\u0259 bil\u0259r ki, b\u00fct\u00fcn qad\u0131n m\u00fc\u0259llim\u0259l\u0259r \u0259xlaql\u0131, vicdanl\u0131, pak insanlard\u0131r, yaxud kim s\u0131\u011fortalaya bil\u0259r ki, h\u0259r hans\u0131 zavodda, \u015firk\u0259td\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan bir m\u00fch\u0259ndis qad\u0131n bu keyfiyy\u0259tl\u0259rd\u0259n uzaqd\u0131r? \u0130xtisas, \u00e7al\u0131\u015fma alan\u0131 insanl\u0131\u011fa t\u0259sir ed\u0259 bilm\u0259z. Pe\u015f\u0259nizin &#8220;t\u0259mizliyi&#8221; kimliyinizin g\u00f6z\u0259lliyin\u0259 d\u0259lal\u0259t etm\u0259z, ed\u0259 bilm\u0259z.<\/p>\n<p style=\"color: #000000;\">\u018fziz valideynl\u0259r, imkan verin \u00f6vladlar\u0131n\u0131z, x\u00fcsus\u0259n d\u0259, q\u0131z \u00f6vladlar\u0131n\u0131z ist\u0259dikl\u0259ri sah\u0259d\u0259 t\u0259hsil als\u0131nlar, onlar\u0131n arzular\u0131n\u0131 iki \u0259lli \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 bo\u011fmay\u0131n, n\u0259f\u0259s verin, d\u0259st\u0259k olun!<br \/>\nQ\u0131z pe\u015f\u0259si deyil\u0259n bir s\u0259n\u0259t n\u00f6v\u00fc, ixtisas alan\u0131 icad etm\u0259yin!<br \/>\n\u00d6vadlar\u0131n\u0131z aras\u0131nda ayr\u0131mc\u0131l\u0131\u011fa son qoyun! Onlar\u0131 yax\u015f\u0131 insan olaraq yeti\u015fdirin, cins\u0259 ay\u0131rmadan, insan kimi&#8230;<\/p>\n<p style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong>Say\u011f\u0131larla!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"color: #000000;\">\n<p class=\"bawpvc-ajax-counter\" data-id=\"10140\">Yaz\u0131ya 803 d\u0259f\u0259 bax\u0131l\u0131b<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Aysel Abdullazad\u0259 yaz\u0131r: \u0130ctimai \u015f\u00fcurumuzda formala\u015fm\u0131\u015f q\u0259libl\u0259r var ki, sad\u0259c\u0259 el\u0259 \u015f\u00fcuralt\u0131nda yer edib \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259. He\u00e7 bir reall\u0131\u011f\u0131 yoxdur. \u00dczd\u0259 olan, g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u0259n tablo tam f\u0259rqlidir. He\u00e7 bir ayr\u0131mc\u0131l\u0131q etm\u0259diyimizi deyirik, ham\u0131 h\u0259r yerd\u0259 q\u0131z v\u0259 o\u011flan u\u015faqlar\u0131na f\u0259rq qoymad\u0131\u011f\u0131ndan a\u011f\u0131z dolusu dan\u0131\u015f\u0131r. B\u0259s, m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259 t\u0259hsil\u0259 g\u0259l\u0259nd\u0259, icra olunacaq m\u0259cburiyy\u0259tl\u0259r ortaya \u00e7\u0131xanda niy\u0259 o f\u0259rqi h\u0259m\u0259n [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[6],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10140"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=10140"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10140\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":10141,"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10140\/revisions\/10141"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=10140"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=10140"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=10140"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}