{"id":10739,"date":"2016-03-29T21:05:35","date_gmt":"2016-03-29T16:05:35","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/kultur.az\/?p=10739"},"modified":"2016-03-29T21:05:35","modified_gmt":"2016-03-29T16:05:35","slug":"nihat-c%c9%99brayil-azadliq-v%c9%99-xosb%c9%99xtlik","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/?p=10739","title":{"rendered":"Nihat C\u0259bray\u0131l – AZADLIQ V\u018f XO\u015eB\u018fXTL\u0130K"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"12369249_1653238691615621_6315567466564557225_n\"<\/a>H\u0259yatda xo\u015fb\u0259xt insan yoxdu.. bu s\u00f6z ya\u015fam\u0131 asanla\u015fd\u0131ran bir t\u0259s\u0259limidir, yoxsa el\u0259\u00a0 h\u0259qiq\u0259t\u0259n b\u00f6y\u00fckl\u0259rin dediyi kimi \u201can\u201dlarda gizl\u0259nib xo\u015fb\u0259xtlik? \u018fslind\u0259, ehtiyac duydugumuz Mo\u015funun qafiy\u0259sini tapmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 o \u201cxo\u015fbaxtl\u0131x” deyil… H\u0259r birimizin bir ovuc azadl\u0131q ehtiyac\u0131m\u0131z var. B\u0259lk\u0259 d\u0259, bunun \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn tapmad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u00a0 o qafiy\u0259nin ad\u0131n\u0131 xo\u015fb\u0259xtlik qoyuruq… AZADLIQ\u00a0 V\u018f XO\u015eB\u018fXTL\u0130K..<\/strong><\/em><\/span>
Son ill\u0259rd\u0259 \u0259n \u00e7ox qar\u015f\u0131la\u015fd\u0131\u011f\u0131m s\u00f6zl\u0259rdi. S\u00f6z d\u0259 var deyirl\u0259r \u201c\u0130nsanlarda n\u0259 \u00e7at\u0131\u015fm\u0131rsa, \u0259n \u00e7ox ondan dan\u0131\u015farlar\u201d<\/span>
Azadl\u0131\u011fa dair h\u0259r k\u0259sin azad d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259si var. Bunun \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn d\u0259 kims\u0259nin \u00f6z\u0259lin\u0259 qar\u0131\u015fmadan birba\u015fa m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259y\u0259 ke\u00e7\u0259c\u0259m.\u00a0\u00a0<\/span>
\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Azadl\u0131qda insanlar kimi bir nec\u0259 qrupa b\u00f6l\u00fcnm\u0259kd\u0259di. S\u00f6z azadl\u0131\u011f\u0131,fikir azad\u0131gi,sex azadligi ve s .F\u0259rqind\u0259ys\u0259niz ill\u0259r boyu dustaq qalan mentalitet \u0259siri olan da m\u0259hz bu terminl\u0259rdi. M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259n g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u0259k musiqini. Musiqi azadl\u0131ga \u00e7oxdan qovu\u015fub. \u00e7\u00fcnki musiqinin dili, dini, v\u0259t\u0259ni yoxdu. Bu o anlama g\u0259lir ki, n\u0259yin dili, dini, v\u0259t\u0259ni varsa, azadl\u0131g\u0131 \u0259lind\u0259n al\u0131n\u0131b. T\u0259bii ki, burda din, dil, v\u0259t\u0259n m\u0259cazi anlamda da q\u0259bul edil\u0259 bil\u0259r.<\/span>
Azadl\u0131q ilk n\u00f6vb\u0259d\u0259 insan\u0131n daxilind\u0259 ba\u015flay\u0131r. \u00d6z icind\u0259 \u00fcsyan etmek,devirmek,qalib g\u0259lm\u0259k s\u0131radanliqdan cixa bilm\u0259k, s\u00fcr\u00fc psixologiyasini silib ata bilmkele ba\u015flayir.Sac\u0131n m\u00fcxtelif\u00a0 h\u0259tta anla\u015f\u0131lmaz r\u0259ngl\u0259r\u0259 boyamaq. \u00c7ilpaq g\u0259zm\u0259mek x\u0259trin\u0259 bir \u015feyl\u0259r geym\u0259kl\u0259 azadl\u0131q ne t\u0259bli\u011f\u00a0 olunmur, n\u0259 d\u0259 alq\u0131\u015flanm\u0131r.T\u0259bii ki, geyim d\u0259 h\u0259r k\u0259sin \u00f6z se\u00e7imidi.Amma g\u0259lin azadligi bel\u0259 dar c\u0259rciv\u0259d\u0259 m\u00fczakir\u0259 etm\u0259y\u0259k.Tez tez rastimiza cixan mental d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259ri d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259ndir\u0259k. \u0130k \u00f6nc\u0259 eqomuzu geyin\u0259k ve sual ed\u0259k.Mentalitet biz\u0259 n\u0259l\u0259r verir v\u0259 n\u0259l\u0259ri g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fcr?.b\u0259z\u0259n adama el\u0259 g\u0259ir k\u0131 mentalitet m\u0259hz h\u0259y\u0259td\u0259 oturub b\u00fct\u00fcn binanin\u201dm\u00fcqedderatini \u201cbir packa g\u00fcn\u0259baxan tumuyla h\u0259l ed\u0259n xalalardan ba\u015flayir.\u00a0<\/span>
\u0130nsanlar f\u0259rqliliyi c\u0259tin q\u0259bul edir nec\u0259 ki f\u0259rqlilikd\u0259 h\u0259r insanin boyuna bicilm\u0259mi\u015fdi.<\/span>
Qiz u\u015faqlarina baxi\u015f bucagi ne q\u0259d\u0259r f\u0259rqlidi bu ve dinin hegemonluq etdiyi m\u0259ml\u0259k\u0259tl\u0259rd\u0259.Dilimz\u0259 dola\u015fmi\u015f filank\u0259sin qizi filank\u0259sin arvadi s\u00f6zl\u0259rind\u0259n ba\u015fqa sanki dani\u015fmaga ve h\u0259ll etm\u0259y\u0259 bir d\u0259rdimiz yoxmu\u015f kimi cayxanalarda n\u0259rd atan \u0259mil\u0259rin s\u00f6hb\u0259tinin \u0259sas m\u00f6vzuzsu olur.\u018fn c\u0259tini is\u0259 k\u0259ndl\u0259rd\u0259 qiz olmaq qadin olmaqdi.Televiziyadan ba\u015fqa alacaqlari hec bir m\u0259lumat yerinin olmamsi ki televiziya\u0131lardada eyni m\u00f6vzulu verili\u015fl\u0259r.seriyallar \u015fou biznes adamlarinin t\u0259mt\u0259raqli ya\u015fayi\u015f t\u0259rzi.H\u0259l\u0259 g\u0259l g\u00f6r bir m\u00fcg\u0259nni xanimin evini g\u00f6st\u0259rsinl\u0259. O saat \u201ctum cirtlayan xalalar sanki onunla bir evd\u0259 qalirmi\u015f kimi\u201daz bunu bilirsen kim saxlayir..V\u0259 dogru ya yalni\u015f sorqulanmadan m\u0259lumat bu evd\u0259n ba\u015fqa ev\u0259 da\u015finir sonra b\u00fct\u00fcn k\u0259nd x\u0259b\u0259rdar olur.t\u0259bi bele s\u00f6hb\u0259tl\u0259rd\u0259 \u0259n cox z\u0259r\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259n qiz u\u015faqlari olur.Maraqlisida odu ki bir allahin b\u0259nd\u0259si durub demir ki s\u0259n\u0259 n\u0259 ay baci o qadinin varindan evind\u0259n sevgilisind\u0259n.m\u0259n bunu mug\u0259nnil\u0259rin timsalinda yazdim. Amma g\u0259l g\u00f6r ki n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r ail\u0259 m\u0259hz bu tum c\u0131rtlayan qad\u0131nlar\u0131n bel\u0259 c\u0131l\u0131z s\u00f6hb\u0259tl\u0259rinin qurban\u0131 olur. Birinci sinif\u0259 ged\u0259nd\u0259n \u201cm\u00fc\u0259llim\u0259 m\u0259nim q\u0131zm\u0131 o\u011flanlarla otuzdurma\u201ddem\u0259kl\u0259 ba\u015flay\u0131r mentalliq.N\u0259di o valideyinin beynindeki mentiq?O alti ya\u015fli qiz u\u015fagi n\u0259 m\u0259qs\u0259dl\u0259 alti ya\u015fl\u0131\\olan u\u015fagiyla eyni partada oturmasin ki?\u018ffsus ki bu sualin cavabini o valideyin \u00f6z\u00fc bel\u0259 bilmir.Qiz dogdugu \u00fcc\u00fcn zaten bir add\u0131m gerid\u0259 qalan o qadin indi var g\u00fcc\u00fcyl\u0259 qizina oglanlardan uzaq durmagi ba\u015fia\u015fagi olmagi d\u0259sd\u0259n ev\u0259 evd\u0259n d\u0259rse g\u0259lm\u0259yi tap\u015firanda beynind\u0259 yalniz bu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259 olur \u201cmen q\u0131z\u0131m\u0131 ev q\u0131z\u0131 kim i yeti\u015fdirim ki k\u0259ndd\u0259 \u0259n tez m\u0259nim qizimi alsinlar.Bir d\u0259 b\u00fct\u00fcn qizlara deyil\u0259n s\u00f6z var haa \u201cn\u0259 olursan ol ax\u0131rda gedib bozba\u015f bi\u015firec\u0259ks\u0259n.<\/span>
Yetkinlik ya\u015f\u0131na t\u0259z\u0259c\u0259 basm\u0131\u015f bir k\u0259nd q\u0131z\u0131 \u00fcc\u00fcn Bak\u0131 sad\u0259c\u0259 seriyallarda g\u00f6rd\u00fcy\u00fc v\u0259 mug\u0259nnil\u0259rin d\u0259bd\u0259b\u0259li h\u0259yat\u0131ndan ba\u015fqa bir \u015fey deyil.<\/span>
K\u0259ndl\u0131rd\u0259ki v\u0259ziyy\u0259ti saatlarca m\u00fczakir\u0259 etm\u0259k olar.Amma birinci evin ici m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259si var axi..Qayidaq\u00a0 Bak\u0131ya.Bildiyimiz ya bilm\u0259diyimiz o q\u0259d\u0259r sirri var ki Bak\u0131n\u0131n dag\u0131lsada demz hec kim\u0259..G\u00fcn \u00fcz\u00fcn\u0259 c\u0131xanlar\u0131da q\u0259zetl\u0259rin \u00fcc\u00fcnc\u00fc s\u0259hifesind\u0259n oxuya bil\u0259rik.. \u00c7ox zamanda ba\u015fl\u0131qlar eynidi filank\u0259s arvad\u0131n\u0131 ba\u015f\u0131n\u0131 k\u0259sdi, cinay\u0259t q\u0131sqanliq z\u0259minind\u0259 ba\u015f verib ve s.<\/span>
Art\u0131b bel\u0259 hadis\u0259l\u0259r ya da h\u0259r zaman bel\u0259 olub biz\u0259 indi cat\u0131r.M\u0259lumatdan bol n\u0259 var ki \u00f6lk\u0259mizd\u0259. K\u0259sm\u0259k, do\u011framaq \u00f6ld\u00fcrm\u0259k \u00e7\u0131x\u0131\u015f yolu deyil, qarda\u015flar. Amma o an \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn y\u0259ni x\u0259yan\u0259t\u0259 ugrad\u0131g\u0131n an \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn b\u0259lk\u0259, bu az bel\u0259 qal\u0131r. H\u0259r birimizin is\u0259 beynind\u0259 bir sual var, n\u0259d\u0259n x\u0259yan\u0259t ed\u0259r qadin v\u0259 ya ki\u015fi ? Gedib agl\u0131 ba\u015f\u0131nda iki insan kimi dan\u0131\u015fsalar, anla\u015fsalar bu, bu, bu s\u0259b\u0259bd\u0259n s\u0259ninl\u0259 ya\u015faya bilmir\u0259m des\u0259l\u0259r olmazmi?\u00c7oxmu avropasayagi baxi\u015f oldu?<\/span>
Amma yoox\u00a0 qadinlar gizlind\u0259 et\u0259myi sec\u0259rl\u0259r.h\u0259yat yolda\u015flar\u0131ndan maddi asl\u0131l\u0131qlari var axi bird\u0259 h\u0259r \u015feyd\u0259n x\u0259b\u0259rsiz \u00fcc d\u00f6rd u\u015faq.. bir d\u0259 hec vaxt olmad\u0131qlar\u0131 azadl\u0131g\u0131 verirs\u0259 sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259l\u0259r onda i\u015f d\u0259yi\u015f\u0259r.<\/span>
Yenic\u0259 tan\u0131\u015f oldu\u011fu adam\u0131n sevgi v\u0259dl\u0259rin\u0259 \u00e7oxdand\u0131 hiss etm\u0259dikl\u0259ri x\u00fcsusi diqq\u0259t\u0259 aldan\u0131rlam\u0131 v\u0259 ya da aldanmaqsa m\u00fcsait olurlarm\u0131 oras\u0131n\u0131 bilmir\u0259m. Bildiyim t\u0259k \u015fey da\u011f\u0131lm\u0131\u015f ail\u0259 qururu s\u0131nm\u0131\u015f ki\u015fi v\u0259 bir d\u0259 h\u0259l\u0259 ki g\u00fcnahs\u0131z u\u015faqlar qald\u0131\u011f\u0131d\u0131.H\u0259 h\u0259l\u0259 ki g\u00fcnahs\u0131z.. ax\u0131 \u0259n d\u0259h\u015f\u0259tli g\u00fcnahlar\u0131 dag\u0131lm\u0131\u015f ail\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259n \u00e7\u0131xan u\u015faqlar edir.<\/span>
Bu mentall\u0131q biz\u0259 n\u0259 qazand\u0131r\u0131r, d\u0259qiq dey\u0259 bilm\u0259s\u0259m d\u0259 bir \u015feyd\u0259n ad\u0131m kimi \u0259min\u0259m biz h\u0259l\u0259 d\u0259 azadl\u0131g\u0131 \u0259t\u0259k q\u0131saltmaqda,evli adamlarla esq ya\u015famaqda, a\u011fz\u0131ndak\u0131 i\u00e7ki qoxusuyla ki\u015fil\u0259rd\u0259nd\u0259 bet\u0259r s\u00f6y\u00fc\u015f s\u00f6ym\u0259kd\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259n qadinlar eyni zamanda h\u0259l\u0259 de q\u0131z u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n\u0131 diri-diri zibilliy\u0259 atan,qazandigi pulun yar\u0131dan coxunu \u00f6z \u015f\u0259xsi t\u0259l\u0259bat\u0131na x\u0259rcl\u0259y\u0259n,evind\u0259ki qad\u0131n ac\u0131ndan \u00f6ls\u0259 d\u0259 namuslu olsun qad\u0131n\u0131 h\u0259r zaman \u0259\u015fya kimi g\u00f6r\u0259n v\u0259 qeyr\u0259t deyinc\u0259 ilk a\u011fl\u0131na g\u0259l\u0259n qad\u0131n cinsiyy\u0259t orqan\u0131 olan insanlarla bir v\u0259t\u0259nin v\u0259t\u0259nda\u015f\u0131y\u0131q.<\/span>
G\u0259lin \u0259vv\u0259lc\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259mizi azad ed\u0259k.. bu ki \u00f6z \u0259limizd\u0259dir…<\/span><\/p>\n

Yaz\u0131ya 831 d\u0259f\u0259 bax\u0131l\u0131b<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

H\u0259yatda xo\u015fb\u0259xt insan yoxdu.. bu s\u00f6z ya\u015fam\u0131 asanla\u015fd\u0131ran bir t\u0259s\u0259limidir, yoxsa el\u0259\u00a0 h\u0259qiq\u0259t\u0259n b\u00f6y\u00fckl\u0259rin dediyi kimi \u201can\u201dlarda gizl\u0259nib xo\u015fb\u0259xtlik? \u018fslind\u0259, ehtiyac duydugumuz Mo\u015funun qafiy\u0259sini tapmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 o \u201cxo\u015fbaxtl\u0131x” deyil… H\u0259r birimizin bir ovuc azadl\u0131q ehtiyac\u0131m\u0131z var. B\u0259lk\u0259 d\u0259, bunun \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn tapmad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u00a0 o qafiy\u0259nin ad\u0131n\u0131 xo\u015fb\u0259xtlik qoyuruq… AZADLIQ\u00a0 V\u018f XO\u015eB\u018fXTL\u0130K..Son ill\u0259rd\u0259 \u0259n \u00e7ox qar\u015f\u0131la\u015fd\u0131\u011f\u0131m s\u00f6zl\u0259rdi. S\u00f6z d\u0259 […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[6],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10739"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=10739"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10739\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":10740,"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10739\/revisions\/10740"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=10739"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=10739"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=10739"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}