{"id":13845,"date":"2020-04-09T21:38:38","date_gmt":"2020-04-09T16:38:38","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/kultur.az\/?p=13845"},"modified":"2020-04-09T21:38:38","modified_gmt":"2020-04-09T16:38:38","slug":"bel%c9%99-qadinlar-kisil%c9%99rin-diqq%c9%99tini-c%c9%99k%c9%99-bilmir-musahib%c9%99","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/?p=13845","title":{"rendered":"\u201cBel\u0259 qad\u0131nlar ki\u015fil\u0259rin diqq\u0259tini \u00e7\u0259k\u0259 bilmir\u201d – M\u00fcsahib\u0259"},"content":{"rendered":"
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\"26168538_1973881102625558_3805349614218759972_n\"<\/a>Teleqraf.com<\/a><\/span>-un \u201cD\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnm\u0259k vaxt\u0131\u201d rubrikas\u0131n\u0131n qona\u011f\u0131 \u015fair \u0130rad\u0259 Ayteldir.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Onunla m\u00fcsahib\u0259ni t\u0259qdim edirik.<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Niy\u0259 sevgi ali d\u0259y\u0259r hesab olunur?<\/strong><\/p>\n

– \u00c7\u00fcnki sevgi \u0259n b\u00f6y\u00fck ali d\u0259y\u0259rdir! Sevgi b\u00fct\u00fcn g\u00f6z\u0259llikl\u0259rin, insani duy\u011fular\u0131n, \u0259xlaq\u0131n, h\u0259yatsev\u0259rliyin, b\u0259\u015f\u0259riliyin \u00f6z\u00fcd\u00fcr! Sevgi g\u00f6z\u0259l musiqidir! Sevgi u\u015faq q\u0131\u011f\u0131lt\u0131s\u0131d\u0131r! Sevgi bala \u0259tridir! Bir d\u0259 b\u00fct\u00fcn bunlar\u0131n ham\u0131s\u0131d\u0131r – sevgi Tanr\u0131d\u0131r! \u0130\u00e7imizd\u0259 hiss etdiyimiz Tanr\u0131… O Tanr\u0131n\u0131n – sevginin s\u0259sini anam\u0131z\u0131n laylas\u0131nda, balam\u0131z\u0131n q\u0131\u011f\u0131lt\u0131s\u0131nda, qu\u015flar\u0131n civiltisind\u0259, d\u0259nizin, \u00e7aylar\u0131n, bulaqlar\u0131n \u015f\u0131r\u0131lt\u0131s\u0131nda e\u015fidirik. O sevgini \u2013 Tanr\u0131n\u0131 balam\u0131z\u0131n simas\u0131nda, anam\u0131z\u0131n \u0259ll\u0259rind\u0259, sa\u00e7lar\u0131nda, g\u00fcll\u0259rin al-\u0259lvan r\u0259ngl\u0259rind\u0259, k\u0259p\u0259n\u0259kl\u0259rin u\u00e7u\u015funda, ulduzlar\u0131n nurunda g\u00f6r\u00fcr\u00fck. O sevgiy\u0259 – Tanr\u0131ya balam\u0131z\u0131, anam\u0131z\u0131, sevdiyimizi, \u0259zizl\u0259rimizi ba\u011fr\u0131m\u0131za basanda, n\u0259f\u0259sini hiss ed\u0259nd\u0259 toxunuruq. B\u00fct\u00fcn bunlar is\u0259 sevgid\u0259n yaranan, sevgini yaradan Tanr\u0131n\u0131n yaratd\u0131qlar\u0131na b\u0259x\u015f etdiyi \u0259n ali d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259rdir, o d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259r ki, sevgi olmasa, olmaz. O d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259r ki, insan\u0131 insan edir, insan\u0131 Tanr\u0131ya qovu\u015fdurur.<\/p>\n

\u201cTanr\u0131ya qovu\u015fmaq \u0259b\u0259diyy\u0259t\u0259 ged\u0259nd\u0259n sonra m\u00fcmk\u00fcnd\u00fcr\u201d, kimi fikirl\u0259r m\u0259n\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 \u00e7ox yanl\u0131\u015fd\u0131r. Tanr\u0131ya qovu\u015fmaq el\u0259 bu d\u00fcnyadad\u0131r. Tanr\u0131 v\u00fcsal \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcn ruhunu \u2013 sevgini b\u0259x\u015f edib insanlara. Bir misal \u00e7\u0259kim, balan\u0131z\u0131 ba\u011fr\u0131n\u0131za bas\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131z, onda n\u0259 hisl\u0259r ke\u00e7irirsiniz? \u0130zah ed\u0259 bilm\u0259y\u0259c\u0259yiniz, toxunu\u015fundan b\u00fct\u00fcn b\u0259d\u0259ninizi l\u0259rz\u0259y\u0259 g\u0259tir\u0259n, sizi d\u00fcnyan\u0131n \u0259n g\u00fccl\u00fcs\u00fc, eyni zamanda, toxundu\u011funuz varl\u0131q qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda \u0259n z\u0259ifi ed\u0259n, b\u00fct\u00fcn pislikl\u0259rd\u0259n ar\u0131nd\u0131ran, h\u0259yat\u0131 sevdir\u0259n hisl\u0259r ke\u00e7irirsiniz. B\u00fct\u00fcn bunlar o q\u0259d\u0259r xo\u015f, \u0259v\u0259zi olmayan hisl\u0259rdir ki, bunlar sizi xo\u015fb\u0259xt edir. Bax, o hissin ad\u0131 sevgidir \u2013 Tanr\u0131d\u0131r. \u0130\u00e7ind\u0259 Tanr\u0131s\u0131, sevgisi olan he\u00e7 bir k\u0259s pis \u0259m\u0259ll\u0259rin yol\u00e7usu ola bilm\u0259z; o\u011furluq, quldurluq, canilik ed\u0259mm\u0259z, t\u0259bi\u0259t\u0259, heyvanlara z\u0259r\u0259r verm\u0259z. B\u00fct\u00fcn bunlardan sonra, s\u0259nc\u0259, sevgi ali d\u0259y\u0259r deyilmi?<\/p>\n

– Niy\u0259 bir qad\u0131n\u0131n g\u00f6z\u0259lliyi \u00e7ox vaxt \u0259xlaq m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259sin\u0259 ba\u011flan\u0131l\u0131r?<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Ona g\u00f6r\u0259 ki, g\u00f6z\u0259l qad\u0131n daha \u00e7ox diqq\u0259td\u0259 olur, qad\u0131nlar\u0131n, ki\u015fil\u0259rin, h\u0259tta u\u015faqlar\u0131n da diqq\u0259tind\u0259. Diqq\u0259td\u0259 olub \u0259xlaq normalar\u0131na tam riay\u0259t etm\u0259k bir az \u00e7\u0259tin olur. Y\u0259ni s\u0259nin \u0259xlaql\u0131 bildiyini ba\u015fqas\u0131 f\u0259rqli q\u0259bul edir, f\u0259rqli yay\u0131r. Qad\u0131nlar h\u0259s\u0259dind\u0259n, ki\u015fil\u0259r d\u0259 ad\u0259t\u0259n, o g\u00f6z\u0259l qad\u0131na \u0259li \u00e7atmayanda bel\u0259 edirl\u0259r. G\u00f6z\u0259l qad\u0131n \u0259xlaql\u0131 olsa bel\u0259, h\u0259s\u0259dd\u0259n, \u0259l\u00e7atmazl\u0131qdan do\u011fan iftiralar onu \u0259xlaqs\u0131z kimi tan\u0131d\u0131r k\u00fctl\u0259y\u0259. H\u0259m d\u0259 insanlar \u00e7ox zaman sur\u0259tp\u0259r\u0259st olur (el\u0259 m\u0259n d\u0259 sur\u0259tp\u0259r\u0259st\u0259m). G\u00f6z\u0259lliy\u0259 vurulan daha \u00e7ox olur, n\u0259tic\u0259d\u0259 o g\u00f6z\u0259lin d\u0259 vurulmaq, sevm\u0259k, inanmaq, aldanmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u015fans\u0131 art\u0131r. Bu \u00e7oxluq is\u0259 onu u\u00e7uruma daha tez yax\u0131nla\u015fd\u0131r\u0131r. \u018fxlaql\u0131lar\u0131n \u0259ks\u0259riyy\u0259ti daha az diqq\u0259td\u0259 olanlar, sur\u0259tl\u0259ri il\u0259 daha az ki\u015fini \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259 c\u0259lb ed\u0259nl\u0259rdir.<\/p>\n

Onu da d\u0259qiq bilir\u0259m ki, kim \u0259n \u00e7ox n\u0259d\u0259n dan\u0131\u015f\u0131rsa, el\u0259 o t\u0259r\u0259fd\u0259n, o y\u00f6nd\u0259n probleml\u0259ri var. Y\u0259ni \u201c\u0259xlaqi d\u0259y\u0259r\u201d, \u201c\u0259xlaqi normalar\u201d, \u201cnamus\u201d, \u201cqeyr\u0259t\u201d, \u201cv\u0259t\u0259np\u0259rv\u0259rlik\u201d v\u0259 s. kimi \u00e7\u0259r\u00e7iv\u0259li anlamlar s\u00f6z\u0259 g\u0259l\u0259nd\u0259 d\u0259y\u0259rd\u0259n d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr. \u0130nsan \u00f6z\u00fc g\u00f6rd\u00fckl\u0259rin\u0259 \u0259xlaqla yana\u015fsa, \u0259xlaql\u0131 ya\u015fasa, bu terminl\u0259rd\u0259n istifad\u0259y\u0259 ehtiyac qalmaz. \u018fxlaq el\u0259 bir s\u00f6zd\u00fcr ki, onun d\u0259qiq t\u0259rifi d\u0259 yoxdur. M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259n, m\u0259nim \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn uzun \u0259lbis\u0259li, ya\u015fmaql\u0131, lakin daldada y\u00fcz \u0259m\u0259ld\u0259n \u00e7\u0131xan qad\u0131ndansa, m\u00fcasir geyimli, azad d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259li, \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc a\u00e7\u0131q-a\u015fkar ifad\u0259 etm\u0259yi bacaran qad\u0131n daha \u0259xlaql\u0131d\u0131r. M\u0259nim \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn sevm\u0259diyin\u0259 \u0259r\u0259 getm\u0259k, ondan \u00f6vladlar d\u00fcnyaya g\u0259tirm\u0259k \u0259xlaqs\u0131zl\u0131q, sevdiyin insanla sevi\u015fm\u0259k \u0259xlaqd\u0131r, h\u0259tta ism\u0259tdir.<\/p>\n

– H\u0259qiq\u0259t\u0259nmi qad\u0131nlar\u0131 anlamaq \u00e7\u0259tindir?<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Qad\u0131nlar\u0131n ad\u0131ndan dan\u0131\u015fammaram. \u00d6z ad\u0131mdan dey\u0259 bil\u0259r\u0259m ki, bu ya\u015f\u0131ma q\u0259d\u0259r m\u0259ni kims\u0259 anlamay\u0131b. Atam anlamad\u0131, anam anlamad\u0131, qarda\u015f-bac\u0131lar\u0131m anlamad\u0131, qohumlar-yadlar he\u00e7 anlamad\u0131. H\u0259tta dostlar\u0131m da anlamad\u0131. C\u0259miyy\u0259t i\u00e7ind\u0259 qapal\u0131 adam deyil\u0259m, \u015f\u0259n\u0259m, zarafatc\u0131lam, h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259tliy\u0259m. Amma b\u00fct\u00fcn bunlar o ictimaiyy\u0259t \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn deyil, i\u00e7imd\u0259ki \u0130rad\u0259 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcnd\u00fcr. \u0130\u00e7imd\u0259ki \u0130rad\u0259 el\u0259 ist\u0259diyi \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcnd\u00fcr. K\u00fc\u00e7\u0259d\u0259 r\u0259qs ed\u0259 bilir\u0259m, ucadan g\u00fcl\u0259 bilir\u0259m (\u00e7ox nadir hallarda g\u00fcl\u00fcr\u0259m), s\u0259sim olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 halda mahn\u0131 oxuyuram (\u00e7oxluqda da), ist\u0259diyim zaman ist\u0259diyim kimi yeyir\u0259m, geyinir\u0259m v\u0259 ilax\u0131r… B\u00fct\u00fcn bunlar\u0131 \u0130rad\u0259 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn edir\u0259m. \u00c7\u00fcnki m\u0259ni yaln\u0131z m\u0259n anlay\u0131ram. O q\u0259d\u0259r \u201c\u0259trafdak\u0131lar m\u0259ni zat\u0259n anlam\u0131r\u201d d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259l\u0259riyl\u0259 y\u00fckl\u0259nir\u0259m ki, oluram pis adam, kobud adam, adamlar\u0131 incid\u0259n, onlarla yola getm\u0259y\u0259n. \u00d6z\u00fcmd\u0259 m\u00fc\u015fahid\u0259 d\u0259 edir\u0259m, bax, filank\u0259s dostum idi, ancaq filan zaman filan yerd\u0259 ona yum\u015faq halda dey\u0259 bil\u0259c\u0259yim etiraz\u0131m\u0131 birc\u0259 k\u0259lm\u0259yl\u0259 bildirdim v\u0259 uzaqla\u015fd\u0131m ondan, uzaqla\u015fd\u0131 m\u0259nd\u0259n. Bu o q\u0259d\u0259r ba\u015f verir ki, uzun-uzad\u0131 b\u0259han\u0259l\u0259rl\u0259 adamlara etiraz bildir\u0259mmir\u0259m. Q\u0131sa yol is\u0259 kobudla\u015fma\u011f\u0131ma g\u0259tirib \u00e7\u0131xar\u0131r. Bax, ona g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 t\u0259nhala\u015f\u0131ram, \u0130rad\u0259y\u0259 vurulduqca t\u0259kl\u0259nir\u0259m. M\u0259n\u0259 xudp\u0259s\u0259nd dem\u0259yin.<\/p>\n

– \u0130nsan\u0131n h\u0259yat\u0131ndak\u0131 \u0259n b\u00f6y\u00fck m\u0259qs\u0259di sonad\u0259k axtard\u0131\u011f\u0131 xo\u015fb\u0259xtliyi tapmaqd\u0131rm\u0131?<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Bu suala cavab ver\u0259 bilm\u0259y\u0259c\u0259m. Xo\u015fb\u0259xtlik \u00f6l\u00fcm kimidir \u2013 h\u0259yatla axir\u0259t aras\u0131ndak\u0131 yola b\u0259nz\u0259yir. O yolun bu t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259 o t\u0259r\u0259fd\u0259n x\u0259b\u0259rsiz olaraq ya\u015fay\u0131r\u0131q, o t\u0259r\u0259fd\u0259 is\u0259 b\u0259ri d\u00f6nm\u0259k m\u00fcmk\u00fcn deyil. Y\u0259ni xo\u015fb\u0259xt oldu\u011fumuz anlar\u0131 geri baxanda bilirik, anlay\u0131r\u0131q amma i\u00e7ind\u0259 olmaq m\u00fcmk\u00fcn deyil. Ya bu yanda olmal\u0131san, ya da o yanda. O an\u0131 tutub ya\u015famaq \u00e7ox \u00e7\u0259tindir. He\u00e7 vaxt da o an\u0131 \u2013 xo\u015fb\u0259xtliyi tutub saxlama\u011f\u0131, ona t\u0259r\u0259f getm\u0259yi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnm\u0259mi\u015f\u0259m. \u00d6l\u00fcm adland\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131m xo\u015fb\u0259xtlik, y\u0259ni k\u00f6rp\u00fc \u00f6z\u00fc g\u0259lib tap\u0131r adam\u0131, ist\u0259diyi zaman. O zaman\u0131 da Tanr\u0131 m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n edir, biz yox.<\/p>\n

– \u0130nsan niy\u0259 xo\u015f anlar\u0131n\u0131, pis anlar\u0131ndan daha az xat\u0131rlay\u0131r?<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Pis anlar h\u0259mi\u015f\u0259 biziml\u0259 oldu\u011fu \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn. H\u0259mi\u015f\u0259 \u0259l\u00e7atmazlar xat\u0131rlan\u0131r.<\/p>\n

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Teleqraf.com-un \u201cD\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnm\u0259k vaxt\u0131\u201d rubrikas\u0131n\u0131n qona\u011f\u0131 \u015fair \u0130rad\u0259 Ayteldir. Onunla m\u00fcsahib\u0259ni t\u0259qdim edirik. – Niy\u0259 sevgi ali d\u0259y\u0259r hesab olunur? – \u00c7\u00fcnki sevgi \u0259n b\u00f6y\u00fck ali d\u0259y\u0259rdir! Sevgi b\u00fct\u00fcn g\u00f6z\u0259llikl\u0259rin, insani duy\u011fular\u0131n, \u0259xlaq\u0131n, h\u0259yatsev\u0259rliyin, b\u0259\u015f\u0259riliyin \u00f6z\u00fcd\u00fcr! Sevgi g\u00f6z\u0259l musiqidir! Sevgi u\u015faq q\u0131\u011f\u0131lt\u0131s\u0131d\u0131r! Sevgi bala \u0259tridir! Bir d\u0259 b\u00fct\u00fcn bunlar\u0131n ham\u0131s\u0131d\u0131r – sevgi Tanr\u0131d\u0131r! \u0130\u00e7imizd\u0259 hiss etdiyimiz […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":11328,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[27,3],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13845"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=13845"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13845\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":13846,"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13845\/revisions\/13846"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/11328"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=13845"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=13845"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=13845"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}