{"id":19569,"date":"2024-01-13T12:42:55","date_gmt":"2024-01-13T08:42:55","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/?p=19569"},"modified":"2024-01-13T12:43:27","modified_gmt":"2024-01-13T08:43:27","slug":"aytac-ibrahim-h%c9%99l%c9%99-d%c9%99-c%c9%99miyy%c9%99timizd%c9%99-gender-b%c9%99rab%c9%99rliyinin-pozulmasi-kimi-probleml%c9%99r-genis-vus%c9%99t-alir","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/?p=19569","title":{"rendered":"Aytac \u0130brahim – H\u0259l\u0259 d\u0259 c\u0259miyy\u0259timizd\u0259 gender b\u0259rab\u0259rliyinin pozulmas\u0131 kimi probleml\u0259r geni\u015f v\u00fcs\u0259t al\u0131r"},"content":{"rendered":"

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\"WhatsApp<\/a>Niy\u0259 h\u0259l\u0259 d\u0259 c\u0259miyy\u0259timizd\u0259 gender b\u0259rab\u0259rliyinin pozulmas\u0131 kimi probleml\u0259r geni\u015f v\u00fcs\u0259t al\u0131r? Ax\u0131 niy\u0259, b\u0259zi “ki\u015fi” l\u0259r \u00f6zl\u0259ri h\u0259r c\u00fcr \u0259xlaq d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259rin\u0259 zidd olan h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259tl\u0259ri edib, amma ail\u0259 qurmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn saf, az ya\u015fl\u0131, \u00fcst\u0259lik h\u0259l\u0259 bir d\u0259f\u0259 d\u0259 olsun he\u00e7 kimi sevm\u0259y\u0259n bir xan\u0131m axtar\u0131rlar?<\/p>\n

Mentalitetimizd\u0259 niy\u0259 “ki\u015fi” olmaq \u0259sas say\u0131l\u0131r,\u00a0 “adam” ola bilm\u0259k, he\u00e7 n\u0259, he\u00e7 bir \u015fey?Niy\u0259 yeni do\u011fulacaq q\u0131z u\u015faqlar\u0131n\u0131n cinsiyy\u0259tini \u00f6yr\u0259n\u0259n kimi h\u0259yatlar\u0131na xitam verilir, sanki edam edirl\u0259rmi\u015f kimi k\u0259sib m\u0259hv edirl\u0259r?!<\/p>\n

\u00c7\u00f6n\u00fcb arxam\u0131zdak\u0131 n\u0259sill\u0259r\u0259 n\u0259z\u0259r salsaq, g\u00f6r\u0259c\u0259yik ki, l\u0259n\u0259t\u0259 g\u0259lmi\u015f bu c\u0259hal\u0259t dolu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259l\u0259ri beynimiz\u0259, h\u0259tta ruhumuzun \u0259n dibl\u0259rin\u0259 yerid\u0259n el\u0259 analar\u0131m\u0131z, n\u0259n\u0259l\u0259rimiz, babalar\u0131m\u0131z olub.Bizi bu hala salan, bizd\u0259n ba\u015fqa he\u00e7 kim olmay\u0131b.<\/p>\n

O\u011flan u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 d\u00fcnyaya g\u0259l\u0259nd\u0259n sonra, h\u0259r\u0259 bir t\u0259r\u0259fd\u0259n “Ki\u015fi balad\u0131r bu, buna h\u0259r \u015fey olar” dey\u0259-dey\u0259, adamlar\u0131 insanl\u0131\u011f\u0131na g\u00f6r\u0259 yox, cinsin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259y\u0259r verm\u0259yi lap bu c\u0259miyy\u0259t \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn qanun hal\u0131na sald\u0131q.Evd\u0259 q\u0131z u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 var? Susmal\u0131d\u0131r ha, n\u0259bad\u0259 evd\u0259kil\u0259r s\u00f6hb\u0259t ed\u0259nd\u0259 qar\u0131\u015fs\u0131n, bir s\u00f6z desin, eyibdir, q\u0131z u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 hara, ki\u015fil\u0259rin s\u00f6hb\u0259tin\u0259 qar\u0131\u015fmaq hara?! Sonra da deyirsiniz ki, \u00f6lk\u0259mizd\u0259 azad s\u00f6z h\u00fcququ yoxdur.Biz h\u0259l\u0259 \u00f6z i\u00e7imizd\u0259 bir-birimiz\u0259 azad halda s\u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fc dey\u0259 bilmirik, hans\u0131 \u0259dal\u0259td\u0259n, hans\u0131 demokratiyadan dan\u0131\u015f\u0131r\u0131q?<\/p>\n

Q\u0131z y\u00fckd\u00fcr, q\u0131z u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 ancaq silm\u0259lidir, yumal\u0131d\u0131r, s\u00fcp\u00fcrm\u0259lidir.\u0130nan\u0131n ki, bu sferada b\u00f6y\u00fcy\u0259n h\u0259min qad\u0131nlar bel\u0259, bunun yanl\u0131\u015f oldu\u011funu bil\u0259-bil\u0259 q\u0131z \u00f6vladlar\u0131na \u00f6z talel\u0259rini ya\u015fad\u0131rlar.Onlar da el\u0259 bilirl\u0259r ki, qazan\u0131 yax\u015f\u0131 yurdunsa, paltar\u0131 d\u00fcmd\u00fcz \u00fct\u00fcl\u0259dins\u0259, dadl\u0131 bir x\u00f6r\u0259k bi\u015firdins\u0259, s\u0259nd\u0259n xo\u015fb\u0259xti h\u0259yatda yoxdur.Halbuki, bu sadalad\u0131qlar\u0131m, h\u0259r bir insan\u0131n \u00f6z ehtiyaclar\u0131n\u0131 g\u00fcnd\u0259lik h\u0259yatda h\u0259ll etm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcnd\u00fcr.Y\u0259ni, bu i\u015fl\u0259ri ham\u0131 bacara bilir.<\/p>\n

El\u0259 \u0259vv\u0259lki yaz\u0131lar\u0131m\u0131n birind\u0259 d\u0259 qeyd etdiyim kimi, xalq olaraq bu c\u00fcr sosial, m\u0259n\u0259viyyat\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 \u0259z\u0259n, \u0259zdir\u0259n probleml\u0259ri biz yaratd\u0131q!<\/p>\n

Bu yaz\u0131n\u0131 q\u0259tiyy\u0259n feminizm auras\u0131nda yazm\u0131ram.Fakt budur ki, bizim oldu\u011fumuz c\u0259miyy\u0259tin \u00e7irkin g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u0259n \u00fczl\u0259rind\u0259n biridir bel\u0259 m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259l\u0259r.<\/p>\n

Bu, he\u00e7 bir d\u00f6vrd\u0259 d\u00fcz\u0259lm\u0259y\u0259c\u0259k.T\u0259m\u0259li \u0259yri qoyulan bir \u015feyin sonu, ist\u0259nil\u0259n hallarda u\u00e7urumdur.<\/p>\n

Yaz\u0131ya 106 d\u0259f\u0259 bax\u0131l\u0131b<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

  Niy\u0259 h\u0259l\u0259 d\u0259 c\u0259miyy\u0259timizd\u0259 gender b\u0259rab\u0259rliyinin pozulmas\u0131 kimi probleml\u0259r geni\u015f v\u00fcs\u0259t al\u0131r? Ax\u0131 niy\u0259, b\u0259zi “ki\u015fi” l\u0259r \u00f6zl\u0259ri h\u0259r c\u00fcr \u0259xlaq d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259rin\u0259 zidd olan h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259tl\u0259ri edib, amma ail\u0259 qurmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn saf, az ya\u015fl\u0131, \u00fcst\u0259lik h\u0259l\u0259 bir d\u0259f\u0259 d\u0259 olsun he\u00e7 kimi sevm\u0259y\u0259n bir xan\u0131m axtar\u0131rlar? Mentalitetimizd\u0259 niy\u0259 “ki\u015fi” olmaq \u0259sas say\u0131l\u0131r,\u00a0 “adam” ola bilm\u0259k, […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[6],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19569"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=19569"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19569\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":19573,"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19569\/revisions\/19573"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=19569"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=19569"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=19569"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}