{"id":21776,"date":"2025-11-25T13:01:12","date_gmt":"2025-11-25T09:01:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/?p=21776"},"modified":"2025-11-25T13:01:12","modified_gmt":"2025-11-25T09:01:12","slug":"on-soz-yaxud-narahat-omrun-akkordlari","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/?p=21776","title":{"rendered":"\u00d6N S\u00d6Z,  YAXUD NARAHAT \u00d6MR\u00dcN AKKORDLARI"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/kultur.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/K\u018fP\u018fN\u018fYIN-DILI-IL\u018f.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-21778\" src=\"https:\/\/kultur.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/K\u018fP\u018fN\u018fYIN-DILI-IL\u018f.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"271\" height=\"186\" \/><\/a>Oxucularla g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015f\u0259 \u00e7\u0131xar\u0131lan \u201cK\u0259p\u0259n\u0259yin dili il\u0259\u201d kitab\u0131\u00a0 narahat \u00f6mr\u00fcn, a\u011fr\u0131l\u0131 ya\u015fam\u0131n, h\u0259yatla \u00f6l\u00fcm aras\u0131nda \u00e7arp\u0131\u015fman\u0131n canl\u0131 t\u0259c\u0259ss\u00fcm\u00fc, eyni zamanda sabaha, g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259y\u0259\u00a0 boylanman\u0131n, inam\u0131n ifad\u0259sidir des\u0259k, yan\u0131lmar\u0131q. \u0130nsanlar m\u00f6vcudluqlar\u0131 d\u00f6vr\u00fcnd\u0259 h\u0259yat u\u011frunda \u00e7arp\u0131\u015f\u0131r, y\u0131x\u0131l\u0131r, durur, t\u0259zyiql\u0259r\u0259 m\u0259ruz qal\u0131r, d\u0259st\u0259kl\u0259nir, yaxud k\u0259narla\u015fd\u0131r\u0131l\u0131r. \u0130nsanlar \u00f6m\u00fcrl\u0259ri boyu xo\u015fb\u0259xtliy\u0259 \u00e7atma\u011f\u0131n yolunu axtar\u0131r, xo\u015fb\u0259xtliyi is\u0259 h\u0259r\u0259 bir c\u00fcr, y\u0259ni f\u0259rqli ba\u015fa d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr, q\u0259bul edir.<\/p>\n<p>U\u015faql\u0131q ill\u0259ri atal\u0131-anal\u0131, bac\u0131l\u0131-qarda\u015fl\u0131 g\u00fcnl\u0259r, ad\u0259t\u0259n qay\u011f\u0131s\u0131z olur. H\u0259tta b\u0259zil\u0259ri b\u00f6y\u00fcy\u00fcb ya\u015fa dolanda o ill\u0259rin h\u0259sr\u0259tini \u00e7\u0259kir. B\u0259zil\u0259ri \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn u\u015faql\u0131q ill\u0259ri\u00a0 \u00e7\u0259tin olur.\u00a0 Yadlar\u0131na salanda \u00fcr\u0259kl\u0259ri s\u0131x\u0131l\u0131r. Ona g\u00f6r\u0259 ail\u0259d\u0259 el\u0259 m\u00fcnbit m\u00fchit, m\u00fcsb\u0259t m\u0259n\u0259vi v\u0259 psixoloji atmosfer\u00a0 yaratmaq laz\u0131md\u0131r ki,\u00a0 balacalar u\u015faql\u0131q h\u0259yatlar\u0131n\u0131 ke\u00e7ir\u0259 bilsinl\u0259r.<\/p>\n<p>Bu kitab x\u0259st\u0259liy\u0259 tutularaq, xo\u015fb\u0259xt, qay\u011f\u0131s\u0131z u\u015faql\u0131q ill\u0259rind\u0259n m\u0259hrum olan, \u00f6z can\u0131 il\u0259 \u0259ll\u0259\u015f\u0259n bir yeniyetm\u0259 H\u00fcseynin h\u0259yat\u0131na h\u0259sr olunub.<\/p>\n<p>\u018fs\u0259rin q\u0259hr\u0259man\u0131 yeniyetm\u0259 o\u011fland\u0131r. F\u0259q\u0259t bel\u0259 dem\u0259k insafs\u0131zl\u0131q olar. G\u0259lin bel\u0259 dey\u0259k: kitab\u0131n iki q\u0259hr\u0259man\u0131 var. \u0130kinci q\u0259hr\u0259man anad\u0131r. H\u00fcseynin anas\u0131. O\u011flan a\u011fr\u0131lar\u0131 b\u0259d\u0259ni il\u0259, ana is\u0259 \u00fcr\u0259yil\u0259 \u00e7\u0259kir. Daim x\u0259st\u0259 \u00f6vlad\u0131n\u0131n yan\u0131ndad\u0131r. Onun hal\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcb var\u0131ndan yox olur, inild\u0259yir, s\u0131z\u0131lday\u0131r, \u201cAllah\u0131n, bu \u0259zab-\u0259ziyy\u0259ti, bu d\u0259rdi niy\u0259 biz\u0259 ya\u015fad\u0131rsan?!\u201d dey\u0259 f\u0259ryad edir.<\/p>\n<p>O\u011flan &#8211; H\u00fcseyn d\u0259 bir yandan a\u011fr\u0131lardan \u00fcz\u00fcl\u00fcr, dig\u0259r t\u0259r\u0259fd\u0259n, do\u011fma, \u0259ziz anas\u0131na d\u0259rd verdiyin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 s\u0131x\u0131l\u0131r. Sa\u011falma\u011fa, yax\u015f\u0131 olma\u011fa \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131r. \u00d6vlad \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn n\u0259l\u0259r \u00e7\u0259kmir, n\u0259l\u0259r\u0259 sin\u0259 g\u0259rmir analar?<\/p>\n<p>\u201cK\u0259p\u0259n\u0259yin dili il\u0259\u201d kitab\u0131n\u0131n iki m\u00fc\u0259llifi var. Onlardan biri (\u00dclviyy\u0259 Na\u011f\u0131yeva) x\u0259st\u0259 H\u00fcseynin anas\u0131d\u0131r. Ana \u00f6vlad\u0131n\u0131n sa\u011falmas\u0131, a\u011fr\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131n y\u00fcng\u00fcll\u0259\u015fm\u0259si \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn cani-dild\u0259n \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131r, onun yata\u011f\u0131n\u0131n ba\u015f\u0131n\u0131 k\u0259sdirib qullu\u011funda durur, ona \u00fcr\u0259k-dir\u0259k verir. \u00dclviyy\u0259 xan\u0131m kitabda\u00a0 ke\u00e7\u0259n ill\u0259ri yada sal\u0131r, oxucunu t\u0259sirl\u0259ndirir, \u00f6z\u00fc d\u0259 k\u0259d\u0259rl\u0259nir, s\u0131z\u0131lday\u0131r, t\u0259\u0259ss\u00fcf edir.<\/p>\n<p>Dig\u0259r m\u00fc\u0259llif (V\u00fcsal\u0259 \u018fmiraslanova) birinci m\u00fc\u0259llifin (\u00dclviyy\u0259 Na\u011f\u0131yevan\u0131n) h\u0259yat yolunu izl\u0259yir, hiss-h\u0259y\u0259canlar\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6z \u00f6n\u00fcn\u0259 g\u0259tirir, \u00f6vlad\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn bu xan\u0131m\u0131n n\u0259l\u0259r\u0259 qatla\u015fd\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 t\u0259s\u0259vv\u00fcrd\u0259 canland\u0131r\u0131r, \u00dclviyy\u0259 xan\u0131m\u0131n\u00a0 v\u0259 \u00f6vlad\u0131n\u0131n ya\u015fad\u0131qlar\u0131na psixoloji bax\u0131mdan yana\u015f\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Kitab h\u0259yat\u0131n \u0259n a\u011f\u0131r s\u0131naqlar\u0131 il\u0259 \u00fczl\u0259\u015f\u0259n\u00a0 analara v\u0259\u00a0 onlar\u0131n h\u0259l\u0259 ki\u00e7ik ya\u015flar\u0131ndan h\u0259yat v\u0259 \u00f6l\u00fcm aras\u0131nda qalan, \u00e7arp\u0131\u015fan\u00a0 \u00f6vladlara h\u0259sr edilmi\u015fdir.<\/p>\n<p>Analara m\u00fcraci\u0259tl\u0259 deyilir: \u201cBilir\u0259m ki, bu a\u011fr\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6zl\u0259rl\u0259 t\u0259s\u0259lli etm\u0259k m\u00fcmk\u00fcn deyil. G\u00f6z ya\u015flar\u0131n\u0131z he\u00e7 vaxt tam qurumayacaq, q\u0259lbinizd\u0259ki bo\u015fluq he\u00e7 vaxt dolmayacaq. Amma \u0259min\u0259m ki, h\u0259r birinizin ba\u011fr\u0131nda bir g\u00fcn\u0259\u015f kimi parlayan, izini silm\u0259y\u0259n o k\u00f6rp\u0259 ruhlar\u0131 h\u0259l\u0259 d\u0259 sizinl\u0259dir. Onlar sevgimizl\u0259 ya\u015fay\u0131r, dualar\u0131m\u0131zda n\u0259f\u0259s al\u0131rlar\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130kinci m\u00fc\u0259llif (V\u00fcsal\u0259 \u018fmiraslanova) psixoloji m\u0259qamlar\u0131 xat\u0131rlatmaqla dig\u0131r m\u00fc\u0259llifin (\u00dclviyy\u0259 Na\u011f\u0131yeva) a\u011fr\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131 y\u00fcng\u00fcll\u0259\u015fdirm\u0259y\u0259, yaralar\u0131na\u00a0 m\u0259lh\u0259m qoyma\u011fa \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131r. Ac\u0131 xatir\u0259l\u0259ri \u201c\u015firinl\u0259\u015fdirm\u0259k\u201d, onlara \u201cbal\u201d qatmaq, a\u011fr\u0131-ac\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 y\u00fcng\u00fcll\u0259\u015fdirm\u0259k ist\u0259yir. H\u0259yat\u0131n h\u0259qiq\u0259t\u0259n g\u00f6z\u0259l oldu\u011funa,\u00a0 ya\u015fananlar\u0131n \u00f6t\u00fcb ke\u00e7\u0259c\u0259yin\u0259, xo\u015f ovqata sahibl\u0259n\u0259 bil\u0259c\u0259yin\u0259 inam yaratm\u011fa can at\u0131r, ona g\u00f6z\u0259llikl\u0259rd\u0259n yararlanma\u011f\u0131 m\u0259sl\u0259h\u0259t g\u00f6r\u00fcr.<\/p>\n<p>M\u00fc\u0259llif valideynl\u0259r\u0259 \u00f6z \u00f6vladlar\u0131n\u0131 m\u00fchafiz\u0259 etm\u0259yi,\u00a0 \u00f6z sevgil\u0259rini, m\u0259h\u0259bb\u0259tl\u0259rini, qay\u011f\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131 onlardan \u0259sirg\u0259m\u0259m\u0259m\u0259yi t\u00f6vsiy\u0259 edir. U\u015faql\u0131q ill\u0259rind\u0259 al\u0131nan z\u0259rb\u0259l\u0259r, z\u0259d\u0259l\u0259r, naqis t\u0259rbiy\u0259, ail\u0259 ixtilaflar\u0131, bo\u015fanmalar, natamam ail\u0259 \u015f\u0259raiti \u00f6mr\u00fc boyu u\u015faqlar\u0131\u00a0 m\u00fc\u015fayi\u0259t edir, onlar\u0131 s\u0131x\u0131r. H\u0259tta sa\u011flaml\u0131qlar\u0131nda da probleml\u0259r yarad\u0131r. Bu kitabdak\u0131 kimi.\u00a0 \u018fs\u0259rin q\u0259hr\u0259man\u0131 (yeniyetm\u0259 H\u00fcseyn)\u00a0 valideynl\u0259rini \u00e7ox sevir. H\u0259r ikisini. Anas\u0131 kimi atas\u0131n\u0131 da\u00a0 h\u0259mi\u015f\u0259 yan\u0131nda g\u00f6rm\u0259k ist\u0259yir.\u00a0 F\u0259q\u0259t ata \u00f6z ail\u0259sin\u0259, h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131na, \u00f6vladlar\u0131na m\u00fcnasib\u0259td\u0259 laqeyddir. X\u0259st\u0259 u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n ataya, onun qay\u011f\u0131s\u0131na ehtiyac\u0131 var. Lakin ata \u00f6z ail\u0259sini at\u0131b gedib. Atas\u0131zl\u0131q \u00f6vlad\u0131n varl\u0131\u011f\u0131nda t\u00fcfanlar, f\u0131rt\u0131nalar yarad\u0131r.\u00a0 S\u0259hh\u0259tind\u0259 probleml\u0259r ba\u015f qald\u0131r\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>N\u0259vazi\u015fl\u0259 o\u011flunun boynunu qucaqlayanda anan\u0131n \u0259ll\u0259ri\u00a0\u00a0 titr\u0259yir, sanki onu ild\u0131r\u0131m vurur. \u00d6vlad\u0131n\u0131n boynunda yad d\u00fcy\u00fcnl\u0259rin oldu\u011funu g\u00f6r\u00fcr. Q\u0131z\u0131n\u0131n t\u0259\u0259ss\u00fcrat\u0131n\u0131 oxuyaq: \u201cH\u0259min an m\u0259n n\u0259yin ba\u015f verdiyini tam anlam\u0131rd\u0131m. Sad\u0259c\u0259 hiss edirdim ki, anam m\u0259nd\u0259ki n\u0259y\u0259s\u0259 toxunur. El\u0259 bir \u015fey\u0259 ki, o da, m\u0259n d\u0259 h\u0259l\u0259 ad\u0131n\u0131 bilmirdik. Amma o art\u0131q b\u0259d\u0259nimd\u0259ydi. V\u0259 o toxunu\u015fla birlikd\u0259 \u2013 sanki ill\u0259rl\u0259 i\u00e7imd\u0259 y\u0131\u011f\u0131l\u0131b qalm\u0131\u015f bir sirr t\u0259rp\u0259ndi. Boynumda\u2026B\u0259d\u0259nimin \u0259n h\u0259ssas yerind\u0259, bir ne\u00e7\u0259 b\u0259rk, ayd\u0131n hiss edil\u0259n d\u00fcy\u00fcnl\u0259r vard\u0131. O vaxtlar onlar m\u0259nim \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn sad\u0259c\u0259 ad\u0131n\u0131 bilm\u0259diyim q\u0259rib\u0259, yad bir varl\u0131q idi. Sonralar, b\u00f6y\u00fcd\u00fckc\u0259, m\u0259n v\u0259 anam birlikd\u0259 onlara ad verdik. \u00d6z dilimizd\u0259, \u00f6z i\u00e7imizd\u0259 \u2013 \u201c\u0259claf\u201d deyirdik onlara. \u00c7\u00fcnki onlar sad\u0259c\u0259 bir bioloji d\u0259yi\u015fiklik deyildi. Onlar b\u0259d\u0259nimd\u0259 n\u0259 is\u0259 m\u0259n\u0259 aid olmayan, m\u0259nd\u0259n n\u0259 is\u0259 alma\u011fa \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan bir \u015fey idi. Onlar m\u0259n\u0259, b\u0259d\u0259nim\u0259, ruhuma sahibl\u0259nm\u0259k ist\u0259yirdil\u0259r. Enerjimi, can\u0131m\u0131, toxunulmaz sand\u0131\u011f\u0131m m\u0259kanlar\u0131 zorla \u00f6zl\u0259rin\u0259 \u00e7\u0259kirdil\u0259r \u2013 sanki susdu\u011fum, gizl\u0259tdiyim, ifad\u0259 ed\u0259 bilm\u0259diyim h\u0259r \u015fey ill\u0259rl\u0259 y\u0131\u011f\u0131l\u0131b bir madd\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7evrilmi\u015fdi\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>H\u0259kim m\u00fcayin\u0259si,\u00a0 hals\u0131zl\u0131q x\u0259st\u0259xana h\u0259yat\u0131n\u0131 lab\u00fcd edir. F\u0259q\u0259t h\u0259yat g\u00f6z\u0259ldir! He\u00e7 kim bu h\u0259yatdan tez getm\u0259k ist\u0259mir. Hans\u0131 v\u0259ziyy\u0259td\u0259 olsa bel\u0259. Ana v\u0259 h\u0259kim qay\u011f\u0131s\u0131, x\u0259yali dost \u0259s\u0259r q\u0259hr\u0259man\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n ya\u015famaq, m\u00f6vcud olma imkan\u0131n\u0131 art\u0131r\u0131r.\u00a0 H\u0259yat e\u015fqi qalib g\u0259lir.<\/p>\n<p>H\u0259r d\u0259f\u0259 yaranm\u0131\u015f m\u00fcxt\u0259lif v\u0259ziyy\u0259tl\u0259rd\u0259 psixoloqun (V\u00fcsal\u0259 \u018fmiraslanovan\u0131n) psixoloji yana\u015fmalar\u0131 il\u0259 diqq\u0259t m\u0259rk\u0259zin\u0259 g\u0259lir. Bu yana\u015fmalar hadis\u0259l\u0259rin u\u011furla n\u0259tic\u0259l\u0259nm\u0259sin\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259m\u0259xsus \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 m\u00fcsb\u0259t t\u0259sir g\u00f6st\u0259rir.<\/p>\n<p>Fikrimiz bel\u0259dir ki,\u00a0 \u201cK\u0259p\u0259n\u0259yin dili il\u0259\u201d kitab\u0131 oxucular t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n maraqla qar\u015f\u0131lanacaq v\u0259 sevil\u0259-sevil\u0259 oxunacaq!<\/p>\n<p><strong>Akif Nura\u011fa o\u011flu Abbasov<\/strong>,<\/p>\n<p>pedaqogika elml\u0259ri doktoru, professor,<\/p>\n<p>\u018fm\u0259kdar m\u00fc\u0259llim,<\/p>\n<p>Az\u0259rbaycan Yaz\u0131\u00e7\u0131lar Birliyinin \u00fczv\u00fc<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p class=\"bawpvc-ajax-counter\" data-id=\"21776\">Yaz\u0131ya 20 d\u0259f\u0259 bax\u0131l\u0131b<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Oxucularla g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015f\u0259 \u00e7\u0131xar\u0131lan \u201cK\u0259p\u0259n\u0259yin dili il\u0259\u201d kitab\u0131\u00a0 narahat \u00f6mr\u00fcn, a\u011fr\u0131l\u0131 ya\u015fam\u0131n, h\u0259yatla \u00f6l\u00fcm aras\u0131nda \u00e7arp\u0131\u015fman\u0131n canl\u0131 t\u0259c\u0259ss\u00fcm\u00fc, eyni zamanda sabaha, g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259y\u0259\u00a0 boylanman\u0131n, inam\u0131n ifad\u0259sidir des\u0259k, yan\u0131lmar\u0131q. \u0130nsanlar m\u00f6vcudluqlar\u0131 d\u00f6vr\u00fcnd\u0259 h\u0259yat u\u011frunda \u00e7arp\u0131\u015f\u0131r, y\u0131x\u0131l\u0131r, durur, t\u0259zyiql\u0259r\u0259 m\u0259ruz qal\u0131r, d\u0259st\u0259kl\u0259nir, yaxud k\u0259narla\u015fd\u0131r\u0131l\u0131r. \u0130nsanlar \u00f6m\u00fcrl\u0259ri boyu xo\u015fb\u0259xtliy\u0259 \u00e7atma\u011f\u0131n yolunu axtar\u0131r, xo\u015fb\u0259xtliyi is\u0259 h\u0259r\u0259 bir c\u00fcr, y\u0259ni f\u0259rqli ba\u015fa [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":21778,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[20,3,21],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21776"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=21776"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21776\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":21779,"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21776\/revisions\/21779"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/21778"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=21776"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=21776"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=21776"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}