{"id":6288,"date":"2014-07-16T16:50:00","date_gmt":"2014-07-16T11:50:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/kultur.az\/?p=6288"},"modified":"2014-12-09T18:35:14","modified_gmt":"2014-12-09T14:35:14","slug":"irad%c9%99-aytel-b%c9%99y%c9%99ndiyim-kisi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/?p=6288","title":{"rendered":"\u0130rad\u0259 Aytel – B\u0259y\u0259ndiyim ki\u015fi"},"content":{"rendered":"

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\u201cKi\u015fil\u0259r bir olmur atam balas\u0131,
\nQorxa\u011f\u0131 var, igidi var..
\nAmma ham\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n…
\n…Qad\u0131na \u00fcmidi var\u201d
\nR.R\u00f6v\u015f\u0259n
\nQad\u0131nam! M\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n ya\u015f t\u0259cr\u00fcb\u0259sin\u0259, ictimai duruma, intellekt v\u0259 t\u0259hsil\u0259 malik bir qad\u0131n. V\u0259 \u0259n \u0259sas\u0131, \u0259trafdak\u0131lar\u0131n diqq\u0259tind\u0259 olan, \u0259ks\u0259r qad\u0131nlar\u0131n h\u0259s\u0259din\u0259, \u0259ks\u0259r ki\u015fil\u0259rin h\u0259sr\u0259tin\u0259 tu\u015f g\u0259l\u0259n qad\u0131n.
\nD\u00fcn\u0259n bir rus filmin\u0259 bax\u0131rd\u0131m, (\u201cG\u0259lm\u0259\u201d) filmd\u0259 k\u0259ndli g\u0259nc dostlar\u0131na deyir: \u201cK\u0259ndimiz\u0259 t\u0259z\u0259 g\u0259l\u0259n m\u00fc\u0259llim\u0259 var ey, o d\u00fcn\u0259n arabama minm\u0259k ist\u0259iyirdi. Tan\u0131\u015f olduq, h\u0259ft\u0259sonu m\u0259niml\u0259 gec\u0259y\u0259 qat\u0131lacaq\u201d v\u0259 s. v\u0259 ilax\u0131r. T\u0259bii ki, ham\u0131s\u0131 gop idi. H\u0259min m\u00fc\u0259llim\u0259 \u0259slind\u0259 o g\u0259d\u0259y\u0259 ba\u015f qo\u015fmam\u0131\u015fd\u0131.
\nBu, bizim c\u0259miyy\u0259td\u0259 h\u0259r d\u0259qiq\u0259 rastla\u015fd\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z olayd\u0131. \u018fn \u00e7ox da t\u0259nha v\u0259 diqq\u0259td\u0259 olan xan\u0131mlar\u0131n qabaqla\u015fd\u0131\u011f\u0131 olay. Biri g\u0259lir s\u0259n\u0259 salam verir, s\u0259h\u0259risi \u00f6z\u00fcn haqq\u0131nda t\u0259z\u0259 m\u0259lumatlara sahibl\u0259nirs\u0259n. S\u0259n dem\u0259, s\u0259n filank\u0259sl\u0259 sevgilis\u0259nmi\u015f, fe\u015fmank\u0259sl\u0259 yat\u0131rsanm\u0131\u015f, filank\u0259sd\u0259n \u00f6tr\u00fc \u00f6l\u00fcrs\u0259nmi\u015f. Bu da bir t\u0259r\u0259f\u0259. Y\u0259ni, bu m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259l\u0259r\u0259 ba\u015f qo\u015facaq birisi olsayd\u0131m, y\u0259qin indi hansisa ki\u015fiy\u0259 kirli corab yuyurdum…
\nBurada m\u0259qs\u0259dim tamam ba\u015fqad\u0131r. \u018fziz-x\u0259l\u0259f b\u0259yl\u0259r\u0259 (qeyb\u0259tcil olsalar bel\u0259) xan\u0131mlar\u0131n – \u0259n \u00e7ox da m\u0259n xasiyy\u0259td\u0259 xan\u0131mlar\u0131n b\u0259zi gizlin ist\u0259kl\u0259rini a\u015fikar etm\u0259kdir.<\/p>\n

Qad\u0131nlar nec\u0259 ki\u015fi ist\u0259yir?
\n1. Qad\u0131nlar g\u00fcv\u0259n\u0259 bil\u0259c\u0259yi, s\u00f6yk\u0259n\u0259 bil\u0259c\u0259yi, onu qoruma\u011fa qadir ki\u015fi ist\u0259yir.
\n2. Qad\u0131nlar q\u00fcrurlu ki\u015fi ist\u0259yir (ki\u015fi g\u00fccs\u00fcz, pulsuz, z\u0259if oldu\u011funu qad\u0131na bildirm\u0259z).
\n3. Qad\u0131nlar h\u00f6km etm\u0259yi bacaran ki\u015fi ist\u0259yir.
\n4. Qad\u0131nlar (m\u0259hz m\u0259n) ona hesabat verm\u0259y\u0259n ki\u015fi ist\u0259yir.
\n5. Qad\u0131nlar sevm\u0259yi, sevgiyl\u0259 sevi\u015fm\u0259yi bacaran ki\u015fi ist\u0259yir.
\n6. Qad\u0131nlar ictimai yerl\u0259rd\u0259 xan\u0131m\u0131na diqq\u0259t, qay\u011f\u0131 g\u00f6st\u0259r\u0259n ki\u015fi ist\u0259yir.
\n7. Qad\u0131nlar qad\u0131n\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fc bel\u0259 g\u00f6z\u0259 alan, bir az kobud, bir az davakar ki\u015fi ist\u0259yir.
\n8. Qad\u0131nlar m\u00fcst\u0259qil d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnm\u0259yi v\u0259 q\u0259rar verm\u0259yi bacaran ki\u015fi ist\u0259yir.
\n9. Qad\u0131nlar h\u0259r bir sah\u0259d\u0259 m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n bilgiy\u0259 malik (burada t\u0259hsil \u00f6n\u0259mlidir) ki\u015fi ist\u0259yir.
\n10. Qad\u0131nlar ail\u0259 d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda n\u0259 ets\u0259 d\u0259, ail\u0259 i\u00e7ind\u0259 \u201cs\u00fcdd\u0259n \u00e7\u0131xm\u0131\u015f qa\u015f\u0131q\u201d misali ki\u015fi ist\u0259yir.
\n11. Qad\u0131nlar m\u0259tb\u0259x i\u015fl\u0259rin\u0259 qar\u0131\u015fmayan ki\u015fi ist\u0259yir.
\n12. Qad\u0131nlar geyim m\u0259d\u0259niyy\u0259ti, yeri\u015f m\u0259d\u0259niyy\u0259ti, dan\u0131\u015f\u0131q m\u0259d\u0259niyy\u0259ti, yem\u0259k m\u0259d\u0259niyy\u0259ti, sevi\u015fm\u0259k m\u0259d\u0259niyy\u0259ti (sevi\u015fm\u0259k m\u0259d\u0259niyy\u0259ti a\u00e7\u0131qlama t\u0259l\u0259b ed\u0259n m\u00f6vzu oldu\u011fu \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn bu m\u00f6vzuya yenid\u0259n toxunacam) olan ki\u015fi ist\u0259yir.
\n13. T\u0259ss\u00fcf ki, qad\u0131nlar onlar\u0131 \u201c\u0259n \u00e7ox a\u011fladan\u201d (yen\u0259 Ramiz R\u00f6v\u015f\u0259n) ki\u015fi ist\u0259yir!
\nUnutmay\u0131n, yuxar\u0131da sadalad\u0131\u011f\u0131m keyfiyy\u0259tl\u0259r ki\u015fid\u0259 varsa, onun kas\u0131b v\u0259 yaxud varl\u0131 olmas\u0131n\u0131n qad\u0131n \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn he\u00e7 bir \u00f6n\u0259mi qalmayacaq.
\nBir h\u0259qiq\u0259ti d\u0259 dem\u0259liy\u0259m, qad\u0131nlar qorxaq ki\u015fini sev\u0259 bil\u0259r, lakin onun qorxaql\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 hiss edinc\u0259 bu sevgi adil\u0259\u015f\u0259r (nifr\u0259t\u0259 bel\u0259 layiq olmaz) v\u0259 qad\u0131n\u0131 o ki\u015fid\u0259n uzaqla\u015fd\u0131rar.
\nK\u0259nan Hac\u0131n\u0131n bir fikri il\u0259 n\u00f6qt\u0259mi qoyuram: \u201cB\u0259y\u0259ndiyin ki\u015fi olsayd\u0131, evd\u0259 qalmazd\u0131n\u201d.<\/p>\n

Yaz\u0131ya 1931 d\u0259f\u0259 bax\u0131l\u0131b<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

\u201cKi\u015fil\u0259r bir olmur atam balas\u0131, Qorxa\u011f\u0131 var, igidi var.. Amma ham\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n… …Qad\u0131na \u00fcmidi var\u201d R.R\u00f6v\u015f\u0259n Qad\u0131nam! M\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n ya\u015f t\u0259cr\u00fcb\u0259sin\u0259, ictimai duruma, intellekt v\u0259 t\u0259hsil\u0259 malik bir qad\u0131n. V\u0259 \u0259n \u0259sas\u0131, \u0259trafdak\u0131lar\u0131n diqq\u0259tind\u0259 olan, \u0259ks\u0259r qad\u0131nlar\u0131n h\u0259s\u0259din\u0259, \u0259ks\u0259r ki\u015fil\u0259rin h\u0259sr\u0259tin\u0259 tu\u015f g\u0259l\u0259n qad\u0131n. D\u00fcn\u0259n bir rus filmin\u0259 bax\u0131rd\u0131m, (\u201cG\u0259lm\u0259\u201d) filmd\u0259 k\u0259ndli g\u0259nc dostlar\u0131na deyir: \u201cK\u0259ndimiz\u0259 t\u0259z\u0259 […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":148,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[6,14],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6288"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=6288"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6288\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":7221,"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6288\/revisions\/7221"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/148"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=6288"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=6288"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=6288"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}