{"id":7047,"date":"2014-12-05T09:30:36","date_gmt":"2014-12-05T05:30:36","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/kultur.az\/?p=7047"},"modified":"2014-12-05T09:30:36","modified_gmt":"2014-12-05T05:30:36","slug":"elcin-%c9%99f%c9%99ndi-dogrudanmi-oxumaq-ist%c9%99yirl%c9%99r","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/?p=7047","title":{"rendered":"El\u00e7in \u018ff\u0259ndi &#8212; Do\u011frudanm\u0131 oxumaq ist\u0259yirl\u0259r?"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"attachment_7048\" style=\"width: 217px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><a href=\"http:\/\/kultur.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/12\/1888651_580103272079468_665580801_n.jpg\"><img aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-7048\" decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"wp-image-7048 \" src=\"http:\/\/kultur.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/12\/1888651_580103272079468_665580801_n.jpg\" alt=\"El\u00e7in \u018ff\u0259ndi\" width=\"207\" height=\"202\" srcset=\"https:\/\/kultur.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/12\/1888651_580103272079468_665580801_n.jpg 300w, https:\/\/kultur.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/12\/1888651_580103272079468_665580801_n-50x50.jpg 50w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 207px) 100vw, 207px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-7048\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">El\u00e7in \u018ff\u0259ndi\u00a0<\/p><\/div>\n<p style=\"color: #000000;\">Bildiyimiz kimi son 5 ild\u0259 TQDK-n\u0131n ke\u00e7irtdiyi q\u0259bul imtahanlar\u0131nda q\u0131zlar\u0131n say\u0131 get-ged\u0259 art\u0131r. Bu art\u0131mla nisb\u0259td\u0259 ke\u00e7id ballar\u0131 is\u0259 getdikc\u0259 a\u015fa\u011f\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr. Bel\u0259 davam ets\u0259, y\u0259qin ki yax\u0131n 2 il \u0259rzind\u0259 m\u00fcmk\u00fcn 700 baldan 100 bal toplamaqla universitet\u0259 q\u0259bul olmaq olacaq. Sual olunur ki, bu balla v\u0259 ya bu baldan 2 d\u0259f\u0259 art\u0131q toplan\u0131nlan balla universitet\u0259 q\u0259bul olan t\u0259l\u0259b\u0259l\u0259r do\u011frudanm\u0131 oxumaq niyy\u0259tdind\u0259dirl\u0259r? G\u0259lin bunu ara\u015fd\u0131raq.<br \/>\n\u0130lk \u00f6nc\u0259 oxumaq ist\u0259y\u0259n q\u0131zlar\u0131n \u00e7oxluq t\u0259\u015fkil etm\u0259 s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259rin\u0259 n\u0259z\u0259r salaq.<br \/>\nM\u0259lum oldu\u011fu kimi son 15-20 ild\u0259 \u00f6lk\u0259d\u0259 ail\u0259daxili m\u00fcnaqi\u015f\u0259l\u0259r v\u0259 bo\u015fanmalar pik h\u0259dd\u0259 \u00e7at\u0131b. Son iki il \u0259rzind\u0259 22000 n\u0259f\u0259r bo\u015fan\u0131b. T\u0259s\u0259vv\u00fcr edirsiz, 22000 n\u0259f\u0259r. Bu art\u0131q faci\u0259di. B\u00fct\u00fcn bunlar\u0131 g\u00f6r\u0259n valideyn q\u0131z \u00f6vladlar\u0131n\u0131n oxumas\u0131na c\u0259hd edir. D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr ki s\u0259h\u0259r q\u0131z\u0131 el\u0259 bir ail\u0259y\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u0259r ki, el\u0259 birin\u0259 aid ola bil\u0259r ki, o tez bir zamanda bo\u015fana bil\u0259r. Buna g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 q\u0131z m\u00fctl\u0259q ali t\u0259hsil almal\u0131 v\u0259 \u00f6z ba\u015f\u0131n\u0131, \u00f6vlad varsa da \u00f6vlad\u0131n\u0131 qorumal\u0131d\u0131r. \u018fslind\u0259 bu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259ni d\u0259st\u0259kl\u0259yir\u0259m v\u0259 t\u0259qdir\u0259layiq bir hal olaraq q\u0259bul edir\u0259m. \u00c7\u00fcnki burada valideyn \u0259n az\u0131 \u00f6vlad \u00fcz\u0259rind\u0259 v\u0259 onun g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259yi \u00fcz\u0259rind\u0259 m\u0259suliyy\u0259t hiss edir. Di\u015find\u0259n d\u0131rna\u011f\u0131ndan olan valideyn \u00f6vlad\u0131n\u0131n ali m\u0259kt\u0259b\u0259 daxil olmas\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u0259lind\u0259n g\u0259l\u0259ni art\u0131qlamas\u0131 il\u0259 edir. V\u0259 \u00f6vlad ya q\u0259bul olur, ya da q\u0259bul olmur.<br \/>\nG\u0259lin indi dig\u0259r aspektd\u0259n yana\u015faq. B\u0259llidir ki, universitet\u0259 q\u0259bul olan \u0259ks\u0259r q\u0131zlar\u0131n v\u0259 el\u0259c\u0259 d\u0259 o\u011flanlar\u0131n sevgi mac\u0259ralar\u0131 olur. V\u0259 bu mac\u0259ralar \u0259sasa\u0259n h\u0259r iki t\u0259r\u0259f \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn &#8220;pullu&#8221; fikrind\u0259n yan ke\u00e7mir. Pulluda oxuyanda, oxumayanda bu fikird\u0259 olur v\u0259 ard\u0131nca x\u0259yallar. Sonra ki\u00e7ik bir s\u0259hv v\u0259 x\u0259yallar\u0131n m\u0259hvi. Depresiya, intihar v\u0259 s. B\u00fct\u00fcn bunlar\u0131n yaranma s\u0259b\u0259bi insan psixikas\u0131n\u0131n poz\u011funlu\u011funun g\u00f6st\u0259ricisidi. B\u0259s psixikan\u0131 pozan n\u0259dir? Bu \u0259sas\u0259n, xarici teleseriallar v\u0259 daha \u00e7ox da T\u00fcrkiy\u0259 teleseriallar\u0131d\u0131. Art\u0131q o filml\u0259r\u0259 baxan g\u0259ncl\u0259r d\u0259rhal \u00f6zl\u0259rin\u0259 m\u00fcvafiq olaraq qar\u015f\u0131 cinsd\u0259n olan partnyor axtar\u0131r v\u0259 onunla m\u00fcnasib\u0259t\u0259 can at\u0131r. Filmd\u0259 g\u00f6rd\u00fckl\u0259rini h\u0259yat\u0131na t\u0259tbiq etm\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131r. Bu is\u0259 oturdu\u011fun yerd\u0259 Tanr\u0131dan \u00e7\u00f6r\u0259k ist\u0259m\u0259y\u0259 v\u0259 Tanr\u0131n\u0131n \u00e7\u00f6r\u0259yi m\u0259l\u0259k vasit\u0259sil\u0259 tezlikl\u0259 \u00e7atd\u0131raca\u011f\u0131na \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc inand\u0131rma\u011fa b\u0259nz\u0259yir. Amma q\u0131sa m\u00fcdd\u0259td\u0259n sonra h\u0259m inanc, h\u0259m d\u0259 ist\u0259kl\u0259r m\u0259hv olur.<br \/>\nYuxar\u0131da qeyd olunanlardan \u0259lav\u0259, \u00fcmumi t\u0259l\u0259b\u0259l\u0259rin t\u0259xmin\u0259n 15% oxuyan v\u0259 ya oxuma\u011fa c\u0259hd ed\u0259nl\u0259r olduqlar\u0131n\u0131 k\u0259nara qoymaqla, yerd\u0259 qalan 85%-in sad\u0259c\u0259 prestij xatirin\u0259 ali t\u0259hsil alma\u011fa meylli oldu\u011funu g\u00f6rm\u0259m\u0259k olmur. \u018fll\u0259rind\u0259 is\u0259 tutarl\u0131 b\u0259hanl\u0259r h\u0259r zaman oldu\u011fu kimi yen\u0259 d\u0259 korrupsiyad\u0131. Y\u0259ni m\u00fc\u0259llim qiym\u0259t yazm\u0131r, pul ist\u0259yir kimi na\u011f\u0131llar. Bu art\u0131q ke\u00e7mi\u015fd\u0259 qald\u0131. Sizc\u0259 bu \u00f6z\u00fc bisavads\u0131zl\u0131q deyilmi? M\u0259g\u0259r haqs\u0131z pul t\u0259l\u0259b ed\u0259n m\u00fc\u0259llim\u0259 (y\u0259ni oxudu\u011fun halda pul t\u0259l\u0259b edir v\u0259 ya oxumad\u0131\u011f\u0131n halda da pul t\u0259l\u0259b edir) \u00fcsyan etm\u0259y\u0259 g\u00fcc\u00fcn \u00e7atm\u0131rm\u0131? T\u0259bii ki \u00e7atm\u0131r. \u00c7\u00fcnki \u0259vv\u0259la s\u0259n \u00f6z h\u00fcquqlar\u0131n\u0131 bilmirs\u0259n, ikincisi is\u0259 s\u0259n \u00fcmumiyy\u0259tl\u0259 haqs\u0131zsan. \u00c7\u00fcnki t\u0259dris boyu oxumay\u0131b, ancaq x\u0259yal qurmusan v\u0259 bel\u0259 olan t\u0259qdird\u0259 r\u00fc\u015fv\u0259t\u0259 meyilli olan m\u00fc\u0259llimin \u0259lin\u0259 f\u00fcrs\u0259t vermis\u0259n. \u0130ndi qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131na \u00e7\u0131xacaq v\u0259 haqlar\u0131n\u0131 t\u0259l\u0259b ed\u0259c\u0259k g\u00fccd\u0259 deyils\u0259n.<br \/>\nBu h\u0259m\u00e7inin orta m\u0259kt\u0259bl\u0259rd\u0259 d\u0259 ke\u00e7\u0259rlidir. Bel\u0259ki \u015fagird orta m\u0259kt\u0259bd\u0259 oxumur (burada m\u00fcxt\u0259lif s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259r var. Dolan\u0131\u015f\u0131q, avara\u00e7\u0131l\u0131q v\u0259 s.) v\u0259 yekun n\u0259tic\u0259d\u0259 onun q\u0259bul imtahan\u0131nda g\u00f6st\u0259ricisi 0-100 v\u0259 ya 100-150 bal aras\u0131 olur. H\u0259r il bu kimi \u015fagirdl\u0259r respublikada t\u0259xmin\u0259n 60-70 min n\u0259f\u0259ri t\u0259\u015fkil edir ki, bu da ke\u00e7id ballar\u0131n\u0131n a\u015fa\u011f\u0131 d\u00fc\u015fm\u0259sin\u0259 g\u0259tirib \u00e7\u0131xar\u0131r.<br \/>\nB\u00fct\u00fcn bunlar\u0131 bildikd\u0259 i\u00e7ind\u0259 bir a\u011fr\u0131 qopur v\u0259 o a\u011fr\u0131 \u0259cinn\u0259 formas\u0131nda g\u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259 g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u0259r\u0259k s\u0259mada \u0259yri x\u0259tl\u0259rl\u0259 bel\u0259 bir sual yaz\u0131r:<br \/>\n&#8220;Do\u011frudanm\u0131 oxumaq ist\u0259yirl\u0259r?&#8221; v\u0259 ard\u0131nca q\u0259hq\u0259h\u0259 \u00e7\u0259k\u0259r\u0259k yoxa \u00e7\u0131x\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p class=\"bawpvc-ajax-counter\" data-id=\"7047\">Yaz\u0131ya 1294 d\u0259f\u0259 bax\u0131l\u0131b<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Bildiyimiz kimi son 5 ild\u0259 TQDK-n\u0131n ke\u00e7irtdiyi q\u0259bul imtahanlar\u0131nda q\u0131zlar\u0131n say\u0131 get-ged\u0259 art\u0131r. Bu art\u0131mla nisb\u0259td\u0259 ke\u00e7id ballar\u0131 is\u0259 getdikc\u0259 a\u015fa\u011f\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr. Bel\u0259 davam ets\u0259, y\u0259qin ki yax\u0131n 2 il \u0259rzind\u0259 m\u00fcmk\u00fcn 700 baldan 100 bal toplamaqla universitet\u0259 q\u0259bul olmaq olacaq. Sual olunur ki, bu balla v\u0259 ya bu baldan 2 d\u0259f\u0259 art\u0131q toplan\u0131nlan balla [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":7048,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[6],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7047"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=7047"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7047\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":7049,"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7047\/revisions\/7049"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/7048"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=7047"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=7047"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=7047"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}