{"id":7084,"date":"2014-12-05T23:35:17","date_gmt":"2014-12-05T19:35:17","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/kultur.az\/?p=7084"},"modified":"2014-12-05T23:35:17","modified_gmt":"2014-12-05T19:35:17","slug":"sahnaz-kamal-qadinlar-ucun-h%c9%99l%c9%99-40-yasim-varla-artiq-40-yasim-varin-f%c9%99rqi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/?p=7084","title":{"rendered":"\u015eahnaz Kamal &#8211;Qad\u0131nlar \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn  &#8220;h\u0259l\u0259 40 ya\u015f\u0131m var&#8221;la &#8220;art\u0131q 40 ya\u015f\u0131m var&#8221;\u0131n f\u0259rqi"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/kultur.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/04\/1528552_748066835221780_1522176359_n.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignright wp-image-4711 size-full\" src=\"http:\/\/kultur.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/04\/1528552_748066835221780_1522176359_n.jpg\" alt=\"1528552_748066835221780_1522176359_n\" width=\"320\" height=\"240\" srcset=\"https:\/\/kultur.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/04\/1528552_748066835221780_1522176359_n.jpg 320w, https:\/\/kultur.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/04\/1528552_748066835221780_1522176359_n-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/kultur.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/04\/1528552_748066835221780_1522176359_n-75x55.jpg 75w, https:\/\/kultur.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/04\/1528552_748066835221780_1522176359_n-180x135.jpg 180w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 320px) 100vw, 320px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"color: #000000;\">\u00a0D\u00fcnyada b\u00fct\u00fcn qad\u0131nlar xarakterc\u0259 bir-biril\u0259rin\u0259 ox\u015fay\u0131rlar. Sad\u0259c\u0259, onlar f\u0259rqli toplumlarda do\u011fulub ya\u015fad\u0131qlar\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn, onlara m\u00fcnasib\u0259t, veril\u0259n t\u0259rbiy\u0259, diqq\u0259t, g\u00f6zl\u0259nti f\u0259rqli olur.<\/p>\n<p style=\"color: #000000;\">Xeyli vaxtd\u0131r Sankt-Peterburqda ya\u015fay\u0131ram. Rusiyada ya\u015fayan az\u0259rbaycanl\u0131 qad\u0131nlar\u0131n g\u00fcz\u0259ran\u0131na, h\u0259yat t\u0259rzin\u0259 yax\u0131ndan b\u0259l\u0259d\u0259m. Ya\u015fad\u0131qlar\u0131m v\u0259 e\u015fidib g\u00f6rd\u00fckl\u0259rim m\u0259ni h\u0259r yerd\u0259, ham\u0131ya bel\u0259 dem\u0259y\u0259 m\u0259cbur edir :Rusiyada ya\u015fayacaq o\u011flana q\u0131z verm\u0259yin. \u018fg\u0259r q\u0131z\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n ali t\u0259hsili varsa, o zaman bu bar\u0259d\u0259 \u00fcmumiyy\u0259tl\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnm\u0259yin.<\/p>\n<p style=\"color: #000000;\">M\u0259n bel\u0259 dey\u0259nd\u0259 \u00e7ox xan\u0131mlar \u201cGuya biz Az\u0259rbaycanda qalm\u0131\u015f\u0131q, \u0259limiz balam\u0131 bat\u0131b?\u201d dey\u0259r\u0259k, haqs\u0131z \u00e7\u0131xartma\u011fa \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rlar. Ancaq yen\u0259 d\u0259 fikrimd\u0259n d\u00f6nm\u00fcr\u0259m. \u00c7\u00fcnki burada ya\u015fayan v\u0259 ya ya\u015fama\u011fa m\u0259hkum olunan az\u0259rbaycanl\u0131 xan\u0131mlar\u0131n tam \u0259ks\u0259riyy\u0259ti onlar\u0131 g\u0259tirib buraya \u00e7\u0131xaran talel\u0259rind\u0259n b\u0259rk \u015fikay\u0259t\u00e7idirl\u0259r. Peterburqda m\u00fchit f\u0259rqlidir. Buraya g\u0259l\u0259n xan\u0131mlar\u0131n \u00e7oxunda ilk ill\u0259r dil baryeri olur ki, bu da onlar\u0131n rus m\u00fchitin\u0259 yax\u0131nla\u015fmas\u0131na ciddi mane\u0259 t\u00f6r\u0259dir. Burada ya\u015fayan az\u0259rbaycanl\u0131lar\u0131 bir \u015fey maraqland\u0131r\u0131r: birt\u0259h\u0259r ba\u015f\u0131n\u0131 doland\u0131rmaq v\u0259 laz\u0131m\u0131 \u015f\u0259raiti d\u00fcz\u0259ldib \u201cu\u015faqlar\u0131 bir yana \u00e7\u0131xardandan sonra\u201d bird\u0259f\u0259lik \u00e7\u0131x\u0131b Az\u0259rbaycana getm\u0259k. Bu da bir \u00f6m\u00fcr bahas\u0131na ba\u015fa g\u0259lir ( ya da he\u00e7 g\u0259lmir).<\/p>\n<p style=\"color: #000000;\">Elektron m\u0259tbuatda, sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 Peterburqda ya\u015fayan qad\u0131nlar\u0131n h\u0259yat t\u0259rzi haqq\u0131nda bir ne\u00e7\u0259 yaz\u0131, status yazm\u0131\u015fam. H\u0259r d\u0259f\u0259 bel\u0259 yaz\u0131lardan sonra m\u00fctl\u0259q m\u0259n\u0259 yaz\u0131b d\u0259rdini b\u00f6l\u00fc\u015f\u0259n \u0259n az\u0131 bir az\u0259rbaycanl\u0131 qad\u0131n tap\u0131l\u0131r: \u201cEl\u0259 yazm\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z, sanki m\u0259ni tan\u0131y\u0131rd\u0131n\u0131z, h\u0259yat\u0131mdan x\u0259b\u0259rdars\u0131n\u0131z\u201d. Bu h\u0259yat\u0131 \u00f6z\u00fcm d\u0259 bu v\u0259 ya dig\u0259r \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn onlar\u0131 yax\u015f\u0131 anlay\u0131ram. Az\u0259rbaycanda qad\u0131n n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r h\u00fcquqsuz, g\u00f6z\u00fcq\u0131p\u0131qd\u0131rsa, burada ya\u015fayan az\u0259rbaycanl\u0131 qad\u0131n ondan bet\u0259rdi. Sanki qad\u0131n yaln\u0131z n\u0259sil art\u0131rmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn do\u011fub t\u00f6r\u0259y\u0259n, u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n\u0131n v\u0259 \u0259rinin h\u0259r bir qay\u011f\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7\u0259km\u0259li olan bir m\u0259xluqdur.<\/p>\n<p style=\"color: #000000;\">Peterburqda ya\u015fayan az\u0259rbaycanl\u0131 xan\u0131mlardan birinin m\u0259n\u0259 yazd\u0131qlar\u0131:\u201d Ke\u00e7irdiyim h\u0259yat t\u0259rzi m\u0259ni nevropotoloqun q\u0259buluna g\u0259tirdi. H\u0259kim m\u00fcayin\u0259 edib m\u00fcalic\u0259 yazandan sonra m\u0259sl\u0259h\u0259t g\u00f6rd\u00fc ki, psixoterapevt\u0259 d\u0259 m\u00fcraci\u0259t edim. B\u0131\u00e7aq s\u00fcm\u00fcy\u0259 dir\u0259nmi\u015fdi dey\u0259 ham\u0131dan v\u0259 h\u0259r \u015feyd\u0259n k\u00f6m\u0259k g\u00f6zl\u0259yirdim. Psixoterapevt\u0259 getdim, h\u0259kim qad\u0131n idi. M\u0259n ail\u0259 qurandan d\u0259rhal sonra Peterburqa g\u0259lmi\u015fdim. O vaxtdan bu g\u00fcn\u0259 kimi ba\u015f\u0131ma g\u0259l\u0259nl\u0259rin ham\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 h\u0259kim\u0259 dan\u0131\u015fd\u0131m. Ail\u0259d\u0259 olan \u0259n b\u00f6y\u00fck probleml\u0259rimi dedim. H\u0259kim m\u0259n\u0259 diqq\u0259tl\u0259 qulaq as\u0131b soru\u015fdu: \u201cN\u0259 etm\u0259k ist\u0259yirsiniz, g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259k planlar\u0131n\u0131z n\u0259dir?\u201d M\u0259nim g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn plan\u0131m yox idi, he\u00e7 bu bar\u0259d\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnm\u0259mi\u015fdim d\u0259. H\u0259kim ikinci sual\u0131 verdi: \u201cValideynl\u0259riniz sa\u011fd\u0131rm\u0131, onlar sizin durumunuzdan x\u0259b\u0259rdard\u0131larm\u0131?\u201d<\/p>\n<p style=\"color: #000000;\">Dedim: \u201cB\u0259li, sa\u011fd\u0131rd\u0131rlar. Anam olanlar\u0131 bilir. Bilir ki, ali t\u0259hsilim olsa da, rus dilini bils\u0259m d\u0259, yolda\u015f\u0131m burada i\u015fl\u0259m\u0259y\u0259 icaz\u0259 vermir. Kiray\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 bir qarn\u0131 ac, bir qarn\u0131 tox ya\u015fay\u0131r\u0131q. Yolda\u015f\u0131m n\u0259 ist\u0259s\u0259 ed\u0259 bil\u0259r v\u0259 ona qar\u015f\u0131 \u00e7\u0131xma\u011fa ixtiyar\u0131m yoxdur. Amma anam deyir, d\u00f6z, yax\u015f\u0131 olacaq.\u201d<\/p>\n<p style=\"color: #000000;\">H\u0259kim titr\u0259y\u0259n \u0259ll\u0259rim\u0259, t\u00f6k\u00fcl\u0259n g\u00f6z ya\u015flar\u0131ma bax\u0131b heyr\u0259tl\u0259 p\u0131\u00e7\u0131ldad\u0131: \u201cN\u0259y\u0259 d\u00f6z, nec\u0259 d\u00f6z? Ax\u0131 bu h\u0259yat insana bir d\u0259f\u0259 verilir v\u0259 sizin d\u0259 onu bel\u0259 g\u0259nc ya\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdan bu q\u0259d\u0259r x\u0259st\u0259lik taparaq ke\u00e7irm\u0259yiniz d\u00fczg\u00fcn deyil\u201d.<\/p>\n<p style=\"color: #000000;\">\n<p style=\"color: #000000;\">Susdum. Ba\u015fa d\u00fc\u015fd\u00fcm ki, h\u0259r ikimiz qad\u0131n olsaq da, psixoloq xan\u0131m m\u0259ni anlamayacaq. \u00c7\u00fcnki, o, rusdur. Onun t\u0259s\u0259vv\u00fcr\u00fcnd\u0259 \u201cd\u00f6z, birt\u0259h\u0259r, yax\u015f\u0131 olacaq\u201d kimi anlam yoxdur. Rus qad\u0131n d\u0259rk el\u0259mir ki, bizd\u0259 \u0259r evi gor evidir, bo\u015fanm\u0131\u015f qad\u0131nlara \u201cikinci sort\u201d kimi bax\u0131rlar.<\/p>\n<p style=\"color: #000000;\">H\u0259kim\u0259 dey\u0259nd\u0259 ki, \u0259rim m\u0259n\u0259 he\u00e7 yer\u0259 getm\u0259y\u0259 icaz\u0259 vermir, m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259n, m\u0259nim u\u015faqlar\u0131mla g\u0259zm\u0259y\u0259, konsert\u0259, teatra getm\u0259k ixtiyar\u0131m yoxdur, o lap \u015foka d\u00fc\u015fd\u00fc. H\u0259kimin: \u201cBunun \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn siz niy\u0259 \u0259rinizd\u0259n icaz\u0259 ist\u0259yirsiniz ki?\u201d- dedi. Bax bu zaman ikit\u0259r\u0259fli \u015fok ya\u015fand\u0131. M\u0259n t\u0259\u0259cc\u00fcbl\u0259ndim: \u201cNec\u0259 ola bil\u0259r ki, \u0259rd\u0259n icaz\u0259 almam\u0131\u015f harasa ged\u0259s\u0259n?!\u201d\u201d<\/p>\n<p style=\"color: #000000;\">Bir m\u00fcdd\u0259t \u00f6nc\u0259 Facebookda elan yazd\u0131m ki, ist\u0259yir\u0259m D\u00fcnya Az\u0259rbaycanl\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131n H\u0259mr\u0259ylik G\u00fcn\u00fc v\u0259 Yeni il m\u00fcnasib\u0259ti il\u0259 Peterburqda ya\u015fayan az\u0259rbaycanl\u0131 xan\u0131mlarla onlar\u0131n balalar\u0131 bir yer\u0259 y\u0131\u011f\u0131\u015faq, h\u0259m tan\u0131\u015f olaq, h\u0259m d\u0259 bayramlar\u0131 qeyd ed\u0259k. Xeyli xan\u0131m t\u0259klifiml\u0259 raz\u0131la\u015fd\u0131, dekabr\u0131n 28-i y\u0131\u011f\u0131\u015faca\u011f\u0131q. Xan\u0131mlar\u0131 bir yer\u0259 y\u0131\u011fmaqda m\u0259nim daha bir m\u0259qs\u0259dim var. Onlar\u0131n \u00e7oxu bu v\u0259 ya dig\u0259r s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259r \u00fcz\u00fcnd\u0259n i\u015fl\u0259mirl\u0259r. Biz qad\u0131nlar tan\u0131\u015f olsaq bir-birimiz\u0259 yard\u0131m ed\u0259 bil\u0259rik. M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259n, biri dadl\u0131 \u015firniyyat bi\u015fir\u0259 bilir, dig\u0259ri d\u0259rzidir. Qalanlar\u0131m\u0131z da onlara sifari\u015f verib pul qazanmaqlar\u0131na \u015f\u0259rait yarada bil\u0259r. Bu reald\u0131r, m\u00fcmk\u00fcnd\u00fcr. Art\u0131q bir ne\u00e7\u0259 qad\u0131n\u0131m\u0131za i\u015f tapmaq m\u00fcmk\u00fcn olub. Qad\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6z g\u0259liri olanda daha inaml\u0131, \u00f6zg\u00fcv\u0259nli olur.<\/p>\n<p style=\"color: #000000;\">Bu elan\u0131 oxuyan xan\u0131mlar\u0131m\u0131zdan biri m\u0259n\u0259 \u015f\u0259xsi ismar\u0131c yaz\u0131b soru\u015fdu ki, topla\u015faca\u011f\u0131m\u0131z kafe az\u0259rbaycanl\u0131n\u0131nd\u0131m\u0131? Dedim yox, rusundur. Xan\u0131m\u0131n niy\u0259 soru\u015fdu\u011funu yax\u015f\u0131 bilir\u0259m. \u018fg\u0259r kafe az\u0259rbaycanl\u0131n\u0131n olsa, sabah u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 il\u0259 \u015f\u0259nliy\u0259 g\u0259l\u0259n xan\u0131m\u0131n \u0259rinin \u0259misi o\u011flunun kirv\u0259si g\u0259lib \u0259rin\u0259 dey\u0259c\u0259k ki, s\u0259nin arvad\u0131n\u0131n filan kafed\u0259 n\u0259 i\u015fi vard\u0131? Arvad hara, kafe hara? Bayramd\u0131r, \u201cpaytaxt\u201d salat\u0131n\u0131 haz\u0131rlas\u0131n, a\u015f\u0131n\u0131 bi\u015firsin, yolkas\u0131n\u0131 da b\u0259z\u0259yib balalar\u0131n\u0131 ba\u015f\u0131na y\u0131\u011fs\u0131n, evind\u0259 otursun.<\/p>\n<p style=\"color: #000000;\">M\u0259nim g\u00f6rd\u00fcy\u00fcm rus qad\u0131nlar\u0131n\u0131n az\u0259rbaycanl\u0131 qad\u0131nlardan f\u0259rql\u0259ndir\u0259n bir x\u00fcsusiyy\u0259ti var: onlar \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259inaml\u0131d\u0131rlar. Bu, insan \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn, onun c\u0259miyy\u0259td\u0259 layiq oldu\u011fu yerini tutmas\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u00e7ox \u00f6n\u0259mli m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259dir.<\/p>\n<p style=\"color: #000000;\">Rus ail\u0259sind\u0259 birinci q\u0131z u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 do\u011fulsa ata ikinci u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n\u0131n o\u011flan do\u011fulmas\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn dava salmaz, ana da bunu \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259 d\u0259rd el\u0259m\u0259z. Bax, rus qad\u0131n\u0131n\u0131n b\u00f6y\u00fcy\u0259nd\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259inaml\u0131 olmas\u0131n\u0131n k\u00f6k\u00fcnd\u0259 bu durur. O, u\u015faql\u0131qdan hiss edir ki, o\u011flan u\u015faqlar\u0131 il\u0259 eynih\u00fcquqludur. Valideynl\u0259ri \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn d\u0259 ikinci d\u0259r\u0259c\u0259li deyil.<\/p>\n<p style=\"color: #000000;\">Bizd\u0259 \u00e7ox nadir ail\u0259l\u0259r bir q\u0131z u\u015faqlar\u0131n\u0131n olmas\u0131 il\u0259 kifay\u0259tl\u0259nirl\u0259r. H\u0259tta b\u0259zi ail\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 iki v\u0259 ya daha \u00e7ox q\u0131z u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 olanda, yen\u0259 d\u0259 o\u011fulsuz ail\u0259ni tam hesab etmirl\u0259r. Bunun n\u0259tic\u0259sind\u0259 d\u0259, selektiv abortlar ba\u015f al\u0131b gedir.<\/p>\n<p style=\"color: #000000;\">O\u011ful ist\u0259yind\u0259 olan ail\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 b\u00f6y\u00fcy\u0259n q\u0131z u\u015faqlar\u0131 \u00f6zl\u0259rini ail\u0259d\u0259, c\u0259miyy\u0259td\u0259 ikinci d\u0259r\u0259c\u0259li hiss edirl\u0259r. \u00d6z\u00fcn\u0259inams\u0131z olurlar. \u0130st\u0259k v\u0259 arzular\u0131n\u0131 realla\u015fd\u0131ra bil\u0259c\u0259kl\u0259rin\u0259 ehtiyatla yana\u015f\u0131rlar. \u00c7\u00fcnki u\u015faql\u0131qdan onlar\u0131n alt \u015f\u00fcurunda qarda\u015flar\u0131ndan f\u0259rql\u0259nm\u0259si, a\u015fa\u011f\u0131 olmas\u0131 fikri k\u00f6k sal\u0131b.<\/p>\n<p style=\"color: #000000;\">U\u015faql\u0131qdan \u00f6z \u00fcz\u0259rind\u0259 qarda\u015flar\u0131n\u0131n, qohumlar\u0131nda olan o\u011flan u\u015faqlar\u0131n\u0131n hegemonlu\u011funu hiss ed\u0259n az\u0259rbaycanl\u0131 q\u0131z da b\u00f6y\u00fcy\u0259nd\u0259 g\u00f6z\u00fcq\u0131p\u0131q, \u0259l\u0259baxan, aciz olur.<\/p>\n<p style=\"color: #000000;\">Ancaq rus ail\u0259sind\u0259 bel\u0259 deyil.<\/p>\n<p style=\"color: #000000;\">\u00c7ox q\u0259rib\u0259dir ki, ail\u0259sind\u0259 q\u0131z\u0131 yuxar\u0131da dediyim kimi t\u0259rbiy\u0259 ed\u0259n ata, m\u00fcqayis\u0259d\u0259 rus qad\u0131n\u0131na \u00fcst\u00fcnl\u00fck verir. Az\u0259rbaycanl\u0131 ki\u015fi \u00f6z yaratd\u0131\u011f\u0131, t\u0259rbiy\u0259 etdiyi qad\u0131n\u0131 b\u0259y\u0259nmir. Anacaq ba\u015fqa c\u00fcr olmas\u0131n\u0131 da ist\u0259mir.<\/p>\n<p style=\"color: #000000;\">Bizim toplum &#8220;azadl\u0131q&#8221;, &#8220;s\u0259rb\u0259stlik&#8221; s\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc m\u00fcxt\u0259lif m\u0259nalarda q\u0259bul edir. Bura \u00f6zba\u015f\u0131nal\u0131qdan tutmu\u015f \u0259xlaqs\u0131zl\u0131\u011fa q\u0259d\u0259r h\u0259r \u015fey ba\u015fa d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcl\u0259 bil\u0259r. Bizim babalar q\u0131z\u0131 y\u00fck, h\u0259m d\u0259 \u0259n a\u011f\u0131r y\u00fck olan duz y\u00fck\u00fc hesab edib, q\u0131z\u0131 olan atalara g\u00f6zayd\u0131nl\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u0259v\u0259zin\u0259 &#8220;can\u0131n sa\u011f olsun&#8221; deyibl\u0259r.<\/p>\n<p style=\"color: #000000;\">Qad\u0131nlar iqtisadi c\u0259h\u0259td\u0259n azad olmal\u0131d\u0131rlar. Ancaq bir \u00e7ox ki\u015fil\u0259r bundan qorxurlar, m\u00fcmk\u00fcn q\u0259d\u0259r iqtisadi azadl\u0131\u011fa da mane olma\u011fa \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rlar. M\u0259n\u0259 Az\u0259rbaycanda qad\u0131nlar\u0131n s\u0259rb\u0259st \u00e7al\u0131\u015fa bilm\u0259sini, bilik v\u0259 bacar\u0131qlar\u0131 hesab\u0131na ir\u0259li getm\u0259l\u0259rini misal g\u00f6st\u0259rm\u0259yin. D\u00fczd\u00fcr, bel\u0259l\u0259ri var, ancaq ki\u015fi hegemonlu\u011funun qurban\u0131 olan qad\u0131nlar\u0131n say\u0131 onlardan \u00e7oxdur, lap \u00e7oxdur.<\/p>\n<p style=\"color: #000000;\">Selektiv abortlar\u0131n k\u00f6k\u00fcnd\u0259 d\u0259 bu fakt durur: Az\u0259rbaycanl\u0131 ki\u015fi d\u0259, qad\u0131n da do\u011fulacaq q\u0131zlar\u0131n\u0131n xo\u015fb\u0259xt, azad ola bil\u0259c\u0259yin\u0259 inanm\u0131rlar.<\/p>\n<p style=\"color: #000000;\">Bu yay Bak\u0131da bir yaz\u0131\u00e7\u0131 il\u0259 bir xan\u0131m\u0131n dialoqunun \u015fahidi oldum:<\/p>\n<p style=\"color: #000000;\">&#8211; Sizc\u0259, nec\u0259 etm\u0259k laz\u0131md\u0131r ki, xo\u015fb\u0259xt olaq?<\/p>\n<p style=\"color: #000000;\">&#8211; Az\u0259rbaycanda q\u0131z do\u011fulub xo\u015fb\u0259xt olmaq m\u00fcmk\u00fcn deyil.<\/p>\n<p style=\"color: #000000;\">Bunu yazar\u0131m\u0131z, evind\u0259 q\u0131z balas\u0131n\u0131 b\u00f6y\u00fcd\u0259n ata, bir xan\u0131m\u0131n g\u00fcv\u0259ndiyi \u0259r dedi.<\/p>\n<p style=\"color: #000000;\">Az\u0259rbaycanl\u0131 xan\u0131mlar bacar\u0131\u011f\u0131, i\u015fguzarl\u0131\u011f\u0131, s\u0259daq\u0259ti, insanp\u0259rv\u0259rliyi&#8230; il\u0259 n\u0259 rus xan\u0131mlardan, n\u0259 d\u0259 dig\u0259r xalqlar\u0131n xan\u0131mlar\u0131ndan gerid\u0259 qal\u0131rlar. Onlarda birc\u0259 \u015fey \u00e7at\u0131\u015fm\u0131r &#8211; \u00f6zg\u00fcv\u0259n.<\/p>\n<p style=\"color: #000000;\">El\u0259 buna g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259, 40 ya\u015f\u0131nda olan rus xan\u0131m deyir: \u201cH\u0259l\u0259 40 ya\u015f\u0131m var\u201d. Az\u0259rbaycanl\u0131 is\u0259 k\u00f6ks \u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fcr: \u201cArt\u0131q 40 ya\u015f\u0131m var\u201d.<\/p>\n<p class=\"bawpvc-ajax-counter\" data-id=\"7084\">Yaz\u0131ya 2042 d\u0259f\u0259 bax\u0131l\u0131b<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u00a0D\u00fcnyada b\u00fct\u00fcn qad\u0131nlar xarakterc\u0259 bir-biril\u0259rin\u0259 ox\u015fay\u0131rlar. Sad\u0259c\u0259, onlar f\u0259rqli toplumlarda do\u011fulub ya\u015fad\u0131qlar\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn, onlara m\u00fcnasib\u0259t, veril\u0259n t\u0259rbiy\u0259, diqq\u0259t, g\u00f6zl\u0259nti f\u0259rqli olur. Xeyli vaxtd\u0131r Sankt-Peterburqda ya\u015fay\u0131ram. Rusiyada ya\u015fayan az\u0259rbaycanl\u0131 qad\u0131nlar\u0131n g\u00fcz\u0259ran\u0131na, h\u0259yat t\u0259rzin\u0259 yax\u0131ndan b\u0259l\u0259d\u0259m. Ya\u015fad\u0131qlar\u0131m v\u0259 e\u015fidib g\u00f6rd\u00fckl\u0259rim m\u0259ni h\u0259r yerd\u0259, ham\u0131ya bel\u0259 dem\u0259y\u0259 m\u0259cbur edir :Rusiyada ya\u015fayacaq o\u011flana q\u0131z verm\u0259yin. \u018fg\u0259r q\u0131z\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n ali t\u0259hsili [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":4711,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[5,6],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7084"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=7084"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7084\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":7085,"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7084\/revisions\/7085"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/4711"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=7084"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=7084"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=7084"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}