{"id":7659,"date":"2015-01-14T18:31:10","date_gmt":"2015-01-14T14:31:10","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/kultur.az\/?p=7659"},"modified":"2015-01-14T18:31:10","modified_gmt":"2015-01-14T14:31:10","slug":"tural-sahab-b%c9%99y%c9%99ndiyim-qadin","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/?p=7659","title":{"rendered":"Tural Sahab – B\u0259y\u0259ndiyim qad\u0131n"},"content":{"rendered":"

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Bir xeyli bundan \u00f6nc\u0259 \u0130rad\u0259 Aytelin \u201c b\u0259y\u0259ndiyim ki\u015fi\u201d adl\u0131 bir yaz\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 oxumu\u015fdum. O g\u00fcnd\u0259n, bu yana m\u0259n d\u0259 \u201c b\u0259y\u0259ndiyim qad\u0131n\u201d adl\u0131 bir yaz\u0131 yazmaq ist\u0259yirdim. Qism\u0259t bu g\u00fcn\u0259 imi\u015f. Bizim h\u0259yat\u0131m\u0131zda da, \u0259d\u0259biyyat\u0131m\u0131zda da qad\u0131n obraz\u0131na ehtiyac\u0131m\u0131z var. B\u00f6y\u00fck T\u00fcrk \u018fhm\u0259d B\u0259y A\u011fao\u011flu deyirdi: \u201c Rusiya bug\u00fcnki inki\u015faf\u0131n\u0131 Dostoyeviskinin yaratd\u0131\u011f\u0131 qad\u0131n obrazlar\u0131na borcludur\u201d. B\u0259li, bizim d\u0259 el\u0259 qad\u0131n obrazlar\u0131na ehtiyac\u0131m\u0131z var. \u018fd\u0259biyyat\u0131 h\u0259l\u0259lik bir k\u0259nara qoyaq v\u0259 ke\u00e7\u0259k h\u0259yata. Bu g\u00fcn bizim q\u0131zlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n \u00f6rn\u0259k ala bil\u0259c\u0259yi qad\u0131nlar kiml\u0259rdi. Kitab oxumad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131za, ancaq tvl\u0259rl\u0259 formala\u015fd\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131za g\u00f6r\u0259 q\u0131zlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n \u00f6rn\u0259k alaca\u011f\u0131 qad\u0131nlar da m\u00fc\u011f\u0259nnil\u0259r olacaq b\u00f6y\u00fck ehtimal. Efird\u0259 bir- biril\u0259rinin \u015f\u0259xsi h\u0259yatlar\u0131na qar\u0131\u015fan, ki\u015fil\u0259rinin kiml\u0259rl\u0259 yatd\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 dey\u0259n insanlard\u0131, g\u0259ncliyimizin, g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259k analar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n \u00f6rn\u0259k alaca\u011f\u0131 insanlar.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

\u018fd\u0259biyyat sah\u0259sind\u0259 d\u0259 v\u0259ziyy\u0259t \u00e7ox ac\u0131nacaql\u0131 ola bil\u0259rdi \u0259g\u0259r G\u00fcnel Treu, Ayt\u0259n Cavan\u015fir kimi imzalar olmasayd\u0131. Bu xan\u0131mlar h\u0259m yaz\u0131lar\u0131 il\u0259, h\u0259md\u0259 davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131 il\u0259 b\u0259y\u0259ndiyim xan\u0131mlard\u0131r. Onlar\u0131 g\u00f6rd\u00fckd\u0259 h\u0259l\u0259 d\u0259 n\u0259y\u0259s\u0259 \u00fcmid el\u0259m\u0259k olar, dey\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr\u0259m. Y\u0259ni h\u0259r bir Az\u0259rbaycan qad\u0131n\u0131 onlar kimi ola bil\u0259r, onlar kimi xan\u0131m \u0259f\u0259ndi. Ancaq bunun \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u00f6nc\u0259 g\u0259ncliyimiz kitab oxuma\u011f\u0131, xan\u0131m olma\u011f\u0131 \u00f6yr\u0259nm\u0259lidir.<\/p>\n

\u018fn \u00e7ox b\u0259y\u0259ndiyim qad\u0131n is\u0259 ist\u0259r yaz\u0131lar\u0131, ist\u0259r g\u00f6rk\u0259mi il\u0259 T\u00fcrkiy\u0259li xan\u0131m yazar Elif \u015eafakd\u0131r. Bu xan\u0131ma baxanda h\u0259qiq\u0259t\u0259n insan heyran olur, vurulur ona. Yaz\u0131lar\u0131 \u00f6z\u00fcnd\u0259n g\u00f6z\u0259l, \u00f6z\u00fc yaz\u0131lar\u0131ndan d\u0259y\u0259rli bir xan\u0131m. Bu yax\u0131nlarda onun haqq\u0131nda olan yaz\u0131lar\u0131 oxuyurdum. Bir ara\u015fd\u0131rmac\u0131 deyir ki o, \u201cE\u015fq\u201d i yazmadan \u00f6nc\u0259 15 il sufizm, qad\u0131n haqlar\u0131 v\u0259 siyas\u0259t haqq\u0131nda c\u00fcrb\u0259c\u00fcr ara\u015fd\u0131rmalar aparm\u0131\u015fd\u0131r. Y\u0259ni bir \u0259s\u0259r 15 illik z\u0259hm\u0259tin \u00fcr\u00fcn\u00fcd\u00fcr. Sad\u0259 makyaj\u0131, geyimi, g\u00f6z\u0259l \u00fcz\u00fc olan bir xan\u0131md\u0131r. \u00c7\u0259kisi d\u0259 \u00f6z yerind\u0259, idial bir xan\u0131m. \u0130ndi bir ona bax\u0131ram, bir d\u0259 bizim b\u0259zi \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259 yazar dey\u0259n xan\u0131mlara.<\/p>\n

M\u0259nim b\u0259y\u0259ndiyim qad\u0131n bax bel\u0259 bir qad\u0131n ola bil\u0259r. Y\u0259qin ki, bir \u00e7ox Az\u0259rbaycan ki\u015fisi d\u0259 m\u0259nim kimi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr. Bir qad\u0131n h\u0259m daxili d\u00fcnyas\u0131na, h\u0259m d\u0259 xarici g\u00f6rk\u0259min\u0259 fikir verm\u0259lidir. Qad\u0131nlar el\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrl\u0259r ki, \u00fczl\u0259rin\u0259 boyan\u0131 \u00e7ox \u00e7\u0259k\u0259nd\u0259 daha \u00e7\u0259kici olurlar, ancaq b\u0259z\u0259n n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r \u00e7irkin olduqlar\u0131n\u0131n f\u0259rqin\u0259 varsalard\u0131 ka\u015f. \u018fn b\u00f6y\u00fck g\u00f6z\u0259llik sad\u0259likdir. Dem\u0259li \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259 yazar dey\u0259n bir xan\u0131m b\u00fct\u00fcn g\u00fcn\u00fc sin\u0259sinin v\u0259 bacaqlar\u0131n\u0131n \u015f\u0259klini payla\u015f\u0131r sonra da deyir bu il \u0259r\u0259 getm\u0259k ist\u0259yir\u0259m. Dem\u0259k bu s\u00f6z\u00fc \u00fc\u00e7- d\u00f6rd ildi ki, h\u0259r il yaz\u0131r. Daha bilmir ki, Az\u0259rbaycan ki\u015fisi y\u00fcz ild\u0259 ke\u00e7s\u0259 bel\u0259 bir qad\u0131nla evl\u0259nm\u0259z. Az\u0259rbaycan ki\u015fisinin b\u0259y\u0259ndiyi, evl\u0259n\u0259c\u0259yi qad\u0131nla vaxt ke\u00e7ir\u0259c\u0259yi qad\u0131n f\u0259rqli, f\u0259rqlidir. Yaln\u0131z daxili g\u00f6z\u0259lliyi, \u0259xlaq\u0131 d\u00fczg\u00fcn olan qad\u0131nla evl\u0259nm\u0259yi \u00fcst\u00fcn tutacaq, \u0259n baz olan\u0131m\u0131z bel\u0259…<\/p>\n

Ki\u015fil\u0259r evl\u0259ndikd\u0259n sonra qad\u0131nlar\u0131n\u0131 niy\u0259 aldad\u0131r? Bir \u2013 iki s\u00f6z d\u0259 bundan dem\u0259k ist\u0259yir\u0259m. Qad\u0131n \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259 diqq\u0259t edir, b\u0259z\u0259nib- d\u00fcz\u0259nir el\u0259 ki, \u0259r\u0259 getdi, iki u\u015faq do\u011fdu ba\u015flay\u0131r d\u0259yi\u015fm\u0259y\u0259. \u00d6zl\u0259rin\u0259 diqq\u0259t etm\u0259yib, bozba\u015f qoxuyanda, ki\u015fil\u0259r t\u0259bii ki, onlar\u0131 aldadacaq. Y\u0259ni bir g\u00fcnah, bir s\u0259hv olursa bunun g\u00fcnahkar\u0131 h\u0259r iki t\u0259r\u0259fdir dey\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr\u0259m.<\/p>\n

– B\u0259y\u0259ndiyim qad\u0131n, yanl\u0131z evl\u0259n\u0259n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r deyil, evl\u0259ndikd\u0259n sonra da \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259 bax\u0131b, diqq\u0259t ed\u0259n qad\u0131nd\u0131r.<\/p>\n

– B\u0259y\u0259ndiyim qad\u0131n, ist\u0259r h\u0259yatda, ist\u0259r sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc aparma\u011f\u0131 bacaran qad\u0131nd\u0131r.<\/p>\n

– B\u0259y\u0259ndiyim qad\u0131n oxuyan, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u0259n xan\u0131m \u0259f\u0259ndi olma\u011f\u0131 bacaran qad\u0131nd\u0131r.<\/p>\n

– B\u0259y\u0259ndiyim qad\u0131n sevgiy\u0259, sevgiliy\u0259- ni\u015fanl\u0131ya, \u0259r\u0259 sadiq olan qad\u0131nd\u0131r.<\/p>\n

– B\u0259y\u0259ndiyim qad\u0131n sad\u0259 makyajl\u0131, \u00e7\u0259kisin\u0259 diqq\u0259t ed\u0259n qad\u0131nd\u0131r.(Y\u0259ni, 80 kq \u00e7\u0259ki il\u0259 dar \u015falvar, \u015fortiq geyinm\u0259y\u0259n)<\/p>\n

– B\u0259y\u0259ndiyim qad\u0131n d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnm\u0259yi bacaran, ba\u015fqalar\u0131n\u0131n d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259l\u0259rin\u0259 h\u00f6rm\u0259t ed\u0259n qad\u0131nd\u0131r.<\/p>\n

– B\u0259y\u0259ndiyim qad\u0131n az dan\u0131\u015fan, \u00e7ox t\u0259f\u0259kk\u00fcr ed\u0259n, i\u015fd\u0259n yor\u011fun g\u0259l\u0259n \u0259rini d\u0259 fikirl\u0259\u015f\u0259n qad\u0131nd\u0131r.<\/p>\n

– B\u0259y\u0259ndiyim qad\u0131n \u00f6vladlar\u0131 ihmal edib d\u0259, vaxt\u0131n\u0131 tv qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda, internetde ke\u00e7irm\u0259y\u0259n qad\u0131nd\u0131r.<\/p>\n

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Bax\u0131n b\u00fct\u00fcn bunlardan istifad\u0259 edib, qad\u0131n obrazlar\u0131 yaratd\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z zaman v\u0259 g\u0259nc q\u0131zlar\u0131m\u0131za kitab oxuma al\u0131\u015fqanl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 qazand\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z zaman i\u015fl\u0259r d\u00fcz\u0259l\u0259c\u0259k.<\/p>\n

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Yaz\u0131ya 829 d\u0259f\u0259 bax\u0131l\u0131b<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Bir xeyli bundan \u00f6nc\u0259 \u0130rad\u0259 Aytelin \u201c b\u0259y\u0259ndiyim ki\u015fi\u201d adl\u0131 bir yaz\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 oxumu\u015fdum. O g\u00fcnd\u0259n, bu yana m\u0259n d\u0259 \u201c b\u0259y\u0259ndiyim qad\u0131n\u201d adl\u0131 bir yaz\u0131 yazmaq ist\u0259yirdim. Qism\u0259t bu g\u00fcn\u0259 imi\u015f. Bizim h\u0259yat\u0131m\u0131zda da, \u0259d\u0259biyyat\u0131m\u0131zda da qad\u0131n obraz\u0131na ehtiyac\u0131m\u0131z var. B\u00f6y\u00fck T\u00fcrk \u018fhm\u0259d B\u0259y A\u011fao\u011flu deyirdi: \u201c Rusiya bug\u00fcnki inki\u015faf\u0131n\u0131 Dostoyeviskinin yaratd\u0131\u011f\u0131 qad\u0131n obrazlar\u0131na borcludur\u201d. […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":6746,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[6],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7659"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=7659"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7659\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":7660,"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7659\/revisions\/7660"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/6746"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=7659"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=7659"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=7659"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}