{"id":8453,"date":"2015-02-24T18:00:36","date_gmt":"2015-02-24T14:00:36","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/kultur.az\/?p=8453"},"modified":"2015-02-24T18:00:36","modified_gmt":"2015-02-24T14:00:36","slug":"iosif-brodskinin-6-n%c9%99sih%c9%99ti","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/?p=8453","title":{"rendered":"\u0130osif Brodskinin 6 n\u0259sih\u0259ti"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/kultur.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/12\/brodsky_joseph.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignright wp-image-7498 size-full\" src=\"http:\/\/kultur.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/12\/brodsky_joseph.jpg\" alt=\"brodsky_joseph\" width=\"218\" height=\"275\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><strong>\u201c\u00d6z\u00fcn\u00fcz\u00fc qurban saymaqdan qa\u00e7\u0131n\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Nobel m\u00fckafat\u0131 laureat\u0131 \u0130osif Brodskinin 1988-ci ild\u0259 Mi\u00e7iqan Universitetinin m\u0259zunlar\u0131 qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131ndak\u0131 m\u0259\u015fhur \u00e7\u0131x\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131n \u00fcst\u00fcnd\u0259n uzun m\u00fcdd\u0259t ke\u00e7s\u0259 d\u0259, h\u0259l\u0259 d\u0259 \u0259d\u0259bi al\u0259min yadda\u015f\u0131ndan silinm\u0259yib. H\u0259min vaxt t\u0259nqid\u00e7il\u0259r \u015fairin \u00e7\u0131x\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131 \u201cyersiz\u201d, \u201csiyasi c\u0259h\u0259td\u0259n yanl\u0131\u015f\u201d adland\u0131rm\u0131\u015fd\u0131lar, h\u0259tta bir n\u0259f\u0259r ona \u201crasizm\u201d yarl\u0131\u011f\u0131 da yap\u0131\u015fd\u0131rm\u0131\u015fd\u0131. Amma Brodski h\u0259min vaxt q\u0259r\u0259zsiz, zamandan v\u0259 m\u0259kandan k\u0259nar \u00e7\u0131x\u0131\u015f etmi\u015fdi. \u00c7\u0131x\u0131\u015fdan b\u0259zi m\u00fcdd\u0259alar\u0131 oxucular\u0131n diqq\u0259tin\u0259 \u00e7atd\u0131r\u0131r\u0131q.<\/p>\n<p>1. Fikrinizi dilinizin d\u0259qiqliyi \u00fcz\u0259rind\u0259 c\u0259ml\u0259\u015fdirin. \u00d6z l\u00fc\u011f\u0259tinizi geni\u015fl\u0259ndirm\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131n, onunla el\u0259 r\u0259ftar edin ki, el\u0259 bil bank hesab\u0131n\u0131zd\u0131r. Ona \u00e7oxlu vaxt ay\u0131r\u0131n, \u00f6z yat\u0131r\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 art\u0131rma\u011fa \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131n.<\/p>\n<p>Bunda m\u0259qs\u0259d \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcz\u00fc m\u00fcmk\u00fcn q\u0259d\u0259r tam v\u0259 d\u0259qiq ifad\u0259 etm\u0259k imkan\u0131 qazanmaqdan ibar\u0259tdir. Bir s\u00f6zl\u0259 m\u0259qs\u0259d \u2013 sizin m\u00fcvazin\u0259tinizdir. Ona g\u00f6r\u0259 ki, deyilm\u0259mi\u015f, ifad\u0259 olunmam\u0131\u015f s\u00f6zl\u0259rin y\u0131\u011f\u0131l\u0131b qalmas\u0131 m\u00fctl\u0259q sizin \u0259s\u0259b b\u00f6hran\u0131 ke\u00e7irm\u0259yiniz\u0259 s\u0259b\u0259b olacaq.<\/p>\n<p>Bundan qa\u00e7maq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn m\u00fctl\u0259q kitabqurduna \u00e7evrilm\u0259yiniz z\u0259ruri deyil. Sad\u0259c\u0259 l\u00fc\u011f\u0259t almaq, h\u0259min l\u00fc\u011f\u0259ti h\u0259r g\u00fcn oxumaq laz\u0131md\u0131r. B\u0259z\u0259ns\u0259 \u015feir kitablar\u0131n\u0131n m\u00fctali\u0259si il\u0259 m\u0259\u015f\u011ful olmaq z\u0259ruridir. Bel\u0259 kitablar kifay\u0259t q\u0259d\u0259r ucuzdur. H\u0259tta onlar\u0131n aras\u0131nda \u0259n bahas\u0131n\u0131n qiym\u0259ti bir d\u0259f\u0259 psixiatr\u0131n q\u0259bulunda olma\u011f\u0131n d\u0259y\u0259rind\u0259n xeyli azd\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>2. Valideynl\u0259riniz\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131 xeyirxah olun. \u018fg\u0259r bu \u201cAta-anan\u0131za s\u0259cd\u0259 edin\u201d kimi s\u0259sl\u0259nirs\u0259, m\u0259ni ba\u011f\u0131\u015flay\u0131n. M\u0259n ancaq bunu dem\u0259k ist\u0259yir\u0259m: onlara qar\u015f\u0131 qiyam qald\u0131rmama\u011fa \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131n. \u00c7\u00fcnki h\u0259r halda onlar sizd\u0259n \u0259vv\u0259l d\u00fcnyalar\u0131n\u0131 d\u0259yi\u015f\u0259c\u0259kl\u0259r, buna g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcz\u00fc \u0259n az\u0131 bu g\u00fcnahdan azad ed\u0259 bil\u0259rsiniz.<\/p>\n<p>\u018fg\u0259r \u201cSizd\u0259n bir q\u0259pik d\u0259 almaram\u201d m\u0259nas\u0131nda qiyam etm\u0259y\u0259 ehtiyac\u0131n\u0131z varsa, onda o q\u0259d\u0259r d\u0259 d\u0259ym\u0259d\u00fc\u015f\u0259r olmayanlara qar\u015f\u0131 \u00e7\u0131x\u0131n. Valideynl\u0259r h\u0259dd\u0259n art\u0131q yax\u0131n h\u0259d\u0259fdirl\u0259r. M\u0259saf\u0259 o q\u0259d\u0259r yax\u0131nd\u0131r ki, h\u0259d\u0259fd\u0259n yay\u0131na bilm\u0259zsiniz.<\/p>\n<p>3. Siyas\u0259t\u00e7il\u0259r\u0259 o q\u0259d\u0259r d\u0259 arxalanmay\u0131n. Onlar\u0131n ba\u015f\u0131 h\u0259dd\u0259n art\u0131q qar\u0131\u015f\u0131q olur. Siyas\u0259t\u00e7il\u0259r sosial \u015f\u0259ri h\u0259dd\u0259n art\u0131q azalda bil\u0259rl\u0259r, amma onu aradan qald\u0131ra bilm\u0259zl\u0259r. \u0130nki\u015faf n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r s\u00fcr\u0259tli olur-olsun, etik n\u00f6qteyi-n\u0259z\u0259rd\u0259n h\u0259dd\u0259n art\u0131q az olacaq, \u00e7\u00fcnki, \u0259n az\u0131 bir adam h\u0259min inki\u015fafdan pay\u0131n\u0131 ala bilm\u0259y\u0259c\u0259k.<\/p>\n<p>D\u00fcnya m\u00fck\u0259mm\u0259l deyil. Q\u0131z\u0131l \u0259sr he\u00e7 vaxt olmay\u0131b v\u0259 olmayacaq. Buna g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 siz yaln\u0131z \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcz\u0259 g\u00fcv\u0259nm\u0259li, d\u00fcnyan\u0131z\u0131 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcz s\u0259rb\u0259st idar\u0259 etm\u0259lisiniz. Qism\u0259tinizi \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcz qazansan\u0131z da, siz h\u0259m \u015f\u00fck\u00fcr\u00fcn, h\u0259m d\u0259 pe\u015fmanl\u0131\u011f\u0131n haqlayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bilm\u0259lisiniz.<\/p>\n<p>4. Sad\u0259 olma\u011fa \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131n. Bizim say\u0131m\u0131z h\u0259dd\u0259n art\u0131q \u00e7oxdur, tezlikl\u0259 bundan da art\u0131q olacaq. G\u00fcn\u0259\u015fin alt\u0131nda yer qazanmaq m\u00fctl\u0259q ba\u015fqalar\u0131n\u0131n hesab\u0131na ba\u015f ver\u0259c\u0259k. Dig\u0259rl\u0259rinin aya\u011f\u0131n\u0131 basmal\u0131 olma\u011f\u0131n\u0131z o dem\u0259k deyil ki, onlar\u0131n \u00e7iynin\u0259 d\u0131rma\u015fas\u0131n\u0131z. Ona g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 \u0259g\u0259r varl\u0131, ya da m\u0259\u015fhur, yaxud h\u0259m varl\u0131, h\u0259m d\u0259 adl\u0131-sanl\u0131 olmaq ist\u0259yirsinizs\u0259, i\u015finiz avand olsun, amma b\u00fct\u00fcn \u00f6mr\u00fcn\u00fcz\u00fc bunlara h\u0259sr etm\u0259yin.<\/p>\n<p>H\u0259mi\u015f\u0259 yadda saxlay\u0131n ki, daim yan\u0131n\u0131zda yax\u0131n bir adam var. He\u00e7 k\u0259s sizd\u0259n onu sevm\u0259yi t\u0259l\u0259b etmir, amma adamlar\u0131 h\u0259dd\u0259n art\u0131q narahat etm\u0259yin v\u0259 incitm\u0259yin. \u018fn pis halda bu add\u0131m\u0131 atmama\u011f\u0131n hans\u0131 uzaq m\u0259saf\u0259d\u0259n \u2013 ulduzlardan, Kainat\u0131n d\u0259rinlikl\u0259rind\u0259n, onun dig\u0259r gu\u015f\u0259sind\u0259n \u2013 g\u0259ldiyini xat\u0131rlama\u011fa \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131n. Yax\u0131n adamlar\u0131, \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcz\u00fc sevm\u0259yi d\u0259 yaddan \u00e7\u0131xarmay\u0131n.<\/p>\n<p>5. \u00d6z\u00fcn\u00fcz\u0259 qurnan statusu verm\u0259kd\u0259n h\u0259r v\u0259chl\u0259 qa\u00e7\u0131n. V\u0259ziyy\u0259tin n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r xo\u015fag\u0259lm\u0259z olur-olsun, bunda xarici q\u00fcvv\u0259l\u0259ri \u2013 tarixi, d\u00f6vl\u0259ti, irqi, r\u0259hb\u0259rliyi, valideynl\u0259rinizi, aylar\u0131-ill\u0259ri, u\u015faql\u0131\u011f\u0131&#8230; \u2013 g\u00fcnahland\u0131rmay\u0131n.<\/p>\n<p>G\u00fcnah\u0131 n\u0259yins\u0259 \u00fcz\u0259rin\u0259 y\u0131xanda \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcz\u00fcn n\u0259yis\u0259 d\u0259yi\u015fm\u0259k q\u0259tiyy\u0259tinizi sars\u0131d\u0131r, m\u0259suliyy\u0259tsizlik bo\u015flu\u011funuzu art\u0131r\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131z, h\u0259min bo\u015flu\u011fu da iblisl\u0259r v\u0259 bo\u015fbo\u011fazlar doldurma\u011f\u0131 \u00e7ox sevirl\u0259r, \u00e7\u00fcnki m\u0259l\u0259kl\u0259r iflic olmu\u015f irad\u0259ni sevmirl\u0259r.<\/p>\n<p>\u00dcmumiyy\u0259tl\u0259, h\u0259yata t\u0259kc\u0259 g\u00f6z\u0259llikl\u0259rin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 yox, h\u0259m d\u0259 \u00e7\u0259tinlikl\u0259rin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 h\u00f6rm\u0259t etm\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131n. Onlar oyunun t\u0259rkib hiss\u0259l\u0259ridirl\u0259r, yax\u015f\u0131 c\u0259h\u0259tl\u0259ri budur ki, yalan deyill\u0259r. Siz h\u0259r d\u0259f\u0259 \u00fcmidsizliy\u0259 qap\u0131landa v\u0259 \u00fcmidsizlik h\u0259ddin\u0259 \u00e7atanda, xo\u015fag\u0259lm\u0259z v\u0259ziyy\u0259t\u0259 v\u0259 \u00e7\u0259tinliy\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u0259nd\u0259 yadda saxlay\u0131n: h\u0259yat sizinl\u0259 bildiyi yegan\u0259 dild\u0259 dan\u0131\u015f\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>6.Ba\u011f\u0131\u015flama\u011f\u0131 bacar\u0131n. Q\u0259d\u0259m qoydu\u011fumuz al\u0259m yax\u015f\u0131 n\u00fcfuza malik deyil. Tezlikl\u0259 \u0259min olacaqs\u0131n\u0131z ki, bura xo\u015fag\u0259l\u0259n yer deyil. Ona g\u00f6r\u0259 h\u0259yat\u0131n\u0131za b\u0259db\u0259xtlik g\u0259tirm\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan adamlara fikir verm\u0259m\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131n. Bel\u0259l\u0259ri h\u0259m r\u0259smi v\u0259zif\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 olanlar, h\u0259m d\u0259 \u00f6zl\u0259rini v\u0259zif\u0259li hesab ed\u0259nl\u0259r aras\u0131nda \u00e7ox olacaq.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>D\u00fc\u015fm\u0259nl\u0259rinizin siz\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131 el\u0259dikl\u0259ri, h\u0259min \u0259m\u0259ll\u0259r\u0259 nec\u0259 reaksiya g\u00f6st\u0259rm\u0259yinizd\u0259n as\u0131l\u0131 olaraq, az v\u0259 ya \u00e7ox \u0259h\u0259miyy\u0259t k\u0259sb ed\u0259c\u0259k. Buna g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 onun i\u00e7ind\u0259n, yaxud yan\u0131ndan ke\u00e7ib gedin. Bel\u0259c\u0259, beyninizin h\u00fcceyr\u0259l\u0259rini faydas\u0131z g\u0259rginlikd\u0259n xilas edin.<\/p>\n<p class=\"bawpvc-ajax-counter\" data-id=\"8453\">Yaz\u0131ya 543 d\u0259f\u0259 bax\u0131l\u0131b<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u201c\u00d6z\u00fcn\u00fcz\u00fc qurban saymaqdan qa\u00e7\u0131n\u201d &nbsp; Nobel m\u00fckafat\u0131 laureat\u0131 \u0130osif Brodskinin 1988-ci ild\u0259 Mi\u00e7iqan Universitetinin m\u0259zunlar\u0131 qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131ndak\u0131 m\u0259\u015fhur \u00e7\u0131x\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131n \u00fcst\u00fcnd\u0259n uzun m\u00fcdd\u0259t ke\u00e7s\u0259 d\u0259, h\u0259l\u0259 d\u0259 \u0259d\u0259bi al\u0259min yadda\u015f\u0131ndan silinm\u0259yib. H\u0259min vaxt t\u0259nqid\u00e7il\u0259r \u015fairin \u00e7\u0131x\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131 \u201cyersiz\u201d, \u201csiyasi c\u0259h\u0259td\u0259n yanl\u0131\u015f\u201d adland\u0131rm\u0131\u015fd\u0131lar, h\u0259tta bir n\u0259f\u0259r ona \u201crasizm\u201d yarl\u0131\u011f\u0131 da yap\u0131\u015fd\u0131rm\u0131\u015fd\u0131. Amma Brodski h\u0259min vaxt q\u0259r\u0259zsiz, zamandan v\u0259 m\u0259kandan [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[7],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8453"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=8453"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8453\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":8454,"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8453\/revisions\/8454"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=8453"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=8453"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=8453"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}