{"id":9177,"date":"2015-04-10T16:43:31","date_gmt":"2015-04-10T11:43:31","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/kultur.az\/?p=9177"},"modified":"2015-04-10T16:43:31","modified_gmt":"2015-04-10T11:43:31","slug":"yusif-hansen-qadinlarimi-c%c9%99miyy%c9%99t-v%c9%99-biz","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/?p=9177","title":{"rendered":"Yusif Hansen &#8212; Qad\u0131nlar\u0131m\u0131, c\u0259miyy\u0259t v\u0259 biz"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/kultur.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/04\/unnamed.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignright wp-image-9178 size-medium\" src=\"http:\/\/kultur.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/04\/unnamed-300x224.jpg\" alt=\"unnamed\" width=\"300\" height=\"224\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Qad\u0131nlar h\u0259yat\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n olmaqla yana\u015f\u0131 c\u0259miyy\u0259timizin ayr\u0131lmaz hiss\u0259sidir. He\u00e7 c\u0259miyy\u0259ti qad\u0131nlars\u0131z t\u0259s\u0259vv\u00fcr ed\u0259 bil\u0259rikmi? M\u0259n etmir\u0259m \u015f\u0259xs\u0259n. Lakin, hal-haz\u0131rda, el\u0259c\u0259 d\u0259 son onillikl\u0259rs\u0259 qad\u0131nlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n q\u0259drini bilmirik, bilm\u0259mi\u015fik, bel\u0259 gedi\u015fl\u0259 d\u0259 bilm\u0259y\u0259c\u0259yik.<\/p>\n<p>C\u0259miyy\u0259timizd\u0259 qad\u0131nlara m\u00fcxt\u0259lif c\u00fcr yana\u015f\u0131l\u0131r. Paltaryuyan\u0131, qabyuyan\u0131 \u0259v\u0259z ed\u0259n, u\u015faq art\u0131m\u0131n\u0131 t\u0259min ed\u0259n v\u0259 s. bu tip g\u00fclm\u0259li formada. Bir s\u00f6zl\u0259 qad\u0131n oldu\u011fu kimi deyil d\u0259, h\u0259r n\u0259 ayr\u0131 c\u00fcr fomrada n\u0259 varsa o tipd\u0259. Qar\u015f\u0131da yazacaqlar\u0131mla \u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fc a\u011f\u0131ll\u0131 kimi g\u00f6st\u0259rdiyimi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u0259 bil\u0259rsiz. Lakin, m\u0259qs\u0259dim tam ba\u015fqad\u0131r. C\u0259miyy\u0259timizin maarifl\u0259nm\u0259sini s\u0259mimi q\u0259lbd\u0259n ist\u0259yir\u0259m.<\/p>\n<p>Hal-haz\u0131rda \u0259traf\u0131m\u0131zda fikr vers\u0259k g\u00f6r\u0259 bil\u0259rik ki, qad\u0131nlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n b\u00f6y\u00fck qismi \u0259ziyy\u0259t \u00e7\u0259kir. Aldad\u0131l\u0131rlar, t\u0259hqir olunurlar, al\u00e7ald\u0131rlar. Bunu h\u0259r add\u0131mda g\u00f6rm\u0259k m\u00fcmk\u00fcnd\u00fcr. \u00c7ox uza\u011fa getm\u0259y\u0259k. El\u0259 evlilik \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u201cq\u0131z\u0131 almaq\u201d birl\u0259\u015fm\u0259sind\u0259 almaq s\u00f6z\u00fc h\u0259r \u015feyi a\u00e7\u0131q-a\u015fkar g\u00f6st\u0259rir. O bir \u0259\u015fyad\u0131r sanki, ist\u0259yi, arzusu, m\u0259qs\u0259di yoxdur, kim daha \u00e7ox ver\u0259rs\u0259 ona sat\u0131l\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>He\u00e7 zaman \u0259xlaqs\u0131z insanlar\u0131n t\u0259r\u0259fini saxlamam\u0131\u015fam. Onlar h\u0259m ki\u015fi, h\u0259m d\u0259 qad\u0131n cinsind\u0259 m\u00f6vcud olub v\u0259 olacaq da. S\u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fcn can\u0131, \u00fcr\u0259yimin yand\u0131\u011f\u0131 m\u0259hz saf, t\u0259miz qad\u0131nlar\u0131m\u0131zd\u0131r. He\u00e7 bilirsiz b\u0259z\u0259n \u00fcr\u0259yim nec\u0259 qan a\u011flay\u0131r? Qad\u0131nlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n, q\u0131zlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n aldad\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, istifad\u0259 edildiyini g\u00f6r\u0259nd\u0259. Bir \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc ki\u015fi sayan tipl\u0259rin q\u0131zlar\u0131m\u0131za nec\u0259 \u0259\u015fya, yatmaq, t\u0259l\u0259batlar\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6d\u0259m\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn vasit\u0259 kimi yana\u015f\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6r\u0259nd\u0259. Hans\u0131sa q\u0131z\u0131 nec\u0259 f\u0131rlatd\u0131\u011f\u0131, istifad\u0259 etdiyi il\u0259 \u00f6y\u00fcn\u0259n, yan\u0131ndan ke\u00e7\u0259n h\u0259r qad\u0131na \u201cn\u0259 bomba \u015feydir\u201d prinsipi il\u0259 yana\u015fan, s\u00f6z atan, n\u00f6mr\u0259sini q\u0131\u015fq\u0131ran, ma\u015f\u0131n\u0131 saxlay\u0131b \u0259xlaqs\u0131z t\u0259klifl\u0259r ed\u0259n ki\u015ficikl\u0259rl\u0259 rastla\u015fanda. \u0130nsan g\u00f6r\u0259s\u0259n nec\u0259 qanmaz olmal\u0131d\u0131r ki, ba\u015fqas\u0131na nec\u0259 yana\u015fd\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n bir g\u00fcn \u00f6zba\u015f\u0131na g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259yini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnm\u0259sin. Bu ki\u015ficikl\u0259rin el\u0259 bilirsiz ki, ail\u0259si d\u00fcz-\u0259m\u0259llidir? \u018fsla, el\u0259 deyil. Bunlar qad\u0131nlar\u0131n\u0131 evd\u0259 \u00fcz\u00fcn\u0259 q\u0131f\u0131l vurub \u00e7\u0131x\u0131b getm\u0259kl\u0259 \u00f6zl\u0259rini s\u0131\u011fortlad\u0131qlar\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrl\u0259rs\u0259, \u00e7ox yan\u0131l\u0131rlar. El\u0259 m\u0259hz onlar\u0131n sahib olduqlar\u0131 qad\u0131nlard\u0131r ki, evd\u0259 oturub internet \u00fcz\u0259rind\u0259n min oyundan \u00e7\u0131x\u0131rlar. Evd\u0259n \u00e7\u0131xanda bir geyimd\u0259, getdiyi yerd\u0259 is\u0259 tam ayr\u0131 geyimd\u0259 olanlard\u0131r. Ba\u015fqas\u0131n\u0131n papa\u011f\u0131n\u0131 m\u00fczakir\u0259 etm\u0259kl\u0259 deyil ki, insan g\u0259r\u0259k \u00f6z papa\u011f\u0131na da g\u00fczg\u00fcd\u0259 baxs\u0131n.<\/p>\n<p>Kim\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 h\u0259yatda t\u0259cr\u00fcb\u0259siz, kim\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 is\u0259 t\u0259cr\u00fcb\u0259li g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u0259 bil\u0259r\u0259m. H\u0259yatda n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r ya\u015fama\u011f\u0131n m\u0259nas\u0131 yoxdur, \u0259sas anlamaq t\u0259rzidir. C\u0259miyy\u0259timizin qad\u0131nlar\u0131na sahib \u00e7\u0131xma\u011f\u0131n\u0131n vaxt\u0131d\u0131r art\u0131q. Qad\u0131nlar\u0131m\u0131za, q\u0131zlar\u0131m\u0131za d\u0259y\u0259r verilm\u0259sinin, \u015f\u0259xsiyy\u0259t kimi yana\u015f\u0131lmas\u0131n\u0131n vaxt\u0131d\u0131r. Sevin onlar\u0131, qoruyun, h\u00f6rm\u0259t edin, al\u00e7altmay\u0131n, x\u0259yan\u0259t eym\u0259yin, d\u00f6ym\u0259yin, kobudluq etm\u0259yin. B\u00fct\u00fcn ki\u015fil\u0259rimiz\u0259 s\u0259sl\u0259nir\u0259m. Qad\u0131n g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259yin anas\u0131d\u0131r, c\u0259miyy\u0259t \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn yararl\u0131 b\u00f6y\u00fcd\u00fcl\u0259n, yeti\u015fdiril\u0259n u\u015faqlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n anas\u0131d\u0131r. Alma, qarp\u0131z kimi onlara xarici g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 yana\u015fmay\u0131n. M\u0259hz \u0259n eyb\u0259c\u0259rl\u0259ri, aldad\u0131lan, zorlanan, bakir\u0259liyini itirmi\u015f, lakin s\u0259hvini anlayan q\u0131zlar\u0131m\u0131zla evl\u0259nin, g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259k h\u0259yat\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 birg\u0259 qurun, bir \u015fans verin yeni h\u0259yat \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn. \u0130nan\u0131n m\u0259n\u0259, onlar\u0131n qay\u011f\u0131ya daha \u00e7ox ehtiyac\u0131 var. Bu etdiyinizi he\u00e7 zaman unutmayacaqlar, t\u0259\u015f\u0259kk\u00fcr hissi \u00f6m\u00fcrl\u0259rinin sonuna q\u0259d\u0259r olacaq. \u018fv\u0259zini art\u0131qlamas\u0131 il\u0259 \u00f6d\u0259m\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015facaqlar. Yoxsa ki g\u00f6z\u0259l, bakir\u0259 q\u0131zla evl\u0259nm\u0259y\u0259 n\u0259 var ki. Onsuz onlara \u00e7oxu el\u00e7i \u00e7\u0131xacaq. B\u0259db\u0259xt edil\u0259nl\u0259ri xo\u015fb\u0259xt etm\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131n. B\u0259sdir, yet\u0259r art\u0131q. Qad\u0131nlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n g\u00f6z\u00fc ya\u015fl\u0131 qalmas\u0131n. \u0130\u00e7imizd\u0259ki \u015feytan art\u0131q m\u0259\u011flub olsun. Xeyir yaln\u0131z qalib g\u0259lsin. Son s\u00f6z\u00fcm bunlar olaraq qals\u0131n yadda\u015f\u0131n\u0131zda. Onsuz h\u0259yat bumeranq kimidir, etdiyin h\u0259r \u015fey f\u0131rlan\u0131b m\u0259hz s\u0259nin \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259 qay\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p class=\"bawpvc-ajax-counter\" data-id=\"9177\">Yaz\u0131ya 817 d\u0259f\u0259 bax\u0131l\u0131b<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp; Qad\u0131nlar h\u0259yat\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n olmaqla yana\u015f\u0131 c\u0259miyy\u0259timizin ayr\u0131lmaz hiss\u0259sidir. He\u00e7 c\u0259miyy\u0259ti qad\u0131nlars\u0131z t\u0259s\u0259vv\u00fcr ed\u0259 bil\u0259rikmi? M\u0259n etmir\u0259m \u015f\u0259xs\u0259n. Lakin, hal-haz\u0131rda, el\u0259c\u0259 d\u0259 son onillikl\u0259rs\u0259 qad\u0131nlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n q\u0259drini bilmirik, bilm\u0259mi\u015fik, bel\u0259 gedi\u015fl\u0259 d\u0259 bilm\u0259y\u0259c\u0259yik. C\u0259miyy\u0259timizd\u0259 qad\u0131nlara m\u00fcxt\u0259lif c\u00fcr yana\u015f\u0131l\u0131r. Paltaryuyan\u0131, qabyuyan\u0131 \u0259v\u0259z ed\u0259n, u\u015faq art\u0131m\u0131n\u0131 t\u0259min ed\u0259n v\u0259 s. bu tip g\u00fclm\u0259li formada. Bir s\u00f6zl\u0259 qad\u0131n oldu\u011fu kimi [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[6],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9177"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=9177"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9177\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":9179,"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9177\/revisions\/9179"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=9177"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=9177"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=9177"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}