{"id":9333,"date":"2015-06-04T18:39:05","date_gmt":"2015-06-04T13:39:05","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/kultur.az\/?p=9333"},"modified":"2015-06-04T18:39:05","modified_gmt":"2015-06-04T13:39:05","slug":"tural-sahab-qizlar-niy%c9%99-evd%c9%99-qalir","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/?p=9333","title":{"rendered":"Tural Sahab &#8211;    Q\u0131zlar niy\u0259 evd\u0259 qal\u0131r?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"color: #000000;\"><span lang=\"AZ-LATIN\"><a href=\"http:\/\/kultur.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/08\/tural-sahab.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignleft wp-image-6746 size-medium\" src=\"http:\/\/kultur.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/08\/tural-sahab-300x257.jpg\" alt=\"tural sahab\" width=\"300\" height=\"257\" srcset=\"https:\/\/kultur.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/08\/tural-sahab-300x257.jpg 300w, https:\/\/kultur.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/08\/tural-sahab.jpg 350w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><em><strong>G\u00f6z\u0259llikl\u0259 \u0259laq\u0259si yoxdur, fikrimc\u0259. \u00c7\u00fcnki o q\u0259d\u0259r \u00e7irkin q\u0131zlar g\u00f6rd\u00fcm ki, nece sevilirl\u0259r. Onlara nec\u0259 g\u00f6z\u0259l \u015feirl\u0259r yaz\u0131l\u0131r. B\u0259s, m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259 n\u0259dir, q\u0131zlar n\u0259 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn evd\u0259 qal\u0131r? Q\u0131zlar\u0131n v\u0259 o\u011flanlar\u0131n say\u0131 da t\u0259xmin\u0259n eynidir. Y\u0259ni\u00a0 ist\u0259nil\u0259n q\u0131z \u0259r\u0259 getm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn o\u011flan tapa bil\u0259r.<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"color: #000000;\"><span lang=\"AZ-LATIN\">\u00a0Az\u0259rbaycan ki\u015fisi evl\u0259nm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn nec\u0259 q\u0131z ist\u0259yir\u00a0 v\u0259 evl\u0259nir. Bunlar\u0131 bilm\u0259d\u0259n yuxar\u0131dak\u0131 suala cavab tapmaq olmaz.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"color: #000000;\"><span lang=\"AZ-LATIN\">1.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><span lang=\"AZ-LATIN\">\u00d6nc\u0259likl\u0259 Az\u0259rbaycan ki\u015fisi ail\u0259d\u0259 h\u0259mi\u015f\u0259 s\u00f6z sahibi olmaq ist\u0259yir. Bizim t\u00f6r\u0259mizd\u0259 d\u0259, at\u0259d- \u0259n\u0259n\u0259l\u0259rimizd\u0259 d\u0259 ail\u0259nin ba\u015fc\u0131s\u0131 atad\u0131r. Ki\u015fi i\u015fd\u0259n g\u0259l\u0259nd\u0259 onu sevgi v\u0259 h\u00f6rm\u0259tl\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131layacaq bir qad\u0131n ist\u0259yir evind\u0259. Bir \u015fey\u0259 yox dey\u0259nd\u0259 onunla m\u00fcbahis\u0259 etm\u0259y\u0259c\u0259k, ondan izinsiz h\u0259r hans\u0131 bir h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259t etm\u0259y\u0259c\u0259k itatkar bir xan\u0131m. Yoxsa qad\u0131n evd\u0259 ki\u015fi il\u0259 ki\u015filik ed\u0259c\u0259ks\u0259, ki\u015finin s\u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259 qulaq asmaq yerin\u0259 h\u0259tta onu \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259 tabe etm\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015facaqsa bu i\u015f al\u0131nmayacaq. \u0130ndiki q\u0131zlar\u0131n \u00e7oxu da bu feminist d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259d\u0259dir.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"color: #000000;\"><span lang=\"AZ-LATIN\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"color: #000000;\"><span lang=\"AZ-LATIN\">2.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><span lang=\"AZ-LATIN\">Az\u0259rbacanl\u0131 o\u011flanlar ana, atas\u0131na qulluq ed\u0259c\u0259k, onun yoxlu\u011funda valideyinl\u0259rin\u0259 q\u0131z olacaq bir xan\u0131m ist\u0259yir. Ya\u015fl\u0131 ata- anas\u0131n\u0131 dam\u0131n alt\u0131nda qoyub, ba\u015fqa evd\u0259 ya\u015famaq ist\u0259mirl\u0259r. Bizi minbir \u0259ziyy\u0259tl\u0259 d\u00fcnyaya g\u0259tir\u0259n o insanlar\u0131 atmaq h\u0259r halda do\u011fru olmaz. Bir q\u0131z b\u0259ri ba\u015fdan\u00a0 \u201c m\u0259n s\u0259nin ail\u0259nl\u0259 ya\u015famaq ist\u0259mir\u0259m, onlara kim qulluq ed\u0259c\u0259k\u201d\u00a0 kimi s\u00f6zl\u0259r deyirs\u0259, o ki\u015fi he\u00e7 vaxt onu almayacaq. Uzaq ba\u015f\u0131 onun h\u0259yat\u0131nda xo\u015f bir xatir\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7evril\u0259c\u0259k. \u0130ndiki q\u0131zlar\u0131n \u00e7oxu is\u0259 rahat ya\u015famaq, qay\u0131nana t\u00f6hm\u0259tind\u0259n uzaq olmaq ist\u0259yir&#8230;<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"color: #000000;\"><span lang=\"AZ-LATIN\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"color: #000000;\"><span lang=\"AZ-LATIN\">3.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><span lang=\"AZ-LATIN\">\u015eirindil v\u0259 az dan\u0131\u015fan. B\u0259li, bir q\u0131z n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r g\u00f6z\u0259l olsa da, \u0259g\u0259r \u00e7ox dan\u0131\u015f\u0131rsa, iki s\u00f6z\u00fcnd\u0259n bir qar\u015f\u0131dak\u0131n\u0131 ac\u0131lay\u0131rsa bu i\u015f al\u0131nmayacaq. Ki\u015fi \u00e7\u00f6ld\u0259 minbir \u0259s\u0259bl\u0259 i\u015fl\u0259yir ki, evin\u0259 bir tik\u0259 halal \u00e7\u00f6r\u0259k g\u0259tirsin. O, i\u00e7\u0259ri gir\u0259n kimi, qad\u0131n \u201c anan bunu dedi, bac\u0131n bel\u0259 el\u0259di, qon\u015fu \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259 t\u0259z\u0259 n\u0259s\u0259 ald\u0131&#8230;.\u201d kimi s\u00f6zl\u0259rl\u0259 ki\u015finin korlanan \u0259s\u0259bl\u0259rini korlay\u0131rsa ( korlayacaqsa), el\u0259 q\u0131z\u0131 n\u0259yin\u0259 laz\u0131md\u0131, onun. \u0130\u00e7\u0259ri gir\u0259nd\u0259\u00a0 \u015firin dili il\u0259 bir ne\u00e7\u0259 xo\u015f s\u00f6z deyib, ona d\u0259y\u0259rli oldu\u011funu hiss el\u0259tdirsin ist\u0259yir. He\u00e7 olmasa ail\u0259sind\u0259 vazke\u00e7ilm\u0259z olmaq ist\u0259y\u0259r bir ki\u015fi. \u0130ndiki q\u0131zlar\u0131n da dili ma\u015fallah \u201c bald\u0131\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"color: #000000;\"><span lang=\"AZ-LATIN\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"color: #000000;\"><span lang=\"AZ-LATIN\">4.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><span lang=\"AZ-LATIN\">Yax\u015f\u0131 yem\u0259k bi\u015firm\u0259k. Bir s\u00f6z var ki, m\u0259n onunla raz\u0131la\u015f\u0131ram. Deyir: \u201c ki\u015finin \u00fcr\u0259yin\u0259 ged\u0259n yol m\u0259d\u0259sind\u0259n ke\u00e7ir\u201d. Ev\u0259 gir\u0259nd\u0259 ki, m\u0259tb\u0259xd\u0259n g\u00f6z\u0259l bir yem\u0259yin \u0259tri s\u0259ni vurmad\u0131, daha o nec\u0259 evdir. T\u0259bii ki, qad\u0131n x\u0259st\u0259l\u0259n\u0259 bil\u0259r, n\u0259s\u0259 vacib i\u015fi ola bil\u0259r yem\u0259k haz\u0131rlamaz, o ba\u015fqa. S\u00f6hb\u0259t \u00fcmumid\u0259n gedir. Ki\u015finin i\u015fi ev\u0259 pul g\u0259tirm\u0259ks\u0259, qad\u0131n\u0131n i\u015fi d\u0259 evd\u0259 yem\u0259kl\u0259r haz\u0131rlamaq, evin t\u0259mizliyi il\u0259 m\u0259\u015f\u011ful olmaqd\u0131. \u0130\u015fl\u0259m\u0259y\u0259n bir ki\u015fi il\u0259 hans\u0131 qad\u0131n evl\u0259nm\u0259k ist\u0259r?- he\u00e7 kim. Yem\u0259k bi\u015firm\u0259y\u0259n q\u0131zla da he\u00e7 bir ki\u015fi evl\u0259nm\u0259z. Ki\u015fil\u0259r yem\u0259k yem\u0259yi \u00e7ox sevir.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"color: #000000;\"><span lang=\"AZ-LATIN\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"color: #000000;\"><span lang=\"AZ-LATIN\">5.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><span lang=\"AZ-LATIN\">U\u011fursuz tan\u0131\u015fl\u0131qlar. Bu h\u0259r iki t\u0259r\u0259fin problemidir. Bizim c\u0259miyy\u0259td\u0259 h\u0259l\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131 cinsd\u0259n biri tan\u0131\u015f olmaq m\u0259d\u0259niyy\u0259ti, c\u0259sar\u0259ti yoxdu. Q\u0131za bir o\u011flan baxan kimi ya s\u00f6y\u0259c\u0259k, ya da qarda\u015f\u0131na v\u0259ya xalas\u0131o\u011fluna d\u00f6yd\u00fcr\u0259c\u0259k.\u00a0 Ancaq g\u0259l ki, b\u00fct\u00fcn q\u0131zlar evl\u0259nm\u0259k yuva qurmaq ist\u0259yir. B\u0259s baxmadan, s\u00f6z at\u0131b, tan\u0131\u015f olmadan bu i\u015f nec\u0259 olacaq?!<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"color: #000000;\"><span lang=\"AZ-LATIN\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"color: #000000;\"><span lang=\"AZ-LATIN\">Bir az c\u0259sar\u0259t, bir az \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259 qulluq azca da \u015firindil olsalara, m\u0259nc\u0259 he\u00e7 biri evd\u0259 qalmaz.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"color: #000000;\"><span lang=\"AZ-LATIN\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"bawpvc-ajax-counter\" data-id=\"9333\">Yaz\u0131ya 1401 d\u0259f\u0259 bax\u0131l\u0131b<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>G\u00f6z\u0259llikl\u0259 \u0259laq\u0259si yoxdur, fikrimc\u0259. \u00c7\u00fcnki o q\u0259d\u0259r \u00e7irkin q\u0131zlar g\u00f6rd\u00fcm ki, nece sevilirl\u0259r. Onlara nec\u0259 g\u00f6z\u0259l \u015feirl\u0259r yaz\u0131l\u0131r. B\u0259s, m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259 n\u0259dir, q\u0131zlar n\u0259 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn evd\u0259 qal\u0131r? Q\u0131zlar\u0131n v\u0259 o\u011flanlar\u0131n say\u0131 da t\u0259xmin\u0259n eynidir. Y\u0259ni\u00a0 ist\u0259nil\u0259n q\u0131z \u0259r\u0259 getm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn o\u011flan tapa bil\u0259r. \u00a0Az\u0259rbaycan ki\u015fisi evl\u0259nm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn nec\u0259 q\u0131z ist\u0259yir\u00a0 v\u0259 evl\u0259nir. Bunlar\u0131 bilm\u0259d\u0259n yuxar\u0131dak\u0131 suala [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":6746,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[6],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9333"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=9333"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9333\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":9334,"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9333\/revisions\/9334"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/6746"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=9333"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=9333"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=9333"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}