{"id":9401,"date":"2015-07-06T00:46:56","date_gmt":"2015-07-05T19:46:56","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/kultur.az\/?p=9401"},"modified":"2015-07-06T00:46:56","modified_gmt":"2015-07-05T19:46:56","slug":"narinc-rust%c9%99mova-usaq-s%c9%99kill%c9%99ri-biz%c9%99-n%c9%99-soyl%c9%99yir","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/?p=9401","title":{"rendered":"Nar\u0131nc R\u00fcst\u0259mova &#8212; U\u015faq \u015f\u0259kill\u0259ri biz\u0259 n\u0259 s\u00f6yl\u0259yir?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/kultur.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/07\/425.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignright wp-image-9402 size-medium\" src=\"http:\/\/kultur.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/07\/425-300x199.jpg\" alt=\"425\" width=\"300\" height=\"199\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"color: #000000;\">B\u0259z\u0259n biz qohumun u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 ev\u0259 g\u0259l\u0259nd\u0259 \u015f\u0259rait yarananda ona ail\u0259si haqq\u0131nda suallar ver\u0259r\u0259k (m\u0259s: \u201catan\u0131 \u00e7ox ist\u0259yirs\u0259n yoxsa anan\u0131?\u201d ) ail\u0259sin\u0259 m\u00fcnasib\u0259tini \u00f6yr\u0259nm\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131r\u0131q.\u018fslind\u0259 is\u0259 onlar\u0131n h\u0259r etdiyi biz\u0259 b\u00f6y\u00fck mesajlar verir. G\u0259lin siz\u0259 u\u015faqlar\u0131 \u0259yl\u0259ndir\u0259r\u0259k onlar\u0131n psixoloji durumunu v\u0259 ail\u0259si haqq\u0131nda m\u0259lumat almaqda yard\u0131m\u00e7\u0131 olaq. Bunun \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn biz u\u015fa\u011fa ail\u0259sinin r\u0259smini \u00e7\u0259km\u0259sini s\u00f6yl\u0259y\u0259 bil\u0259rik.<\/p>\n<p style=\"color: #000000;\">U\u015faq r\u0259sm \u00e7\u0259k\u0259rk\u0259n x\u00fcsusi bir m\u00fcdaxil\u0259 ( hans\u0131sa ail\u0259 \u00fczv\u00fcn v\u0259 ya orqan\u0131 \u00e7\u0259km\u0259yi unuda bil\u0259r) etm\u0259m\u0259li, istiqam\u0259t verm\u0259m\u0259liyik.U\u015fa\u011f\u0131n ana-ata, bac\u0131-qarda\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7\u0259km\u0259 t\u0259rzi onlar aras\u0131ndak\u0131 \u00fcnsiyy\u0259ti g\u00f6st\u0259rir. B\u0259d\u0259n \u00fczvl\u0259rinin normadan ki\u00e7ik v\u0259 ya b\u00f6y\u00fck \u00e7\u0259kilm\u0259si, ya da he\u00e7 \u00e7\u0259kilm\u0259m\u0259si u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n ail\u0259 f\u0259rdl\u0259rin\u0259 bax\u0131\u015f t\u0259rzind\u0259n, ana-atan\u0131n ona olan yana\u015fma formas\u0131na q\u0259d\u0259r probleml\u0259r\u0259 i\u015f\u0131q tutur. \u0130st\u0259rdim \u0259sas hiss\u0259l\u0259ri n\u0259z\u0259rd\u0259n ke\u00e7ir\u0259k.<\/p>\n<p style=\"color: #000000;\">Kiml\u0259s\u0259 m\u00fcqayis\u0259 olunan u\u015faqlar h\u0259mi\u015f\u0259 b\u00f6y\u00fck ba\u015f \u00e7\u0259kirl\u0259r. M\u0259kt\u0259b fobiyas\u0131 olan u\u015faqlar \u015f\u0259kill\u0259rd\u0259 ail\u0259 f\u0259rdl\u0259rini, ev v\u0259 evd\u0259 xo\u015fb\u0259xt u\u015faq \u015f\u0259kill\u0259rini daha \u00e7ox \u00e7\u0259km\u0259y\u0259 meyl edirl\u0259r. M\u0259kt\u0259b, \u015fagird r\u0259smi \u00e7\u0259km\u0259kd\u0259n is\u0259 imtina edirl\u0259r. \u00d6z g\u00fcv\u0259n \u0259ksikliyi olan u\u015faqlar ka\u011f\u0131z\u0131n ham\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 istifad\u0259 etmir, \u015f\u0259kill\u0259r yar\u0131m\u00e7\u0131q (qur\u015faqdan a\u015fa\u011f\u0131 \u00e7\u0259kilmir)olur. B\u0259z\u0259n onlar ki\u00e7ik fiqurlar \u00e7\u0259kir v\u0259 ka\u011f\u0131z\u0131n bir hiss\u0259sini istifad\u0259 edirl\u0259r. \u0130nsan fiqurlar\u0131nda \u0259l v\u0259 ayaqlar\u0131n \u00e7\u0259kilm\u0259mi\u015f olmas\u0131 etibars\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131 v\u0259 \u0259trafa uy\u011funla\u015fmada ya\u015fanan \u00e7\u0259tinliyi, \u00fcnsiyy\u0259t \u0259ksikliyini, payla\u015fma azl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, \u00f6z\u00fcnd\u0259n ba\u015fqa insanlarla birlikd\u0259 olmama\u011f\u0131, eqoizmi d\u0259 ifad\u0259 edir.<\/p>\n<p style=\"color: #000000;\">U\u015faq x\u0259tt \u015f\u0259klind\u0259 a\u011f\u0131z \u00e7\u0259k\u0259rs\u0259 insanlarla dan\u0131\u015fmaqdan \u00e7\u0259kin\u0259n, oval, di\u015fl\u0259ri g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u0259n a\u011f\u0131z \u00e7\u0259k\u0259rs\u0259 bu ail\u0259d\u0259 u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 danlanan biri oldu\u011funu g\u00f6st\u0259rir. Burunun b\u00f6y\u00fck \u00e7\u0259kilm\u0259si u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n x\u00fcsusi v\u0259 m\u0259hr\u0259m m\u00f6vzularda dan\u0131\u015faca\u011f\u0131 yetkin tapa bilm\u0259diyini g\u00f6st\u0259rir. Q\u0131sa sa\u00e7l\u0131 v\u0259 ya sa\u00e7s\u0131z ba\u015fda qulaq \u00e7\u0259kilm\u0259m\u0259si u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n sosial \u0259laq\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 problem ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, b\u00f6y\u00fck qulaq \u00e7\u0259km\u0259si t\u0259nqid olundu\u011funu g\u00f6st\u0259rir. Geni\u015f, bucaql\u0131 \u00e7\u0259n\u0259 is\u0259 q\u0259rar verm\u0259d\u0259 \u00e7\u0259tinlik ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6st\u0259rir. Boyunsuz \u00e7\u0259kilmi\u015f ail\u0259 f\u0259rdi \u0259s\u0259bini idar\u0259 ed\u0259 bilmir dem\u0259kdir. \u0130nc\u0259 v\u0259 uzun bir boyunsa u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259 davaml\u0131 n\u0259zar\u0259t etdiyin\u0259 v\u0259 arzular\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7ox m\u0259hdudla\u015fd\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131na i\u015far\u0259 edir. Daha \u00e7ox r\u0259ngl\u0259nil\u0259n sa\u00e7 g\u00fccl\u00fc olma arzusunu g\u00f6st\u0259rir. U\u015fa\u011f\u0131n sa\u00e7\u0131n\u0131 vur\u011fulayaraq r\u0259ngl\u0259m\u0259si \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc \u0259zik hiss etdiyinin, valideynl\u0259rinin sa\u00e7\u0131n\u0131 vur\u011fulayaraq r\u0259ngl\u0259m\u0259si is\u0259 valideynl\u0259rin avtoritar oldu\u011funun g\u00f6st\u0259ricisidir.<\/p>\n<p style=\"color: #000000;\">Sonda onu dem\u0259k ist\u0259yir\u0259m ki, u\u015faqlar ilk bax\u0131\u015fdan sad\u0259 v\u0259 h\u0259r \u015fey\u0259 s\u0259thi yana\u015fan g\u00f6r\u00fcns\u0259l\u0259r d\u0259 \u0259traflar\u0131nda c\u0259r\u0259yan ed\u0259n hadis\u0259l\u0259r\u0259 bigan\u0259 deyill\u0259r v\u0259 bunlar ham\u0131s\u0131 u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n g\u00fcnd\u0259lik h\u0259yat\u0131na \u00f6z m\u0259nfi v\u0259 m\u00fcsb\u0259t t\u0259sirini g\u00f6st\u0259rir. Buna g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 biz b\u00f6y\u00fckl\u0259r u\u015faqlara h\u0259mi\u015f\u0259 diqq\u0259t etm\u0259li onlar\u0131n etm\u0259dikl\u0259rind\u0259ns\u0259, etdikl\u0259rini qiym\u0259tl\u0259ndirm\u0259y\u0259 \u00fcst\u00fcnl\u00fck verm\u0259liyik.<\/p>\n<p style=\"color: #000000;\">\n<p style=\"color: #000000;\"><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\"><em>&#8220;NARINCI&#8221; U\u015faq psixo-pedaqoji inki\u015faf m\u0259rk\u0259zinin r\u0259hb\u0259ri, u\u015faq psixoloqu<\/p>\n<p>D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259 jurnal\u0131<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"bawpvc-ajax-counter\" data-id=\"9401\">Yaz\u0131ya 854 d\u0259f\u0259 bax\u0131l\u0131b<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>B\u0259z\u0259n biz qohumun u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 ev\u0259 g\u0259l\u0259nd\u0259 \u015f\u0259rait yarananda ona ail\u0259si haqq\u0131nda suallar ver\u0259r\u0259k (m\u0259s: \u201catan\u0131 \u00e7ox ist\u0259yirs\u0259n yoxsa anan\u0131?\u201d ) ail\u0259sin\u0259 m\u00fcnasib\u0259tini \u00f6yr\u0259nm\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131r\u0131q.\u018fslind\u0259 is\u0259 onlar\u0131n h\u0259r etdiyi biz\u0259 b\u00f6y\u00fck mesajlar verir. G\u0259lin siz\u0259 u\u015faqlar\u0131 \u0259yl\u0259ndir\u0259r\u0259k onlar\u0131n psixoloji durumunu v\u0259 ail\u0259si haqq\u0131nda m\u0259lumat almaqda yard\u0131m\u00e7\u0131 olaq. Bunun \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn biz u\u015fa\u011fa ail\u0259sinin r\u0259smini \u00e7\u0259km\u0259sini s\u00f6yl\u0259y\u0259 bil\u0259rik. 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