{"id":9800,"date":"2015-10-23T23:42:26","date_gmt":"2015-10-23T18:42:26","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/kultur.az\/?p=9800"},"modified":"2015-10-23T23:42:26","modified_gmt":"2015-10-23T18:42:26","slug":"ail%c9%99-qura-bilm%c9%99yibs%c9%99-analiq-hissind%c9%99n-m%c9%99hrum-olmalidir-arasdirma","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/?p=9800","title":{"rendered":"Ail\u0259 qura bilm\u0259yibs\u0259, anal\u0131q hissind\u0259n m\u0259hrum olmal\u0131d\u0131r? – ARA\u015eDIRMA"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"12108797_10207817971677409_4302331997601798134_n\"<\/a>Bu m\u00f6vzu \u0259traf\u0131nda geni\u015f ara\u015fd\u0131rma apard\u0131m. Ki\u015fil\u0259r bir t\u0259r\u0259f\u0259, \u0259n \u0259sas\u0131, xan\u0131mlara m\u00fcraci\u0259t etdim bu sualla:\u00a0“35-40 ya\u015fl\u0131, h\u0259r hans\u0131 s\u0259b\u0259bd\u0259n ail\u0259 qura bilm\u0259y\u0259n, yaxud bo\u015fanm\u0131\u015f xan\u0131mlar anal\u0131q hissind\u0259n m\u0259hrum olaraq ya\u015famal\u0131d\u0131r, yoxsa ana olma haqq\u0131na tam sahibdir?”<\/strong><\/p>\n

Qad\u0131nlar\u0131n fikri daha \u00f6n\u0259mlidir, \u00e7\u00fcnki bir qad\u0131n\u0131n dig\u0259r bir qad\u0131na m\u00fcnasib\u0259ti v\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259si burada \u00f6z \u0259ksini tap\u0131r. H\u0259r sah\u0259d\u0259n olan xan\u0131mlar (evdar qad\u0131n, i\u015f qad\u0131n\u0131, evli, subay, ni\u015fanl\u0131, bo\u015fanm\u0131\u015f v\u0259 dul qad\u0131nlar) fikir y\u00fcr\u00fctm\u0259y\u0259 ba\u015flad\u0131lar v\u0259 a\u015fa\u011f\u0131dak\u0131 formada individual olaraq fikirl\u0259rini b\u00f6l\u00fc\u015fd\u00fcl\u0259r.<\/p>\n

Ad olaraq verilm\u0259yin \u00f6n\u0259mi olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn onlar\u0131n m\u0259d\u0259ni hal\u0131n\u0131 qeyd edir\u0259m.<\/p>\n

1. Subay xan\u0131m:<\/strong>\u00a0Qeyri-r\u0259smi \u00f6vlad d\u00fcnyaya g\u0259tirm\u0259k, yoldan ke\u00e7\u0259n biri il\u0259 \u0259laq\u0259d\u0259 olmaq dem\u0259kdir. Ondansa, xeyir i\u015f g\u00f6r\u00fcb kims\u0259siz u\u015faqlar evind\u0259n \u00f6vladl\u0131\u011fa g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u0259 bil\u0259r. Bu da pis qar\u015f\u0131lanmaz.<\/p>\n

2. Subay xan\u0131m:<\/strong>\u00a0Bizim mentalitet bunu q\u0259bul etmir, t\u0259ss\u00fcf ki.<\/p>\n

3. Subay xan\u0131m:<\/strong>\u00a0\u018fg\u0259r sevgi olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131na v\u0259 ya ba\u015fqa s\u0259b\u0259bd\u0259n ail\u0259 qurma\u011f\u0131 al\u0131nmay\u0131bsa, m\u0259nc\u0259, qad\u0131n m\u0259ntiql\u0259 sad\u0259c\u0259 u\u015fa\u011fa g\u00f6r\u0259 ail\u0259 qurmal\u0131d\u0131r. M\u0259nc\u0259, buna d\u0259y\u0259r, demir\u0259m, yoldan ke\u00e7\u0259n biri il\u0259 evl\u0259n, amma m\u0259ntiql\u0259 laz\u0131md\u0131r.<\/p>\n

4. Subay xan\u0131m:<\/strong>\u00a0Birm\u0259nal\u0131 olaraq yox! \u00d6vlad g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn qarantiyad\u0131r, b\u0259y\u0259m? H\u0259r k\u0259s \u00f6vlad\u0131, qocalanda ona baxs\u0131n dey\u0259 mi g\u0259tirir d\u00fcnyaya? T\u0259k qad\u0131n bizim c\u0259miyy\u0259td\u0259 bunu ed\u0259 bilm\u0259z! Qohumundan v\u0259 ya u\u015faq evind\u0259n g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fcb b\u00f6y\u00fcts\u00fcn.<\/p>\n

5. Subay xan\u0131m:<\/strong>\u00a0Qeyri-r\u0259smi \u00f6vlad o dem\u0259kdir ki, kiml\u0259s\u0259 yat\u0131rsan, kim g\u0259ldi \u0259laq\u0259d\u0259 olursan, t\u0259ki u\u015faq olsun. Ondansa \u00f6vlad x\u0259trin\u0259 sevm\u0259d\u0259n d\u0259 ail\u0259 qursun, n\u0259inki qeyri-r\u0259smi.<\/p>\n

6. Subay xan\u0131m:<\/strong>\u00a0M\u0259nim 28 ya\u015f\u0131m var. M\u0259n evliliy\u0259 haz\u0131r hiss etmir\u0259m \u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fc.
\nM\u0259nim \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn m\u00fctl\u0259q evl\u0259nm\u0259lidir dey\u0259 bir \u015fey yoxdur. Ya da ham\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6vlad\u0131 olmal\u0131d\u0131r dey\u0259 d\u0259 bir \u015fey yoxdur. Qeyri-r\u0259smi \u00f6vlad d\u00fcnyaya g\u0259tirm\u0259k ist\u0259m\u0259r\u0259m. Olarsa, r\u0259smi olar, olmazsa da, \u00f6z qarda\u015f\u0131m u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fcb b\u00f6y\u00fcd\u0259r\u0259m.<\/p>\n

7. Evli xan\u0131m: (\u00f6yr\u0259tm\u0259n)<\/strong>\u00a0Qeyri-r\u0259smi u\u015faq d\u00fcnyaya g\u0259tirm\u0259kd\u0259ns\u0259, yax\u0131n qohumlardan birinin u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6vladl\u0131\u011fa g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u0259 bil\u0259r. Biz qad\u0131n\u0131n g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259yini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcns\u0259k d\u0259, h\u0259min u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259kd\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131la\u015faca\u011f\u0131 suallar v\u0259 ya m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259r haqq\u0131nda da d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnm\u0259liyik. Bu hal u\u015fa\u011fa psixoloji t\u0259sir ed\u0259 bil\u0259r.<\/p>\n

8. Evli xan\u0131m:<\/strong>\u00a0Sual do\u011fur – xan\u0131m\u0131n u\u015fa\u011f\u0131na soyad\u0131n\u0131 ver\u0259c\u0259k partnyoru varsa, niy\u0259 indiy\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r evl\u0259nm\u0259yib? Yox yoxdusa, sperma bank\u0131yla ed\u0259c\u0259ks\u0259, \u00fcmumiyy\u0259tl\u0259 pisdir. G\u0259lin, \u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fc aldatmayaq, bura Az\u0259rbaycand\u0131r, he\u00e7 kim normal qar\u015f\u0131lamayacaq. G\u0259r\u0259k, n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r \u0259s\u0259bl\u0259ri sakit adam olsun ki, he\u00e7 n\u0259y\u0259 \u0259h\u0259miyy\u0259t vem\u0259d\u0259n bunu etsin v\u0259 ana olsun.<\/p>\n

9. Evli xan\u0131m:<\/strong>\u00a0Mentalitet s\u00fcr\u00fc psixologiyas\u0131 ola bil\u0259r, amma t\u0259k qad\u0131n\u0131n d\u00fcnyaya u\u015faq g\u0259tirm\u0259yi he\u00e7 d\u0259 yax\u015f\u0131 \u015fey deyil. T\u0259k qad\u0131n 40 ya\u015f\u0131nda u\u015faq do\u011fdu, 20 ild\u0259n sonra o u\u015fa\u011fa n\u0259 ver\u0259 bil\u0259c\u0259k? O u\u015faq da \u00f6z\u00fc kimi kims\u0259siz olacaq.<\/p>\n

10. Evli xan\u0131m:<\/strong>\u00a0M\u0259n 35-40 ya\u015f\u0131mda ail\u0259 qurmam\u0131\u015f olaraq qalsayd\u0131m, bunu ed\u0259rdim. Ancaq s\u00fcni mayalanma yolu il\u0259 bunu ger\u00e7\u0259kl\u0259\u015fdir\u0259rdim. Atas\u0131n\u0131 da tan\u0131mazd\u0131m, rahat olard\u0131m. Tan\u0131sam, \u015feytan azd\u0131rar, insanam, n\u0259 vaxtsa \u00fcst\u00fcn\u0259 ged\u0259 bil\u0259r\u0259m. Amma buna \u0259min\u0259m ki, bel\u0259 bir \u015fey ya\u015fasayd\u0131m, m\u00fctl\u0259q bu \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 ana olard\u0131m. \u00d6z\u00fcm\u00fc bu hissi ya\u015famaqdan m\u0259hrum etm\u0259zdim.<\/p>\n

11. Subay xan\u0131m:<\/strong>\u00a040 ya\u015fdan yuxar\u0131 xan\u0131mlarda bu problem aktuald\u0131r. u\u015faq g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fcb b\u00f6y\u00fcd\u0259 bil\u0259r. Ya da bir ki\u015finin imam nikahl\u0131 arvad\u0131 olaraq q\u0259bul edib, u\u015faq d\u00fcnyaya g\u0259tir\u0259 bil\u0259r.<\/p>\n

12. Subay xan\u0131m:<\/strong>\u00a0M\u0259nim a\u011fl\u0131ma s\u00fcni mayalanma g\u0259ldi. Qad\u0131n, h\u0259qiq\u0259t\u0259n, anal\u0131q hissini ilk h\u0259ft\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259n hiss etm\u0259k ist\u0259yirs\u0259, m\u0259nc\u0259, bu yol daha u\u011furludur.<\/p>\n

13. Evli xan\u0131m:<\/strong>\u00a0\u00d6z\u00fc \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn u\u015faq do\u011fmaq, u\u015fa\u011fa haqs\u0131zl\u0131qd\u0131r. Atas\u0131z u\u015fa\u011fa \u00e7ox \u00e7\u0259tin olar. \u018fg\u0259r ata r\u0259hm\u0259t\u0259 gedibs\u0259, u\u015faq bunu bilir, amma atas\u0131n\u0131n kim oldu\u011funu bilm\u0259m\u0259k, onunla \u00fcnsiyy\u0259ti olmamas\u0131 psixoloji sorunlar yaradacaq.<\/p>\n

14. Evli xan\u0131m: (i\u015f qad\u0131n\u0131)<\/strong>\u00a0O ya\u015fda qad\u0131n ail\u0259 qura bilm\u0259yibs\u0259, \u0259lb\u0259tt\u0259, \u00f6vlad sahibi olmal\u0131d\u0131r. Niy\u0259 d\u0259 yox?! \u00d6l\u0259nd\u0259 a\u011fz\u0131na bir qab su t\u00f6k\u0259ni olsun. Ana olmaq d\u00fcnyan\u0131n \u0259n g\u00f6z\u0259l hissidir. O hissi niy\u0259 ya\u015famamal\u0131d\u0131r ki? Niy\u0259 bir u\u015fa\u011fa t\u0259rbiyy\u0259, t\u0259hsil verm\u0259sin? \u018fg\u0259r he\u00e7 bir problemi yoxdursa, do\u011fan qarn\u0131 varsa, niy\u0259 d\u0259 o, \u00f6z\u00fc do\u011fub, o hissi ya\u015famamal\u0131d\u0131r? Bunu ya eko, ya da yax\u015f\u0131 bir donor tap\u0131b ed\u0259 bil\u0259r. M\u0259n he\u00e7 bir halda q\u0131nam\u0131ram o \u015f\u0259xsi, zaks filan m\u0259nas\u0131z bir \u015feydir bu situasiyada. Mentalitet qavram\u0131 da h\u0259m\u00e7inin. Bir insan\u0131n arxas\u0131ndan bir m\u00fcdd\u0259t dan\u0131\u015facaqlar, qoy, dan\u0131\u015fs\u0131nlar. Anaya qalan \u00f6vladd\u0131r. Lap el\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fc \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn laz\u0131md\u0131r, h\u0259r insan \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnm\u0259lidir. Qohum-\u0259qr\u0259ba, ata-ana, qarda\u015f-bac\u0131 ham\u0131 \u00f6z\u00fc \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcnd\u00fcr, he\u00e7 kim d\u0259 d\u00fcnyan\u0131 tutub durmur. T\u0259k qalan yen\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fcn olursan. M\u0259n d\u0259 \u015f\u0259xs\u0259n o ya\u015f\u0131ma q\u0259d\u0259r qalsayd\u0131m v\u0259 ail\u0259 qura bilm\u0259s\u0259ydim, m\u00fctl\u0259q, he\u00e7 fikirl\u0259\u015fm\u0259d\u0259n bu c\u00fcr ana olard\u0131m. He\u00e7 kim yax\u015f\u0131 qar\u015f\u0131lamasa bel\u0259, laz\u0131m g\u0259l\u0259rs\u0259, ham\u0131dan k\u0259nara \u00e7\u0259kilib \u00f6vlad\u0131m\u0131 b\u00f6y\u00fcd\u00fcb xo\u015fb\u0259xtliyimd\u0259n, anal\u0131q hissimd\u0259n z\u00f6vq alard\u0131m. Ana olmaq m\u00f6ht\u0259\u015f\u0259m bir duy\u011fudur.<\/p>\n

15. \u0130\u015f qad\u0131n\u0131:<\/strong>\u00a0M\u0259nim i\u015f yolda\u015f\u0131m\u0131n 40 ya\u015f\u0131 olacaqd\u0131. Bir d\u0259f\u0259 ail\u0259 qurub v\u0259 ayr\u0131l\u0131b. Bir ki\u015fi il\u0259 k\u0259bin k\u0259sdirdi. Hamil\u0259 qald\u0131. \u00d6nc\u0259d\u0259n ki\u015fiy\u0259 demi\u015fdi ki, m\u0259n\u0259 s\u0259nin he\u00e7 n\u0259yin laz\u0131m deyil. B\u00fct\u00fcn ehtiyaclar\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6z\u00fc \u00f6d\u0259yirdi. V\u0259 u\u015faq d\u00fcnyaya g\u0259tirdi. Dedi, bu u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 \u00f6z\u00fcm \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn do\u011furam.
\nB\u00f6y\u00fck bir kollektivd\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rd\u0131q. He\u00e7 kim d\u0259 ona pis baxmad\u0131, g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259yini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc v\u0259 etdi.<\/p>\n

16. Evli xan\u0131m: (i\u015fl\u0259yir)<\/strong>\u00a0M\u0259n \u00e7ox normal bax\u0131ram. El\u0259 deyirl\u0259r ki, atas\u0131z olacaq. Guya, b\u00fct\u00fcn yan\u0131nda \u0259ri olanlar y\u00fcks\u0259k s\u0259viyy\u0259d\u0259 u\u015fa\u011fa bax\u0131r? \u00dcmumiyy\u0259tl\u0259, bizd\u0259 c\u0259mi 10% normal \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 u\u015fa\u011fa bax\u0131l\u0131r. \u018fg\u0259r qad\u0131n\u0131n u\u015fa\u011fa ver\u0259c\u0259k h\u0259m maddi, h\u0259m m\u0259n\u0259vi g\u00fcc\u00fc varsa, ana olma\u011fa da, u\u015faq do\u011fma\u011fa da tam haqq\u0131 var. H\u0259r yan\u0131nda ki\u015fi olan\u0131n u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 m\u00fck\u0259mm\u0259l olur dey\u0259 bir \u015fey d\u0259 yoxdur.<\/p>\n

17. Bo\u015fanm\u0131\u015f xan\u0131m: (i\u015fl\u0259yir)<\/strong>\u00a0H\u0259r bir qad\u0131n\u0131n ana olmaq haqq\u0131 var. Ola bilsin, o qad\u0131n m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259r\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 ail\u0259 qurmay\u0131b. Amma bu o dem\u0259k deyil ki, qad\u0131n \u0259rd\u0259 deyils\u0259, onun \u00f6vlad\u0131 olmamal\u0131d\u0131r. Bu g\u00fcn Az\u0259rbaycan mentalitetin\u0259 qurban ged\u0259n \u00e7oxlu sayda qad\u0131nlar var. H\u0259min qad\u0131nlar\u0131n bu g\u00fcn 40-dan art\u0131q ya\u015flar\u0131 var. V\u0259 onlar zaman\u0131nda ana olmad\u0131qlar\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u00e7ox pe\u015fmand\u0131lar. \u00c7\u00fcnki bu g\u00fcn onlar c\u0259miyy\u0259td\u0259 t\u0259k ya\u015fay\u0131rlar. N\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r deyils\u0259 ki, ana-ata, qarda\u015f-bac\u0131 var. Amma unutmaq laz\u0131m deyil ki, insana yax\u0131n v\u0259 ona dayaq olan \u00f6vladd\u0131r.
\nHe\u00e7 bir ail\u0259li qad\u0131n sabah ba\u015f\u0131na n\u0259 g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259yind\u0259n s\u0131\u011fortalanmay\u0131b. Ola bilsin, ail\u0259li qad\u0131n ya bo\u015fans\u0131n, ya da \u0259ri \u00f6ls\u00fcn. Bel\u0259 olan halda qad\u0131n u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 t\u0259k b\u00f6y\u00fctm\u0259li olur. El\u0259 ail\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 var ki, qad\u0131n \u0259rd\u0259di. Lakin o qad\u0131n\u0131n yolda\u015f\u0131 u\u015faqlar\u0131na baxm\u0131r. Y\u00fck yen\u0259 d\u0259 qad\u0131n\u0131n \u00fcz\u0259rin\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr.<\/p>\n

18. Bo\u015fanm\u0131\u015f xan\u0131m:(i\u015fl\u0259yir)<\/strong>\u00a0M\u0259nc\u0259 d\u0259, ana olmaq h\u0259r bir qad\u0131n\u0131n haqq\u0131d\u0131r. Kiml\u0259rins\u0259 n\u00f6qteyi-n\u0259z\u0259rini fikirl\u0259\u015fm\u0259yin m\u0259nas\u0131 yoxdur. \u018fg\u0259r bir qad\u0131n\u0131n kimd\u0259ns\u0259 as\u0131l\u0131 olmadan imkan\u0131, \u015f\u0259raiti varsa, el\u0259 bu g\u00fcnd\u0259n bu haqda fikirl\u0259\u015fm\u0259lidir.<\/p>\n

19. Subay xan\u0131m:<\/strong>\u00a0Tam s\u0259mimi fikrimdir, \u0259r\u0259 getm\u0259s\u0259m, m\u00fctl\u0259q, bir \u00f6vlad d\u00fcnyaya g\u0259tirm\u0259yi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr\u0259m. Anal\u0131q hissini ya\u015famam\u0131\u015f bu h\u0259yatdan k\u00f6\u00e7m\u0259k fikrim yoxdur. Kim n\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcns\u00fcn. \u00d6n\u0259ms\u0259mir\u0259m.<\/p>\n

20. Subay xan\u0131m:<\/strong>\u00a0D\u00fcnyaya u\u015faq g\u0259tirib ona \u0259sl ana olma\u011f\u0131n n\u0259yi pisdir ki? Guya, bo\u015fanan qad\u0131nlar\u0131n u\u015faqlar\u0131 atas\u0131z b\u00f6y\u00fcm\u00fcr? Onlar\u0131 atalar\u0131 at\u0131r, bunda is\u0259 raz\u0131la\u015f\u0131b evl\u0259nib sonra ayr\u0131lmaq da olar. Bo\u015fanandan sonra \u00f6vlad\u0131na aliment verm\u0259kd\u0259n boyun qa\u00e7\u0131ran minl\u0259rl\u0259 “ata”lar var. O qad\u0131n, b\u0259lk\u0259 d\u0259, el\u0259 atalardan min d\u0259f\u0259 yax\u015f\u0131 ana olacaq. onun da ana olmaq haqq\u0131 var.<\/p>\n

Bax bel\u0259… Xan\u0131mlar\u0131n m\u00f6vzu il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 fikirl\u0259ri bu c\u00fcr oldu. Ki\u015fil\u0259rl\u0259 bunu m\u00fczakir\u0259 etm\u0259k \u00e7\u0259tin olar d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259sind\u0259y\u0259m. Sual verm\u0259k bel\u0259, ondarda neqativlik yaradacaq (istisnalarla). Amma bunu da yoxlayacam, bu sualla ki\u015fil\u0259r\u0259 d\u0259 m\u00fcraci\u0259t ed\u0259c\u0259y\u0259m.<\/p>\n

Ana olmaq, qad\u0131n \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn ona verilmi\u015f \u0259n \u00fclvi v\u0259 ali hissdir. Bu, m\u0259hz, qad\u0131na Yaradan\u0131n sunumudur. Ail\u0259 \u00e7\u0259r\u00e7iv\u0259sini insan \u00f6z\u00fc yaratmal\u0131d\u0131r, m\u00fctl\u0259q deyil ki, \u0259lli min pul x\u0259rcl\u0259yib, toy-d\u00fcy\u00fcn edib, min n\u0259f\u0259ri ba\u015f\u0131na toplay\u0131b evliliyini b\u0259yan ed\u0259s\u0259n. K\u0259bin varsa (zina olmamaq m\u0259qs\u0259dli) v\u0259 bir insanla \u00f6vlad d\u00fcnyaya g\u0259tirm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn qurulan m\u00fcnasib\u0259t normald\u0131r. Buna eqoist v\u0259 cahil \u00e7alarlarla “yoldan ke\u00e7\u0259n” anlam\u0131n\u0131 y\u00fckl\u0259yib, m\u0259\u011fzd\u0259n uzaqla\u015fd\u0131rmayaq. Yoldan ke\u00e7\u0259nl\u0259 m\u00fcnasib\u0259t quranlar\u0131n, zat\u0259n, ana olmaq kimi h\u0259v\u0259sl\u0259ri v\u0259 maraqlar\u0131 da yoxdur.<\/p>\n

Bu c\u0259miyy\u0259t \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn bir u\u015faq do\u011fub, onu b\u00f6y\u00fcd\u00fcb, t\u0259rbiy\u0259 v\u0259 t\u0259hsil verib, topluma yararl\u0131 v\u0259t\u0259nda\u015f yeti\u015fdirm\u0259k bir qad\u0131n\u0131n u\u011furudur. Bo\u015fand\u0131qdan sonra aliment ala bilm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn m\u0259hk\u0259m\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 dola\u015fan qad\u0131nlar, \u00f6vlad\u0131na soyad\u0131n\u0131 bel\u0259 verm\u0259kd\u0259n imtina ed\u0259n “atalar” v\u0259 toylu-d\u00fcy\u00fcnl\u00fc evlilikl\u0259rin sonunu g\u00f6rm\u00fc\u015f\u0259m. H\u0259r \u015fey insan fikrinin t\u0259mizliyind\u0259n v\u0259 \u00f6z\u0259l t\u0259m\u0259lind\u0259n as\u0131l\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n

H\u0259r qad\u0131n ana olma\u011f\u0131 haqq edir.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Anlayan anlad\u0131… Ba\u015fqa y\u00f6n\u0259 \u00e7\u0259km\u0259k ist\u0259y\u0259nl\u0259r\u0259 is\u0259 sad\u0259c\u0259 d\u00fczg\u00fcn v\u0259 eqosuz bir z\u0259ka dil\u0259yir\u0259m.<\/p>\n

Say\u011f\u0131larla…<\/p>\n

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Aysel Abdullazad\u0259…<\/p>\n

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Bu m\u00f6vzu \u0259traf\u0131nda geni\u015f ara\u015fd\u0131rma apard\u0131m. Ki\u015fil\u0259r bir t\u0259r\u0259f\u0259, \u0259n \u0259sas\u0131, xan\u0131mlara m\u00fcraci\u0259t etdim bu sualla:\u00a0“35-40 ya\u015fl\u0131, h\u0259r hans\u0131 s\u0259b\u0259bd\u0259n ail\u0259 qura bilm\u0259y\u0259n, yaxud bo\u015fanm\u0131\u015f xan\u0131mlar anal\u0131q hissind\u0259n m\u0259hrum olaraq ya\u015famal\u0131d\u0131r, yoxsa ana olma haqq\u0131na tam sahibdir?” Qad\u0131nlar\u0131n fikri daha \u00f6n\u0259mlidir, \u00e7\u00fcnki bir qad\u0131n\u0131n dig\u0259r bir qad\u0131na m\u00fcnasib\u0259ti v\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259si burada \u00f6z \u0259ksini tap\u0131r. H\u0259r […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[5],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9800"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=9800"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9800\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":9801,"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9800\/revisions\/9801"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=9800"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=9800"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=9800"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}