{"id":9849,"date":"2015-10-29T22:54:11","date_gmt":"2015-10-29T18:54:11","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/kultur.az\/?p=9849"},"modified":"2015-10-29T22:54:11","modified_gmt":"2015-10-29T18:54:11","slug":"kamran-ismayilzad%c9%99-namus-sad%c9%99c%c9%99-qadina-aid-deyil","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/?p=9849","title":{"rendered":"Kamran \u0130smay\u0131lzad\u0259 – Namus sad\u0259c\u0259 qad\u0131na aid deyil!"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"12196045_899582326822707_1105056120198132357_n\"<\/a>Qad\u0131nlar\u0131n ist\u0259dikl\u0259ri saatda, ist\u0259dikl\u0259ri yerd\u0259 rahatca g\u0259zib-dola\u015fa bilm\u0259diyi bir \u00f6lk\u0259nin erk\u0259kl\u0259rind\u0259 problem var dem\u0259kdir. \u00c7\u00fcnki bir qad\u0131n\u0131n yax\u0131nla\u015fmaqdan qorxmas\u0131n\u0131, \u00e7\u0259kinm\u0259sini deyil; yan\u0131ndayk\u0259n, h\u0259tta yax\u0131nl\u0131\u011f\u0131ndayk\u0259n bel\u0259 h\u0259r qad\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc g\u00fcv\u0259nd\u0259 v\u0259 rahat hiss etm\u0259sini t\u0259min ed\u0259n erk\u0259y\u0259 ki\u015fi deyilir…<\/strong><\/em>
\n\u0130ctimai n\u0259qliyyat vasit\u0259l\u0259rind\u0259 yan\u0131nda oturan adamdan rahats\u0131z olan; yolda qar\u015f\u0131dan g\u0259l\u0259n erk\u0259y\u0259 potensial t\u0259cav\u00fcz\u00e7\u00fc g\u00f6z\u00fcyl\u0259 baxan; birisi onunla maraqland\u0131\u011f\u0131 zaman “m\u0259nd\u0259n xo\u015fu g\u0259ldi” \u0259v\u0259zin\u0259 “m\u0259ni yata\u011fa atmaq ist\u0259yir” dey\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u0259n; \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc sevilm\u0259y\u0259 layiq g\u00f6rm\u0259yib bu d\u00fcnyaya ancaq erk\u0259yinin ist\u0259k v\u0259 t\u0259l\u0259batlar\u0131n\u0131 yerin\u0259 yetirm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn g\u0259ldiyin\u0259 inanan qad\u0131nlar yaratd\u0131n\u0131z. Sonra da yaratd\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z bu \u0259s\u0259ri b\u0259y\u0259nm\u0259yib ad\u0131n\u0131 “T\u00fck\u0259zban” qoydunuz. Y\u0259ni qanad\u0131n\u0131 q\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z qu\u015f u\u00e7a bilm\u0259di dey\u0259 qu\u015fu g\u00fcnahland\u0131rd\u0131n\u0131z, q\u0259f\u0259sl\u0259r\u0259 qapatd\u0131n\u0131z. Q\u0259f\u0259sd\u0259n qa\u00e7anlara is\u0259 “\u0259xlaq, namus” dam\u011fas\u0131 vuraraq, az qala c\u0259miyy\u0259td\u0259n t\u0259crid etdiniz, l\u0259k\u0259l\u0259diniz…<\/p>\n

\u0130ndi is\u0259 q\u0259f\u0259s\u0259 qapatd\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z, \u0259srl\u0259rl\u0259 q\u0259f\u0259s qanunlar\u0131yla b\u00f6y\u00fcd\u00fcl\u0259n v\u0259 b\u00fcsb\u00fct\u00fcn \u00f6zg\u00fcv\u0259n duy\u011fusunu itir\u0259n, ruhu \u00f6ld\u00fcr\u00fcl\u0259n qad\u0131nlardan y\u00fcks\u0259k intellektuall\u0131q, savad, z\u0259ka, eyni zamanda s\u0259mimilik, c\u0259sar\u0259t, a\u00e7\u0131qfikirlilik v\u0259 geni\u015f d\u00fcnyag\u00f6r\u00fc\u015f\u00fc g\u00f6zl\u0259yirsiniz…<\/p>\n

“Qad\u0131n a\u011fl\u0131 qu\u015f a\u011fl\u0131”, “qad\u0131n\u0131n sa\u00e7\u0131 uzun, a\u011fl\u0131 q\u0131sa”, “qad\u0131n\u0131n a\u011fl\u0131 topu\u011funda” dey\u0259r\u0259k h\u0259r zaman qad\u0131nlar\u0131 a\u015fa\u011f\u0131lad\u0131n\u0131z, a\u011fl\u0131na, z\u0259kas\u0131na, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259sin\u0259 \u015f\u00fcbh\u0259 etdiniz, h\u0259r c\u0259h\u0259td\u0259n sizd\u0259n daha a\u015fa\u011f\u0131da dayanan, \u0259ksik varl\u0131qlar kimi g\u00f6rd\u00fcn\u00fcz. Amma bir yanl\u0131\u015f\u0131 oldu\u011fu zaman \u0259n s\u0259rt c\u0259zalanan, \u015fidd\u0259t\u0259 m\u0259ruz qalan, d\u00f6y\u00fcl\u0259n, \u00f6ld\u00fcr\u00fcl\u0259n yen\u0259 d\u0259 h\u0259min o “a\u011fl\u0131 q\u0131sa” dediyiniz qad\u0131nlar oldu…
\nQad\u0131n namuslu olacaq deyirsiniz, amma namusunu l\u0259k\u0259l\u0259m\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u0259linizd\u0259n g\u0259l\u0259ni edirsiniz. N\u0259 zaman anlayacaqs\u0131n\u0131z ki, namus sad\u0259c\u0259 qad\u0131na aid bir n\u0259sn\u0259 deyil. Namus – bir qad\u0131na baxark\u0259n s\u0259rgil\u0259diyiniz \u0259xlaq\u0131n, davran\u0131\u015f\u0131n el\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fc dem\u0259kdir.
\nN\u0259y\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 qad\u0131nlardan h\u0259r zaman m\u00fck\u0259mm\u0259llik, q\u00fcsursuzluq t\u0259l\u0259b olunur? M\u00fck\u0259mm\u0259l olmayan ki\u015fil\u0259rin bunu qad\u0131nlardan t\u0259l\u0259b etm\u0259y\u0259 n\u0259 haqqlar\u0131 var? Ax\u0131 niy\u0259 anlamaq ist\u0259mirl\u0259r ki, cinsind\u0259n as\u0131l\u0131 olmayaraq, yanl\u0131\u015f\u0131yla, do\u011frusuyla h\u0259r k\u0259s bir insan v\u0259 bir f\u0259rddir… Qad\u0131nlar\u0131 m\u00fcq\u0259dd\u0259sl\u0259\u015fdirm\u0259k onlar\u0131 ya\u015famdan uzaqla\u015fd\u0131rmaq v\u0259 h\u0259yat\u0131n bir k\u00fcnc\u00fcn\u0259 atmaqd\u0131r. Qad\u0131nlar \u00e7i\u00e7\u0259k- b\u00f6c\u0259k deyill\u0259r. Yanl\u0131\u015f v\u0259 do\u011frular\u0131yla onlar da bir insan v\u0259 bir f\u0259rddirl\u0259r; hiss, duy\u011fu v\u0259 emosiyalara malikdirl\u0259r. Eyni zamanda, ki\u015fil\u0259rd\u0259n daha \u00e7ox duyarl\u0131 v\u0259 anlay\u0131\u015fl\u0131d\u0131rlar…<\/p>\n

V\u0259 son olaraq…<\/p>\n

Qad\u0131nlar\u0131n\u0131n g\u00fcl\u00fcms\u0259m\u0259diyi bir \u015f\u0259h\u0259rin erk\u0259kl\u0259ri c\u0259sur ola bilm\u0259zl\u0259r… C\u0259sar\u0259ti olmayanlar\u0131n is\u0259 h\u0259r zaman b\u0259han\u0259l\u0259ri vard\u0131r!<\/p>\n


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Yaz\u0131ya 824 d\u0259f\u0259 bax\u0131l\u0131b<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Qad\u0131nlar\u0131n ist\u0259dikl\u0259ri saatda, ist\u0259dikl\u0259ri yerd\u0259 rahatca g\u0259zib-dola\u015fa bilm\u0259diyi bir \u00f6lk\u0259nin erk\u0259kl\u0259rind\u0259 problem var dem\u0259kdir. \u00c7\u00fcnki bir qad\u0131n\u0131n yax\u0131nla\u015fmaqdan qorxmas\u0131n\u0131, \u00e7\u0259kinm\u0259sini deyil; yan\u0131ndayk\u0259n, h\u0259tta yax\u0131nl\u0131\u011f\u0131ndayk\u0259n bel\u0259 h\u0259r qad\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc g\u00fcv\u0259nd\u0259 v\u0259 rahat hiss etm\u0259sini t\u0259min ed\u0259n erk\u0259y\u0259 ki\u015fi deyilir… \u0130ctimai n\u0259qliyyat vasit\u0259l\u0259rind\u0259 yan\u0131nda oturan adamdan rahats\u0131z olan; yolda qar\u015f\u0131dan g\u0259l\u0259n erk\u0259y\u0259 potensial t\u0259cav\u00fcz\u00e7\u00fc g\u00f6z\u00fcyl\u0259 baxan; birisi […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[6],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9849"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=9849"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9849\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":9850,"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9849\/revisions\/9850"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=9849"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=9849"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=9849"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}