{"id":9871,"date":"2015-11-05T16:24:27","date_gmt":"2015-11-05T12:24:27","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/kultur.az\/?p=9871"},"modified":"2015-11-05T16:24:27","modified_gmt":"2015-11-05T12:24:27","slug":"aysel-abdullazad%c9%99-analarin-eqoistc%c9%99sin%c9%99-ogul-sevgisi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/?p=9871","title":{"rendered":"Aysel Abdullazad\u0259 – Analar\u0131n eqoistc\u0259sin\u0259 o\u011ful sevgisi"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"12108797_10207817971677409_4302331997601798134_n\"<\/a>Analar o\u011fullar\u0131n\u0131 o q\u0259d\u0259r eqoistc\u0259sin\u0259 sevirl\u0259r ki, bu, g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259kd\u0259 \u00f6vlad\u0131n ya\u015fam\u0131na da m\u0259nfi \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 siray\u0259t edir. Lap ki\u00e7ik ya\u015flar\u0131ndan b\u00fct\u00fcn varl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, kimliyini, daxilini \u00f6vlada ba\u011flay\u0131b, sonras\u0131nda onun h\u0259yat\u0131n\u0131 m\u0259hdudla\u015fd\u0131ran analar tan\u0131y\u0131ram. O q\u0259d\u0259r q\u0131sqancl\u0131q ya\u015fay\u0131r ki, o\u011flunu sevdiyi qad\u0131nla bel\u0259 payla\u015fmaq, b\u00f6l\u00fc\u015fm\u0259k ist\u0259mir.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

G\u0259l\u0259c\u0259kd\u0259 ail\u0259 quran o\u011ful ist\u0259kl\u0259rini q\u0131s\u0131tlamal\u0131 olur, ayr\u0131 ev\u0259 bel\u0259 \u00e7\u0131xa bilmir. Anan\u0131n olmazlar\u0131, k\u00fcsk\u00fcnl\u00fcy\u00fc onu buna m\u0259cbur v\u0259 vadar edir. Anaya, bel\u0259 olmaz, etdiyinin do\u011fru olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 dey\u0259nd\u0259 is\u0259 bu eqoist fikirl\u0259ri s\u0259sl\u0259ndirir: “M\u0259n onu b\u00f6y\u00fctm\u00fc\u015f\u0259m, yeti\u015fdirmi\u015f\u0259m, \u0259liml\u0259 yem\u0259k yedirmi\u015f\u0259m, x\u0259st\u0259 olanda ba\u015f ucundan ayr\u0131lmam\u0131\u015fam, indi m\u0259nd\u0259n ayr\u0131 ya\u015famaq ist\u0259yir?”<\/p>\n

Ay ana, s\u0259n bu \u00f6vlad\u0131 d\u00fcnyaya g\u0259tirmis\u0259ns\u0259, bu sayd\u0131qlar\u0131n\u0131, zat\u0259n, etm\u0259lis\u0259n, etm\u0259li idin v\u0259 etmis\u0259ns\u0259, n\u0259 xo\u015f s\u0259n\u0259. B\u00f6y\u00fctm\u0259lis\u0259n, oxutmal\u0131san, imkanlara uy\u011fun normal olan h\u0259r \u015feyl\u0259 t\u0259min etm\u0259lis\u0259n. Ancaq bunlar\u0131 etm\u0259yin s\u0259n\u0259 \u0259sas vermir ki, \u00f6vlad\u0131n\u0131n g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259k h\u0259yat\u0131n\u0131 k\u00f6lg\u0259l\u0259y\u0259s\u0259n, ondan iki \u0259ll\u0259 yap\u0131\u015f\u0131b, s\u0259nin ist\u0259diyin ixtisas\u0131 se\u00e7m\u0259diyi \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn, s\u0259nd\u0259n ayr\u0131 qald\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn, sevdiyi qad\u0131n oldu\u011fu \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn onu nankor adland\u0131rasan!<\/p>\n

Analar, \u00f6vladlar\u0131na daxili ba\u011f\u0131ml\u0131l\u0131q hissi il\u0259 ya\u015fay\u0131rlar. Bu he\u00e7 bir formatda d\u00fczg\u00fcn deyil. H\u0259r insan\u0131n \u015f\u0259xsi h\u0259yat\u0131 onun \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259y\u00f6n\u0259likdir. Ana bel\u0259, \u00f6vlad\u0131n\u0131n h\u0259yat\u0131na m\u00fcdaxil\u0259 etm\u0259kd\u0259, onu \u00f6z ist\u0259kl\u0259rin\u0259 uy\u011fun \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 istiqam\u0259tl\u0259ndirm\u0259kd\u0259 h\u00fcquqsuz v\u0259 haqs\u0131zd\u0131r. Ana, balas\u0131na qar\u015f\u0131 olan anal\u0131q v\u0259zif\u0259l\u0259rini \u00f6vlad\u0131n\u0131n ba\u015f\u0131na vuraraq, bunu \u0259sas g\u0259tir\u0259r\u0259k onun ist\u0259diyi h\u0259yat\u0131 ya\u015fama\u011f\u0131na mane olmamal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n

\u0130nsanlar s\u0259rb\u0259st \u015f\u0259kild\u0259, he\u00e7 kimd\u0259n as\u0131l\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 olmadan ya\u015fay\u0131b yaratmal\u0131d\u0131r. N\u0259 ana \u00f6vlad\u0131ndan, n\u0259 d\u0259 \u00f6vlad anadan as\u0131l\u0131 v\u0259ziyy\u0259td\u0259 olmamal\u0131d\u0131r. H\u0259r iki \u015f\u0259xsin individual h\u0259yat\u0131 v\u0259 ya\u015fam \u015f\u0259rtl\u0259ri \u00f6z\u00fc \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcnd\u00fcr.<\/p>\n

Burada b\u0259hs etdiyimiz m\u00f6vzu tam olaraq bu \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 eqoizm s\u0259rgil\u0259y\u0259n ana-qad\u0131n obraz\u0131na aiddir. Dig\u0259r situasiyalar\u0131 \u0259sas g\u0259tirm\u0259kl\u0259, m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259nin m\u0259\u011fzind\u0259n uzaqla\u015fmayaq.<\/p>\n

Yaz\u0131ya 775 d\u0259f\u0259 bax\u0131l\u0131b<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Analar o\u011fullar\u0131n\u0131 o q\u0259d\u0259r eqoistc\u0259sin\u0259 sevirl\u0259r ki, bu, g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259kd\u0259 \u00f6vlad\u0131n ya\u015fam\u0131na da m\u0259nfi \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 siray\u0259t edir. Lap ki\u00e7ik ya\u015flar\u0131ndan b\u00fct\u00fcn varl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, kimliyini, daxilini \u00f6vlada ba\u011flay\u0131b, sonras\u0131nda onun h\u0259yat\u0131n\u0131 m\u0259hdudla\u015fd\u0131ran analar tan\u0131y\u0131ram. O q\u0259d\u0259r q\u0131sqancl\u0131q ya\u015fay\u0131r ki, o\u011flunu sevdiyi qad\u0131nla bel\u0259 payla\u015fmaq, b\u00f6l\u00fc\u015fm\u0259k ist\u0259mir. G\u0259l\u0259c\u0259kd\u0259 ail\u0259 quran o\u011ful ist\u0259kl\u0259rini q\u0131s\u0131tlamal\u0131 olur, ayr\u0131 ev\u0259 bel\u0259 \u00e7\u0131xa bilmir. […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[6],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9871"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=9871"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9871\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":9872,"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9871\/revisions\/9872"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=9871"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=9871"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kultur.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=9871"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}